Who was in the wrong

>>18337628
Maybe, maybe not. Though ghosting in that position is kind of immature thing to do.

>>18337638
What would be the mature thing to do. I didnt want to hang out with her and her new bf after not talking for over a year

>>18337628

>>18337642

Just tell her you don't want to hang out with her and her boyfriend. Are people really this clueless? You can just say that stuff, you know.

>>18337659
Why would I tell her that.

>>18337709
Because your friends and you don't want to hurt her when she hasn't done anything wrong.

At the very least let her know you only want to meet up one-on-one.

>>18337628

>>18337709

Are you serious with this question? I truly cannot believe that you asked this.

Because it's true. Because supposedly she is (at least somewhat) your friend and therefore you are able to talk to her. Because you dated and were "in love" and that should also mean that you can talk to her. Because you have respect for yourself and can state and explain your boundaries and clearly explain what you want and what you don't want. Why do I have to explain this? OP, you are emotionally immature and have no business dating anyone.

>>18337763
But nothing in your post correlates to my situation.

>>18337740
I really see no need to explain myself to her. We are barely friends.

>>18337803
The more comments i read from you, the worse i feel for that poor girl

>>18338006
No need to feel for her. Shes with her bf.