Boyfriend has trouble coming. We regularly go 3-5 rounds with nothing. He is for sure attracted to me. He is stressed with college. I can't think of anything else that could contribute... Pic is from last night. He got me to do coke for the 1st time. Hes about a 1x month user if thats relevant. He did a line off my ass.
Your bf seems like a great guy.
>>18336521
that's not too abnormal. he'll probably cum more consistently over time. for some guys sex isn't totally about the orgasm. just don't think of it as a problem and it won't be one. do what you can to make him cum, but don't feel like a failure if you can't, just be down to try.
Nice ass. Idk what to tell you. I'd probably focus on what you can do to make him want you. What are your physical attributes?
What's the problem?
>>18336521
lulz good job
keep it up OP :)
Haven't been here awhile, so
This is the new /adv/, basically /soc/ + /b/
>>18336521
What the fuck even is this thread?
Is this bait?
Gtfo my board normie, you don't belong here.
>>18336521
What are your initials?
FH?
Ex-coke user here--I'm not trying to scare you but cocaine is some serious shit, and if you are concerned for your well-being then you either need to bring it up with him or get the fuck out of dodge. If he gives you shit for it then that's a pretty clear signal that your relationship is in hot water. People who do coke do not need an excuse to use other than to get high, often at the expense both their own health as well as others. Do not romanticize the situation to any extent.
>>18336558
and by bringing it up with him, I mean in a way that is safe. cocaine users can be extremely volatile and do some pretty sociopathic shit,
>>18336521
>no cock
dropped
>>18336538
This is the most relevant to our situation. I don't think its me and he is definitely more focused on me
>>18336553
ugh I swear if this is actually FH your life is spiraling out of control. First you start hooking up with a convict now this?
>>18336521
is he on any medication? is he drunk when you are fucking? not sure if coke can inhibit the ability to orgasm, ive never done it. but when i get past a certain point of drunk, the likelihood of actually busting a nut is minimal. and i know plenty of meds can do that to you as well. have you tried catering to his fetishes/fantasies?
>>18336521
Yeah, chances are he's more than just a once a month user, listen to >>18336558
Also, who are you even sending this to?
>>18336521
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>>18336593
My initials are vmd but ok and we're in college doing coke occasionally. Were mainly stoners
>>18336521
I have the same issue, actually i cant cum until I finish myself off.
Did my research some years ago, its a condition named Delayed Ejaculation in my case.
he might have the same
>>18336627
No sober and yes i have he says even when he jacks off he has this issue>>18336642
He sent it to a couple of his friends back home he rolls weed on my ass a lot too
>>18336664
He says its hard to even get himself off
>>18336671
Same as me, It might be Delayed Ejaculation then.
Everything goes normally in sex, just that I cant cum, last hours and feels forced towards the end.
If he is experiencing the same, then it is prob the same
>>18336521
Nice to not have a problem with erection though.
Shit sucks.
>He got me to do coke for the first time last night.
Your bf cumming late is the least of your problems and his. JFC. Really?
>>18336681
Any solution?
>>18336695
So long as you practice harm reduction whats wrong with recreational drug use?
>>18336724
It's one thing to smoke weed once it awhile. It's another to do coke. I personally see a big difference.
>>18336735
Oh no we smoke weed daily
>>18336735
Because it's perceived as a 'hard' drug?
>>18336779
Exactly. And the side effects, addiction rates etc. are much higher and more dangerous
>>18336809
Hence why i mentioned harm reduction.
>>18336711
What works for me might not work for him. I found that in order to cum I need to push the bar a little further (fetishes).
But every now and then I need to go further, bc I get used to and the Delay comes again.
The medical way of treating it is by going with a psicologist, because the condition comes from stuff in your head.
>>18336521
Serious question OP. Does your bf watch a lot of porn and jack off to it?