Kinda hate my brother. I dont want to, help :(

>>18334187
tell him how you feel

>>18334375
tried that, he says that its bc he needs to grow up. But then again, does nothing about it

>>18334187
>AND NEVER DID THE DISHES

what a complete bastard omfg, i cant even

>>18334456
ikr, that motherfucker just stacked the crap by his computer

>>18334187
I was in a similiar situation a while back, i used to hate my brother, he was a complete burden to the whole family and and a useless human.
Maybe you might have to accept that some people will never change, and you'll never have a close relationship with them, but that doesn't mean you can't have a healthy and cordial relationship

>>18334551
Well yeah, I think I already knew that, its just that its so sad :(

Thanks anyway :(

sounds like me, lazy, a hypocrite, and addicted to video games.

send him to military school

>>18334187

He probably has low self esteem. You seem to have your shit together and he does not. So the best way for him to escape this reality is to fuck up again and again. If this is the picture of both of you, I have to say you guys are quite attractive boys!

Your mom isn't helping by enabling him to be so lazy and parasitic. You're growing up and will be leaving the house. We all have our own paths to take. So your brother is not your responsibility. He is a man. Every man must own their lives. Don't hate, just accept that it is how he is and understand that you are the better man.

>>18334597
This. Army will do him some good, hooah.

>>18334597
>send him to military school
can OP do this though? legal guardian and stuff

>>18334603
Thanks! Actually yeah, that pic is from 2015 I think

I know he is not my responsability. I already accepted that I cant do nothing else to help him, Im not his dad. The thing that angers me is his lack of help in the housecores and the litter he left behind himself
>>18334604
I dont live in murica, so we dont have millitary camps. Anyways as>>18334617 said Im just his brother, i have no legal right over him

>>18334187

Ok, usually anger and hate towards a sibbling is just misplaced anger and hate. You don't hate your brother, you hate your parents because they were unfair with you. He was an asshole that always got away with what he wanted and you couldn't. (there might be a little jealousy though)

So don't worry about it, you don't hate him. Now let me tell you about why you think you do. You see, children that were rebelious against their parents in ancient times were just disposed of. You have an ingrained survival strategy of not being too rebelious against your parents becuase that means you die. So, when your parents are unfair, it's easier to hate on your brother than to hate on your parents (hating on your brother, won't get you killed).

Resolve those issues with your parents. Then the hatred will go away. That hatred is just a symptom of something else. After your hatred goes away, you can actually try to help him fix the fucked up life he's living

>>18335966
I was a pretty rebelious kid myself, I was the kind of kid that Smoked weed and had tattoos at 15.

But even being that way I had a little of self respect and kept clean the place I live on.

We live on a Flat 180 square meters or smt, we also have 4 cats and a dog, so if we dont mantain the place clean it starts to stink pretty fast. Its a common space for 3 persons, and he doesnt respect the basic rules to peacefully coexist.