>be me
>shy girl is into me
>take shy girl out on date, pay for dinner
>she has expressed before that she is into me
>after dinner she leans in to hug me
>I hug back and say bye
How do I actually kiss her? She is shy, and I am the first guy she has been into / gone on a date with. I do not know how to initiate a kiss.
Do it when you guys are alone..
When you're holding hands or something when the timing is right just lean in for a kiss, she's in to you so no reason she will back off..
hell, i dated a really shy girl and when we were sort of alone and the atmosphere was right i asked her if its okay to kiss her she got red af but closed her eyes and just kissed her.
good luck anon
>>18332124
>i asked her
Give it some time then just kiss her when you feel like it. In the right moment, not awkwardly in front of people. Do it in private. Is this your first time too? Sheesh.
>>18332124
Beta as fuck.
OP Don't ask her. Please. Just do it.
>>18332077
Sometimes asking first, if they are really shy, is a good idea because they don't freeze up as some do when they get surprised.
>>18332183
It also gives her the ability to say no every single time you ask. And she will freeze up if you ask as well so...
Op just talk to her after the kiss and you will be fine. Don't kiss and bail.
>>18332212
If she says no, it saves you the embarrassment of her pulling away. You're advocating rape you know. Consent is everything!
>>18332246
>Consent is everything!
leaning in and stopping when she pulls away is the way to go, not committing assault-kissing, duh.
>>18332254
Fuck it, just rape her. That'll knock the shy right out of her. She isn't a jew is she? If she is, kill her first, then rape her.
>no consent needed
>shadilay
To be fair, if she's really shy she probably didn't want to kiss after the first date anyway. If she is confidently going in for a hug, that's her way to signal that that's what she wants. Not that you didn't do the magic trick to unlock the kissing level.
You can tell when the moment is right when there's lots of (smaller or longer) loaded silences - not uncomfortable silence, just that you can feel the tension. When you are either looking each other in the eye for a long time or she cannot for the life of her meet your eyes for longer than a second (combined with smiling and otherwise receptive behavior). Then say her name (has my preference I guess, you can do something like saying "wait" if you are talking) and when she looks up, smile and lean in. She should instantly close her eyes.
Or you can peck her on the cheek first and if you can tell she loves it, go for a kiss on the mouth.