How do I deal with being ugly?
I always just thought I was decent looking, not handsome, but not repulsive either. I have good hygiene and dress decently, but have some acne scars on my cheek.
After battling hair loss, I recently shaved my head and feel so fucking disgusting. I purposely avoid reflections and take my glasses off when I go to the restroom so the mirror looks blurry. I am also really scrawny. My confidence is in the toilet and its all I ever think about.
I feel like no girl will ever want to be with me, so i dont even try.
I also avoid crowded places in my college, I dont like people looking at me.
>>18323292
what are you basing your assessment of your ugliness on?
>>18323292
Fuck ugly chicks.
>>18323292
The scrawny part is far and away the dealbreaker in the situation, not your baldness. Unless you're Rocky Dennis, your face is good enough to get a girlfriend. Dudes who look like English bulldogs can land poon. Your face is fine.
The scrawny part is what sucks. Chicks don't want a rail-thin, noodle guy. You don't need to be beefcake, but you should at least have some meat on your bones. Start lifting. Eat right. And by right, I mean enough. Enough of the right foods, for optimum nutrition and protein intake to coincide with your workouts. Your other problems will sort themselves out when you get some self confidence. Taking care of your body will help build that.
Fuck fat girls problem solved .
>>18323292
>I feel like no girl will ever want to be with me, so i dont even try.
That's the first step to coping, is to stop trying. The fact that you created this thread tells me you hang on to some hope that you're wrong and you're not as bad as you think you are. Abandon that hope now. It makes everything much easier. I clung onto it until my late twenties; only now in my thirties have I actually given up. I wish I would have done that five years ago.
>>18323302
I am going to gain weight and grow a beard, ill at least look somewhat manlier.
I am also going to step my /fa/ game up a bit
>>18323322
>>18323300
I never really wanted to be promiscuous, I just wanted a qt shy gf. I figured I would eventually meet one, but now since I feel like shit, i started to doubt i ever would
I am not going to be with girls I dont like just for the sake of having a gf
>>18323302
How long does it take to become not-scrawny?
>>18323434
3 years
>>18323511
thats probably if you want to get really shredded
gaining weight and putting on a little bit of muscle to make less scrawny should only take like 3 months
>>18323567
What should I do if I'm skinnyfat? I want to lose the day while putting on muscle