What are my options? My relationship with my younger teenage

>>18323222
>little respect for authority
>This includes me.

This is the problem. You are not an authority. You are their sibling.

Hang out with her. Try to understand her on a personal level. Talk to her as a friend. Give her friendly advice and stop trying to be her third parent.

It's not your job to judge her or condescend to her. Accept your sister for who she is. That's family.

Unless she's physically attacking you, you are being far too sensitive. The fact that you are considering beating up a teenager is indicative of some serious rage/anger/insecurity/arrogance/superiority/etcetera that you should probably take care of.

It's also not your job to judge the way your parents choose to raise or discipline your sister. She is not your child. You do not get a say.

Stay in your lane.

>>18323222
>She often has a terrible disposition
Details? How old is she exactly?

>and little respect for authority. This includes me.
Kek. You have no authority, nigga, and since the parents seems too be too lazy to give a fuck, neither are they.

>If I give into her demands
Like?

>I could beat her up to teach her some respect
That'll only teacher her to hate you and possible men like you.

>though I'll be referred to as a woman beater and hated by my parents
Ah, yes. People will call you names. That's the biggest issue with violence indeed.

>>18324080

t. single parent

She is a teenage girl op. She doesn't want anything to do with you and you have nothing to earn her respect. That's just how it is

>>18324080
>>18324149
>>18324180

I'm not trying to be her parent. I'm minding my own business. My parents want me involved.

Examples of her behavior:
> Intentionally goes out of her way to bother me. Standing in my path. Going in my room and doing whatever she wants. And just the other day, I turned down the music (which didn't concern her whatsoever) and she came in and turned it back up. Repeatedly. When I stood in her path to prevent her from continuing, she physically assaulted me. And she regularly makes threats. She does this because there's little in the way of consequences.
> Refuses to do her chores and disrespects my mother (shouting and saying what she will/will not do). Saw that she posted a mocking video of her on social media a day or two ago.
> Used my mother's debit cards to purchase clothes she was told not to buy.
> I ask her important questions or just try to be friendly. She ignores me and tells me to leave her room if I open her door. And she'll get violent if I don't listen. So she gets sick one day and I don't check in on her. Expecting the same behavior as usual. And then my mother is upset with me because I didn't baby my sister.
> Heck, my mother usually tries to avoid dealing with her. The number of chores and requests seem to be shrinking by the week.

And I can list plenty more examples if needed. I try to be the most peaceful person I can possibly be and go out of my way to avoid conflict. My friends can attest to that.

But my parents stress this "you need to have a good relationship with her" meme. It's not like I want a bad one. But it's difficult to deal with someone like her.

>>18324318
>When I stood in her path to prevent her from continuing, she physically assaulted me.
That's where you totally have the right to shove her to the side. Also obviously telling her to fuck off when coming to you room.

>She ignores me and tells me to leave her room if I open her door.
Well, don't. Do the small talk on a neutral territory.

As for the rest, not much you can do. Sounds like your mother spoiling her, which limits your impact a lot. Generally she sounds like the biggest problem, not your sister, so try making her adjust her behavior. With your sis, just act as nice/polite as possible without letting her to step over your boundaries. You can't do the parenting with the means available.

>>18324318
yyour problem here is your mother, not your sister.
Notice how all these examples are just "my mother doesn't deal with her enough and I am left with the bullshit"?
As other have said, this shouldn't be your business, but your inadequate parents put this in your way.
You have to remember that this shouldn't be your responsibility, first off, and that you aren't in your lane even though it's not entirely your fault.
Second, you have to somehow realize that it's your parents who are irresponsible and don't take care of both you and your sister. You're not her parent, not her babysitter, and you shouldn't have to be. She's a teenager. You're a young adult at best. They're adults with a family and a responsibility, they ar the ones who should be in charge. Do not be afraid to attribute blame to those who actually deserve it: you should not have to raise your sister and protect your parents.
Finally: you do have a problem with superiority and compassion. Hitting a teenage girl is not a solution and the fact that it only bothers you for the wrong reasons is concerning. Not saying you're a psycopath because this situation seems emtionally draining, but keep that in check.

TL;DR: you've been put in the role of a responsible adult when this shouldn't happen. You blame your sister because blaming your inedequate parents is always hard. You are building a wall of ego around your emotions to somehow manage being put in that role. It's not your fault, but it is unhealthy as fuck.

Try reflecting, talking with the people involved, going to a therapist. This situation seems draining for you and it looks like it's going to end with a lot of ugly emotional stunting for everyone

>>18324339
>>18324348
I doubt my mother will be changing anytime soon. She thinks she has been nothing but a good mother and rarely admits fault. If she ever verbally expresses regret it's "maybe I was too nice."

My mother has even taunted me with "you're afraid of your sister, she frightens you doesn't she" nonsense. Um, what? How does one keep their sanity under such circumstances?

Neither of them will cooperate with me or take me seriously, so I have as little to do with them as possible. Trust me. I don't want to hurt anyone. But I'm in a pretty miserable situation. I intend to leave home within the coming months and at the latest by the end of the year.

>>18324318
your parents are gonna lose 2 kids to inaction.

>>18323222

I know a guy he has sex with his sister. He used his dick to pop her four foot blister and i know It's not that cool .He fucked her in my swimming pool. He's got three testicles and he loves to uhh do shit...

>>18324318
This sounds like me except buying clothes with parent's card (they're broke)
Also my parents dislike me and no one tries to be friendly

>>18323222

You don't do anything. You are in a family. It is about WE.

You dicuss it with your parents, they are wiser than you, one of your parents probably behaved like your sister when they were young, so they know how to recognize it and how to deal with it.

Maybe your dad behaved like that when he was younger, but he took the consequences, so he can talk to her way better than you can.

You do it as a team. Right now it is you against your sister and your parents. Get the parents on your side, then put her in her place together.

>>18323222

>little respect for authority
>This includes me

You're her brother, not her parent. You don't have any actual authority over her nor is disciplining her your responsibility. Trying to act as a figure of authority when it's not your place only makes you lose whatever respect you might have as her brother, friend or an ally. The whole point of being siblings is that you're on the same line in the end, subjects to your parents' authority, so you stick by each other and have each other's backs. She doesn't owe you respect, like she might owe your parents, and you're failing to gain her respect by acting outside your role description.

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>>18325494
I'm really sorry that you're dealing with such a neglectful parent. Don't get caught up in any bait your mom or sister lay out. Have a serious sit down with your mom and explain how this situation is bothering you. Emotionally. Minus the part about hitting your sister.

It's good that you're already making plans to improve your living situation. I'm proud of you. I would even suggest seeking therapy so you can have a soundboard that can help you cope while you work towards leaving home.

Just try to remember that even though you have a brat of a sister, she like you, are products of your mother's parenting. Focus on her.Not your sis.

First of all talk to your parents. They're the main problem here. But don't just bitch about how your sister is bothering you. Tell them that your sister is an annoying cunt (use prettier words though), that you're worried for her future and that it's because of them. Tell them they didn't gave her any discipline and they didn't teach her how to properly interact with other humans and that will bite her in the ass later. Tell them that if they keep enforcing this behavior you're not going to "stick together" with her because she's not the kind of person you want to "stick together" with. If they're not completely irrational morons they'll give it a thought, at least.

Then, no matter what the result with your parents talk is tell the same thing to your sister. That she's an annoying cunt (again, make it sound less insulting), that she's bothering you and that you'll cut her from your life if she doesn't change. At first she'll obviously be annoyed by it, but if you show her that you're not putting up with it she might actually give it some consideration. Of course, if your parents keep reinforcing her behavior you probably won't change much.

The most important thing to do is to STOP ENABLING HER. Don't beat her you fucking caveman, but don't let her get away with the shit she does either. If she's being a cunt tell her to stop being a cunt and then ignore her or remind her to stop being a cunt until she stops being a cunt. If she does something stupid rebuke her. Don't threaten her or let her drag you in some stupid argument, just tell her that what she did was stupid and she shouldn't do it again. Let her know you only want her well-being, but don't ignore her bad behavior. And try to make your parents do the same.

Also if she comes in your room and starts messing with your shit tell her to fuck off and if she doesn't physically escort her outside. If she calls you names or yells at you for no reason tell her to stop acting like a baby then ignore her.

>>18326064
tell her that she's an annoying cunt*

>>18323222
Move out