How to make yourself feel sexually attracted to someone?

Either you wait for it to happen or deal with the fact that you may be having antisocial personality disorder.

Do you get aroused by porn?

>>18322004
I do not have APD. I have plenty of empathy and good relationships with other people. I'm not that charming either so seems unlikely.

Yep porn is fine but I'm not attracted to the people in it. I usually need a story of some kind to get into it and animated stuff works better for me.

Same way, OP.
I always hated truth or dare when I was younger because the leading topic was always "I dare you to tell the truth Anon...who is your crush?" And they never accepted "I don't have one" because apparently it's impossible not to have a crush?

It'd be nice to know what a crush 'feels' like though, but I've just never been crazy over a person like that.

>>18322026
I've had crushes before but it wasn't until last year that I realize people used the word crush to describe people they wanna fuck. All my crushes were just people I was romantically interested in.

>>18321975
So what exactly is your problem?
Not being attracted to anybody?
Unknow sexual orientation?
Low libido?
Excepting love in first eye contact?
Being lonely?

What is your problem? Almost nobody experience love on first sight. Most dudes are just chasing girls for pussy and the girls are trading pussy for commitments, marriage, kids and so on.

Are you horny op?

>>18322016

Ok, good.
Maybe you just need someone special?
I have the "problem", that I am only really interested in women that I can have more than my fair share of intelligent conversations with. No matter how physically attractive a woman is, if I notice her being dumb, I am immediately losing interest.

>>18322039
Not being attracted to anyone. I'm not lonely and my libido is fine.

I'm not expecting love at all, most people don't interest me. I'd just like to experience that wanting or 'urge' other people describe.

I don't think I've ever been horny because of another person.

>>18322046
I've never been sexually interested in any of my crushes or even friends that I respect.

>>18322053
>urge
Stop fapping and consuming porn. If you are healthy male, sooner or latet being in same room with a sexy girl will do something with you.
https://yourbrainonporn.com/

As to with having somebody special, date some girls, pick one you find most compatible with you personality wise and life goals wise and
>fake it until you make it.
Most guys dont feel any love at all, but when you spend few months with some cheerful qtie, you will realize that you arent able to live without her anymore.

Or in time you find out she is bitch and you hate her. Than you break up and repeat. I know this might sound very anti romantical and tiresome approach, but it should work eventually.

Basic stones of relationships are mutual trust and respect. Basically if you do it right, you gain coop player for game called life.

Dont think hard about it and go date somebody. Sex is of course additional bonus to that.

>>18322080
I'm female so I don't know if any of that applies. And I've spent months with no porn or masturbation with no change except less romantic interest.

I'm not interested in dating. I don't particularly want someone special. I'm not very interested in a relationship and even if I was, I very rarely find anyone aesthetically pleasing.

I don't really crave sex at all which is kinda what I'm asking about.

>>18322098
You sound boring OP. Come date me we can be boring together

>>18322114
You attractive and uninterested in sex?

Let's do this.

>>18322098
Why dont femanons tell from start their gender? Scared of
>post tits or gtfo?

Dear femanon, not even our brightest scientists can not figure out how does female libido works.

Maybe you are
>fat
>hormonal imbalance
>abused as child
>underweigth
>on birth controll
>asexual
>damaged

But one thing is almost sure. Nobody likes to be alone. Do you want kids?

My shitty advice for you to keep doing what you are doing and see if you develop crawings for babies / sex / relationships in time. If you will, then you will also know what to do.

Until then enjoy your single life.

>>18322127

My libido is fine but yeah no desire for babies, sex or relationship.

I'll just have to find something else exciting I guess.

>>18322132
I dont know why i am this biased towards girls thinking, but you claim
>no interest in sex
>libido is fine
Which in my head contradicts itself.

There are girls who are riding cock carousel simply because they want the D. Even the shy and "pure" ones want it.

Are you sure your libido is
>fine?
Isnt here something you havent told us about your life?

Also if you were ok with your situation, you wouldnt make this thread. So what is wrong femanon?

>>18322143
Libido =/= sexual attraction.

I have a libido, I'm just not interested in anyone. I don't find anyone hot or sexy and don't really know what sexy means.

I don't particularly care for being desired one way or the other and flirting and touching isn't ever 'hot' for me.

I find the idea of seeing/meeting someone and having some urge to bring them into bed with me fun and exciting but I've never felt anything resembling that. When I was younger I'd fantasize about being cool and free-spirited and having sex with anyone who caught my fancy but it turns out no one does.

I don't have any hangups about sex and in theory I'm fairly kinky but absolutely no one arouses my desire.

I'm just kinda bummed that I won't be having any illicit rendezvous or ill-conceived sexual exploits to reflect on when I'm older.

Since relationships probably won't do it for me, any ideas how to make life more exciting? I'm already planning a skydiving trip but I'm more interested in things I could do more often like on a day-to-day basis.

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Excluding dating, any ideas how to make life more exciting? I'm already planning a skydiving trip but I'm more interested in things I could do more often like on a day-to-day basis.

>>18322285
This was supposed to be a new thread....

>>18322285
Dont make new threads, when it is all connected.

Games, movies, books, music, painting, sport, bad dragon, acting, working, sleeping, drugs.

Also have you considered goibg to doctor to have blood test to see your hormones are in check?

>>18322313
Yeah my hormones are fine.

Bad dragon?

What ever you do, dont google bad dragon.

<:-D

>>18322324
Well too late but it's just sex toys, no big.