Dilemma

>>18320408

It's not your fault. You like her as a person, as a friend. That's certain. And you're not attracted to heavier girls, that's normal and not necessarily a bad thing. Just treat her like a normal friend and don't give off vibes like you're going to reciprocate romantically. Friendzone that chubs!

More input would be greatly appreciated.

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>>18320408
>Am I a bad shallow person?
No
>What the fuck am I supposed to do?
Tell her you don't find her sexually attractive. Might be painful but it's the only thing you really can do.

Calm down. Life goes on whatever you do. Do whatever seems best at the moment and things work themselfs out.

just tell her you only see her as a friend. It is the truth. Obviously you're a tiny bit shallow since it primarily a surface change but not really because being overweight is kind of a character flaw as well if we are being honest.

>>18320408
What do you think will hurt her feelings more, you telling her that you're no longer attracted to her (even despite the weight gain, it's been three months, that's long enough for feelings to change) or you fucking her when you don't want to, leading her on, and her later finding out you only did it out of pity, or worse perceiving your later lack of interest to mean you only used her for sex?

>>18320575
I would never use her. I was hoping maybe my feelings come back when we make out... I want to give her chance maybe? I am confused... I like her.

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>>18320408
This is a perfect opportunity OP. Cajole her into losing weight and take the opportunity to work on your manipulation. Fat girls tend to be the easiest types of women to manipulate because they're already incredibly insecure and the thought of someone they're interested in liking them too is relatively rare. Dangle the threat of abandonment in front of her and slowly change her habits. This can be done either by coaxing her with positive reinforcement or through negativity and a barrage of insults when she does something that makes her gain weight. You get the girl you liked back and she gets back her old body, its a win-win.

>>18320603
Whether you would never use her doesn't matter, it's whether she'll feel like you did later on and how much this will hurt her. Just be honest and up-front about it, you used to like her, three months later things changed. If you want to give her a chance then give her a chance, but don't go just fucking people to be polite you autist.

>>18320603
To add on that: during our walk in the park there were moments of silence between us but it wasn't awkward silence. We even talked about it how nice it is to be with someone you're comfortable with be silent and just enjoy the moment. It was special.

>>18320408
Anon, you are human, physical attraction can't be ignored. Not wanting to be with a fat girl is not a character flaw. Accept yourself. It doesn't mean you're a bad person and it doesn't mean she is either.