Am I remotely attractive?

>>18319434
No, but it's because you're fat, lose weight and you'll reveal you're true facial aesthetics.

No, unless the girl has a chub fetish.

But you could be if you start lifting. Theres hope for you, OP.

Depends you look ok but I wouldn't wear dark clothing. Try wear ing more revealing clothes working out could help

>>18319440
Yeah I know, Im gonna hit the gym when I move out for college this summer. Im no stranger to it either, I'll definitely work hard at that. Thanks anon!

>>18319434
There's an old saying "Show me who your friends are, and I'll show you your future."

It's a silly saying, of course, but if you spent a year hanging out at /fit/ you would look different.

Yes, let's not beat around the bust, you are fat.

Out of ten you are a 4 or 5. You are not hideous, there is nothing disgusting or repulsive about you, but you are fat.

The sooner you adress your fatassness, the better, you fat piece of shit.

There are thousands of good ways to drop your flab (browsing /fit/ comes in handy here)

And your entire face changes, you become a different, much sexier person. (Did I mention browsing /fit/ you fat ass piece of shit? Because if you spent a year browsing fit, you'd have hundreds of flabby loser faces who became aesthetic in your memory bank, this is motivating beyond what I can explain.)

Or maybe you want to be a piece of shit all your life? Maybe you want to watch the females choose your friends instead of you? Maybe you want to have life beat you down over and over, and never experience the feeling of winning?

Maybe. But I doubt it.

>>18319460
I usually wear different colored hoodies, even during summer. Gym is definitely on my to do list

>>18319434
you've already mentioned going to the gym so i say for sure do that. maybe after 6 months or so at the gym i would go with a different shorter haircut. i feel like losing weight will show off your facial features and a good haircut would add to it.

good luck anon!

>>18319434
>lose 30lbs (go to /fit/)
>lose the hat
>get a haircut
is laser eye surgery an option? Glasses look kinda thick.

>>18319477
How constructive, /fit/ definitely noted! I'll check it out

>>18319434
*shrug*

No fucking idea.

You're not exactly UNATTRACTIVE, but it's also hard to say if you will become attractive.

Youre not ugly, but you've got messy as fuck hair, a shit as fuck fashion sense, crappy glasses, baby face with baby fat, and a few pounds too many.

And ALL of that can change if you work out, find someone to cut your hair, buy some new clothes, and put on a few years.

So it's impossible to say what you COULD look like in a few years.

Could you be a potential hottie? Maybe? Maybe not. Right now though you're pretty bland looking as it stands.

Keep in mind I'm saying this as a dude, and as someone who's probably got a decade on you.

You've got potential in you, it's up to you to dig it out.

>>18319506
Equally important, for the love of god, don't go to /fa/. But still, lose the hat / hoodie with zipper / rediculously coloured earbuds / hair. Hair and hoodie look like you're trying to hide something.

>>18319481
It's easy to be fat, you fat piece of shit, because no one ever calls you out on it.

I am calling you out on it.

You will never be happy being a fat peice of shit. NEVER.

Ever single thing that happens in the next 40 years of your life (you only get 40 more, because you are fat, lose weight, and you'll get more)

Every single thing that happens to in the next 40 years of your fat life is tainted, tinged, colored, by your fatness.

Do you realize that nothing you experience from this point, is independent of your fatness?

Now is the time. You don't have to be this way. Now is the time to decide that you arent going to be a fat piece of shit for 40 more years.

You cannot maintain your weight. NO ONE MAINTAINS THEIR WEIGHT.

You either get bigger or smaller (if you don't decide to change right now, the rest of your life is a story of you getting fatter and fatter until you die)

Instead of the very real horror that nature has in store for you, it's time to use your brain and stop it.

Every day spend two hours browsing /fit/. Your psyche can not stand a year of 2-hour-a-day /fit/ browsing, you will become too knowledgeable, too disgusted with yourself, too sick of your choice of body (do you realize that your current body was a choice? it was not forced on you),

You are very average. Lise weight, cut hair, you will get way more attention.

>>18319434
Lose some weight, hit the weights and I think you'll look like a pretty good looking dude.

>>18319507
I"ll take everything you said as motivation to get fit , thank you!

>>18319504
I'm too poor for laser eye surgery and I'd say the same the same to contacts as well lol. I'll get a job and look into that.

>>18319434
As someone who works out and goes on /fit/, I want to make one point across. Others said you should hit the gym, etc. They're not wrong. But don't get set on getting "swole brah". Unless you really want to/enjoy lifting, just getting into decent shape is enough.

Eating healthy/not too much is a good portion of getting into shape. You could drop the pounds by walking more, biking, or any other exercise. But the main thing is GOOD calories in vs calories out. Sure, you could lose weight while eating McDonald's, but that'll be a heavy toll on your body. Eat chicken breasts, veggies and some rice.

A good app for keeping track of macronutrients is MyPlate (android and iOS), made by livestrong, and if you input your current weight and target weight, it'll tell you how much to eat and your daily macros.

Don't worry about mad gainz(tm), it's meant to be a hobby or sport, not a confidence fixer. You'll already get such a confidence boost by losing some pounds.

And one thing to always remember, you got to want it. It'll be hard. You'll progress, have set backs. But if you want it, it'll happen.

>>18319434
If you lossed weight and cleaned yourself up a bit you'd be attractive no doubt

>>18319434

You're someone I would also overlook. Not a fan of your hat and curly hair and chubby weight. Maybe you're a nice person but you don't seem interesting and you seem really insecure in a self-centered way. Fix your hair, lose the fucking hat. Stand up straight. Lose some weight. Goddamn

I've seen way chubbier land cute girls. It's all about how comfortable you are in your own skin. But if you want to work out, do it. Just don't do it just to land women because honestly if you don't like yourself/are uncomfortable about yourself, it doesn't matter how you look.

>>18319527
NP, but I should also say, it's NOT just about getting fit.

A lot of what makes guys attractive is self confidence, so it's also about getting to s place in your own head where you find yourself satisfied and proud of what you've done, the efforts you've put in, and who you've become.

I was pretty similar to you growing up (granted, I was skinny as fuck and shorter) but I hit college and decided to change. Over time I figured out who I was, who I wanted to be,and started aiming for that. Over the years I started to own that, to be confident in that, and to trust in all the efforts I KNEW that I'd struggled through to become it,

And THATS when I started to become attractive, not just to myself, but to other people.

Part of this is physical for you, but don't forget get so caught up in that shit you forget the mental.

That's my advice to you and probably what I also would have told my decade younger self.

Just keep at it, it all pays off in some way as long as you keep a strong mentality about it all (that's where I feel like most of the whiners on this board fail. They give up before they ever tried, Or go in thinking they're going to fail anyway, or don't put in their full efforts and quit before they can see results). Influencing change ain't easy, but it's inevitable and it's shapable.

Timestamp or bait

the only thing that can help you is diet + exercise

but on the bright side, that's the only thing you need to worry about. fashion is optional compared to being in shape.

>>18319558
Ima list those foods, I'll keep what you said in mind. Thanks!

>>18319603
No doubt about it at this point, Ima try my hardest to get fit asap

>>18319593
I won't forget this, Im going to print out a bunch of these replies to keep myself reminded. I deeply appreciate your advice!

how come the end all be all solution for a guy is the get swole, even when they are skinny as fuck, while girls that post here are just told to get T H I C C E R and wear more tight clothing. not the op, but it's the first thing I noticed with this board when it comes to general advise

>>18319434
Ok do you want the full honest truth?

>you have an unattractive, unfuckable body
>you also have face fat, making you greasy and unkissable
>your hair is that of a 14 year old, get a short hair cut
>loose the headwear

From human to human, I wouldn't even consider looking your way even if I were drunk.

Listen, anon, with all the love I can muster for a stranger, listen to me

You need one whole fucking year in cardio.
You don't want me to sugarcoat it right?
You aren't average or even normal, you are disgustingly unattractive in terms of body fat

Go to the fucking gym and take this post seriously.
You need to get every second/third day you need a program, a coach, and a fuckload of willpower
If you ever want that "dream" relationship you crave so much

Otherwise you will fucking die alone o guarantee with a fat Face like that.

I know it hurts, but I love you and I wanted to be honest.

>>18319434
Get some better frames. Those glasses look like shit.

Rayban or Bust

Femanon here. I honestly think your cute. Of course I can't speak for all girls because everyone has their own preferences but I really like your unruly hair and your bigger stature. You look fairly tall too which is a bonus

>>18319434
Get a hair cut. The long hair/beanie combo looks too childish and greasy.

Also not going to sugar coat it like you asked but you're fat. You need to get a gym membership, and start paying attention to your diet. You should be eating at 500 calories below your TDEE (if you don't know your TDEE find an online calculator). Also with that you should be eating 1 gram of protein per 1 lbs of lean body mass. So if you're 200 lbs and 25% body fat you should be eating 150g of protein per day.

below is a hypertrophy (enlargement of muscles) workout I made. Sorry Im on an old computer and can't screenshot so im copying and pasting it. I'm not bragging but I'm in very good shape and have done alot of workout routines and this one is good for people at all levels of fitness and If you stick with it you will see results.


Chest & Triceps (3x10)

Bench
Skull Crushers
Incline DB Bench
Push Downs
Chest Flys
Dips (3xF)

Back and Biceps (3x10)

Bent Over Rows 4x12
Pull ups
Lat pull downs
Bicep
Curls Seated rows
DB shrugs (4x20)
Forearm curls
Rear Deltoids

Legs (3x10)
20 minute cardio
Leg press
Weighted Lunges
Leg Extensions
Leg Curls
Hyper Extensions
Calf raises

Shoulders (3x10)
MP or DB Press
Lateral/front raises
Upright Rows
Rear Delts

>>18319917
Understandable, I will work harder than I ever have with your harsh words embedded in my head

>>18320014
I cannot thank you enough for this list. Im going definitely going to try it as soon as I start!

>>18319473
you don't need to hit the gym to lose weight, just eat at a caloric deficit.

You're real fat

>>18319434
Yeah dude, you can make it work. Dedicate 6 months to dropping some pounds you'll enjoy the rest of your life.

>>18320106
this

learn diet stuff first. plan goals, get a food tracker app, etc.

but, op...

your picture, your posture, the way you screwed up your lips taking that pic, the hat, the mop covering your face, the dark clothes...

everything about you is screaming at the world that you want to disappear into the background and avoid attention, even at the cost of any positive attention.

You get overlooked because you are doing things to get overlooked.

>>18319434
As of now not particularly, you have potential though. Get a haircut, hit the gym and/or diet. You won't see it immediately but work hard and you'll get results.

What's with all the faggots calling him >not exactly unattractive or >kinda cute? He wanted you not to sugarcoat it. He is NOT attractive. No girl without brain damage will be happy to be approached by him at a bar.

The good thing is you look like you're not even 18 yet, so go fix yourself

>>18320604
Dude calm tf down he really isn't that bad. A hair cut and a new wardrobe will do him justice stop projecting faggotier

>>18319473
Hitting the gym isn't how you lose weight. Track your food intake

Lose a lot of weight, get some glasses from this decade, take your hair out of your face

also beanies are dead unless they're serving a purpose

>>18321534
and wear cleaner clothes

The good thing about it is that there isn't much to work on other than weight and a hair cut. Just reduce calorie intake and don't drink anything that comes in a can. Increase fruits if you notice your craving for sweets. You'll be shitting out the pounds in no time.

You look like youre gonna get better with age dude. Dont sweat it. Youre not ugly, youre not hot tho. U know?

>>18319434
I honestly like chubby guys my dude. Just lose the beanie and your reclusive sweater and a new haircut and you'll be fine

>>18321542
I guess you like putting people in what u decide is their place

theres no way to see under all the unkemptmess how handsome his true form is. its literally obscured

he could be hot if he took great care of his body and dressed like a bachelor

>>18320106
This. I lost 30 lbs in 4 months by eating at a 500 calorie deficit last year

>>18320106
>>18321565
The older you get, the worse an idea this is. You do need some amount of toned muscle and proper nutrition to function properly for 80+ years.

>>18319477
Not OP, but browsing /fit/ has never helped to motivate me, because half of it is just shitposting and people getting into autistic smug debates about which kind of rows you're supposed to do, and the other half is just softcore porno. Also, bunch of broscience.

I'd say go to a non-retarded fitness forum. Maybe MyFitnessPal or sone thing.

If you dressed better and cleaned up your hair, you might be able to pull of the "adorable chubby Jew nerd" look.

You would have to be funny and have a personality for it to work, though. If you don't, just lose the weight and become actually good looking.

>>18319434
No, sorry. you're that guy I would feel safe playing games with platonically. If you worked out, got a haircut and a bit of style you could be cute

>>18319473
Waiting till tomorrow to get shit done is how you got fat in the first place, homie. Start today. Get a haircut, learn how to dress.

>>18319434
Here are some tips:

Cut that hair.
Kick that beanie.
Wear some damn respectable clothing.
Fix your posture.

That's easy mode.

Hit the gym for extra points.

>>18319434
No, you are unattractive.

These are the steps to fixing it
1) lose fat/build muscle (go to FIT)
2) change your glasses for contacts or get glasses that are stylish
3) change haircut after you've lose weight

>>18319445
>unless the girl has a chub fetish
There's no such thing.

>>18319434
Yes, you are remotely attractive. I would also say that you should lose some weight, but you got good genetics - dark hair, a light brown skin, hair seems to be good and okay to good lineaments (right word? Google translator) in your face.

You have the right basis, now you need to to something out of that. Are you able to grow a beard?

>protip for everyone: wear shirts with the two top buttons open. Should work for OP as well

>>18319434
Haircut. get one, you need it. because your hair looks greasy. also, stand with confidence

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>>18319434

>stop looking sad
>go after chubby girls
>be a loner, hanging around with too many conventionally attractive guys who get girls seemingly easy because they're tall, fit, or attractive is a drain on your self confidence.
>cruise social media for chubby girls that look shy
>make contact and build a connection and compliment them
>be faithful, or at least seem like you want to be
>bang those thick cheeks doggy style, and pop a load all over their soft white ass
>get a reputation for being a player/manwhore
>eventually have everyone hate you, and girls ignore you because they know how you are
>always be moving onto the next one so you don't end up alone

Yeah, I was a short, fat, awkward kid in high school who was still deemed cute enough to get alot of make outs and hook ups, but my tall thin friends got laid all the time. These are tips I wish I had known when I was your age.

>pic related. girl I got with that should be the style you should go for

Do you like to be humiliated? Is that a fetish of yours? Cause you're asking for it with these repeating posts man.
You're unattractive the moment you doubt your own shit. Stop whining about it. Change what u wanna change or learn to love yourself.

>>18323604
Oh and u don't necessarily have to hit the gym. I see hot girls with chubby dudes all the time because some women find chubby masculine. You don't have to buy new clothes because you're gonna always put on shit you think is cool, which is what matters most.
My dude. CONFIDENCE & SELF LOVE!! once you believe you're the shit, so will everyone else.

>>18323486
untrue

>>18323579
Funny story to tell you
>gets with chub chick
>gets dumped cuz shes moving
> she doesnt move after all
>claims im too young anyway
>she still loves me, or so she claims
>she gets with a much more handsome better looking stranger
>forces herself to love him now
>whatever.jpg
>theres another chub chick i like
>she tells me shes with a guy much better looking than i am but he's a huge dirtbag compared to me
>they still smashed
>fml.jpg
>realized I need to up my game now before i hit my 20s
Theres numerous other times i was one up'd by better looking people but you get the idea. My personality isn't a problem, it's my looks and I've come here so people can point out whats definitely wrong with me so I can change it asap.

At least I've started to diet and trying some stuff people mentioned here already. My mind is set on not being a fatass anymore

You're fat, your hair is bad and your clothes are bad. Thankfully all those things are fixable.

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Listen here OP, a quick list what you need to do ASAP:

>Get a proper haircut from your local negro barber
>Get a proper fashion sense
>Hit up some sports to get in shape

Then you will actually score some pussy. You ugly, but you can be glad you can change it unlike other people.

Damn, you're an ugly mother fucker. Lower your standards dude. Go for a fat chick. That is your only chance at finding love.

>>18319434
Lose weight first.