My GF is emotionally cheating on me.

bang her all summer and break up with her, sounds like you having nothing in common.

>>18316057
This 100%

Also you're being cheated on OP

>>18316016
you're being cheated on dude, you're the side piece, not him

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>>18316016

You are the side piece. She is making you look stupid.

>>18316079

why would she live with the side piece?

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>>18316088
Brad (Chad) is across the country working. Grills always want one that is stable/safe and at least one that is badboy/fuckmachine. Which one is OP

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>>18316095
>>18316087
>>18316079
>>18316063

>>18316095
Frogposter looking to stoke his confirmation bias.
Bad analysis is bad, get out.

>>18316095

but Brad literally sits alone is his apartment playing video games, and is 5'8 manlet. I'm 6'2 who actually has a life...im Chad in this...

Sorry, but emotional cheating isn't a thing. You can't throw a fit when your partner is connecting with someone else that isn't you. But if she doesn't wanna fuck them or get physical with them, they're not worth your worries.

At the same time, what the fuck are you doing in a long distance relationship? It's destined to fail unless you have a firm plan in place for it to be a real relationship.

You should dump this girl so you can get into an adult relationship where you see each other for more than just weekends or whatever.

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>>18316106
Kid learns a few new words and is suddenly a psychologist.

What you said wasnt an arguement. Me pointing out that there is nothing suprising about a woman in this situation to cheat is just that, an opinion.

If you're a dude who is worrying about "emotional cheating," then yeah, might as well break it off. Nobody likes a needy cuck.

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>>18316107
If youre chad then enjoy this.

>>18316175
A man should be able to trust a woman without being taken advantage of. If he questions it, maybe that isnt evedence if a fault in him.

>>18316172

>What you said wasnt an argument.

Neither was what you said.

>Me pointing out that there is nothing suprising about a woman in this situation to cheat is just that, an opinion.

And its a dumb opinion; one based on sweeping generalizations about women. Labeling your dumb utterances as an opinion doesn't change the fact that it was dumb.

Lets not play this game where we pretend all opinions are created equal. Lets also not play this game where you make some generalized statement about women based on anecdotal evidence and then put the burden on us to prove you wrong. Its silly.

Two possibilities

1. Girl is treating Brad like her gay best friend. He is friendzoned to the max. If this is true, then there is nothing to worry about

2. Girl is actually has feelings for Brad, but won't admit it to herself. She doesn't want to break up with her because she doesn't know she has feelings for the other guy.

>>18316192

Says the autist attacking someone for giving advice. Were you in this situation before anon and if so, how did it turn?

>>18316016
Are you blind? She's cheating on you. I mean, *cheating* on you.

>>18316172
Psychology is bunk, but cogsci has interesting results.

And yeah it's accurate, cause whatever response you got you'd squeeze it into your redpill faggot read of why you aren't getting any.

I don't know if she is cheating on OP or not, but I'd be pretty pissed if my GF was taking day trips with another guy and not inviting me, even if she wasn't interested.

>>18316198

I'm not that guy, but one of my best friends, this chick I met in college, was in this situation with me like "Brad" is with this girl. I'd known her for a while, we had a ton in common, we hung out all the time. Eventually she met an awesome dude in a study abroad thing while on a trip in France, and she's married to him now.

But you know what? I don't give two fucks, because I didn't want to bang her, she was just a cool chick to be around. He met me and was concerned about me at first, but guess what? I was hooking up with other girls that I was more interested in, so he got to see that I wasn't just pathetically obsessed with her and trying to get her to ditch him.

Now he and I are great pals and we go on trips together and there's no fuckin reason for anyone to be concerned. He could have been a baby about it, but she liked him, he liked her, and now he doesn't have to bullshit with going to Disneyland when he doesn't like it and I do.

>>18316198
Advice? That post wasn't framed as advice bud. Framed as a pill of BS to suck down.

And... You're fishing for anecdotal stuff you can slap read the confirming - and only the confirming parts - of?

Tsk. That's another anon you're arguing with there, BTW.

>>18316198

>Says the autist attacking someone for giving advice.

This is the first post I've made in this thread, homeboy. Secondly, I don't have to have been following the thread closely to know a logical pitfall when I see one.

Its always the case with the pilled out faggots here, making outrageous claims based on anecdotal evidence and /r9k/ propaganda and then demand that people use facts to prove them wrong. That's like me claiming that glow in the dark leprechauns live on pluto and then demanding that you show me numbers and statistics to prove me wrong.

I don't know anything about your gf, but if you say she's loyal and not cheating, I believe you.
But I would bet every penny I own that if you force change and dump her, it wouldn't even be a day before she's bouncing on Brad's cock.
It doesn't matter if he's uglier or shorter than you, girls aren't that visual in the first place. It's why they don't watch porn. It's why there's a bunch of fat guys with hot gfs.

Just dump her man, nothing good can come of being a girl's second choice, trust me.

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>>18316198

>Says the autist attacking someone for giving advice.

Correction. Attacking someone for giving *shitty* advice.

OP why don't your come up with a plan to go on a day trip to some historical sight with your GF. Perhaps your GF wants to do things with this other guy because you don't put in any effort in your relationship.

>>18316217

Did the "we hung out all the time" occur during her relationship with said dude?

a shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on my dude

>>18316300

doesnt that go against the whole friendzone concept?

>>18316281

I'm that guy that she was hanging out all the time with, so yes.

>>18316323

It's just /r9k/ leakage - blame both sides so they can never be culpable for being no fun to be around.

>>18316323
In my experience the friendzone isn't real. As long as if you're a socially conscious, confident, 6+ male with a decent future, climbing out of the friendzone is very easy

OP here, she also asked him to go to london to study abroad spring semester.

>>18316016

My psychiatrist literally laughed at me when I mentioned the concept of emotional cheating to her a while back, she'd never heard of it and was definitely not convinced when I explained it to her.

instead of complaining you need to put an effort into the relationship if you want it to work

women are like this, they are grown children, now brad is interesting, may or may not gobble his semen for it, you arent interesting atm

do something, amuse her, impress her, whatever, just something

>>18316374

I don't believe in emotional cheating either, but if your GF isn't treating her like her #1 friend consistent...might be a problem

>>18316398

Says someone with no friends before getting a girlfriend, I'm sure.

>>18316408

Are you saying I'm wrong about there not being emotional cheating, or I'm wrong that your GF shouldn't have to treat you like her friend?

>>18316382
Why the fuck should he be the one that does all the work? They should be equals.

>>18316415

Wrong that she shouldn't have to treat you like her #1 friend. A relationship is different than a friendship.

>>18316435

Disagree, in most successful relationships the partners discribe themselves as best friends.

>>18316016
Invite him to go out with you guys as a third wheel. No matter how that goes down, it'll force something to happen.

>>18316449

Hes been invited out when I'm around, but never goes out.

>>18316439

Which is a bullshit line they feed each other. Don't get me wrong, I understand that it's super important to consider your partner a friend, and one of your closest friends. You should share quite a bit if it's going to mean marriage.

But there's a lot of complexities there, like whether or not you enjoy fucking. Whether or not you're going to be compatible partners for your kids. Whether or not you can stand being in the same living space all of the fucking time with minimal conflict.

I think my best friend knows me better than anyone ever will, but I don't want to stick my dick in him, I like being able to tell him to fuck off and know that I don't have to share a house with him - the same stuff applies to my closest female friend.

I don't want to force my girlfriend to like shit she clearly hates when I can get it from a pal regardless of their sex.

>>18316349

She asked him to study abroad with her???...lmao she is going to cheat.

>>18316474

this

OP you should dump her even if she is not cheating on you...she sounds really dumb.

>>18316428
its hardly ever the case
grow up, if you want something to be done, do it yourself, pointing fingers who should be doing it doesnt help, unless we speak about professional enviroments and money is involved

>>18317123
Sounds more like to avoid relationships because they expect you to jump through hoops and constantly keep them entertained.