i've been texting this guy on and off for a couple of months

Ask him.

He doesn't want to seem desperate, as that would make any woman, including you, repulsed.

>>18312214
He's probably just a busy dude. I do the same and it's just how I text
If you made plans then there is literally nothing to worry about OP, he likes you. It's just that he is confident and self assured enough to not put you on a pedestal.

>>18312245
I don't think OP is a woman

>>18312249
yeah i considered that. also we send each other basically paragraphs of text so it can be a little exhausting to reply at times. we're both in uni (different ones) and work. i'm only nervous because yeah we've made plans but he hasn't given me an address or anything. he told me where he goes to school though so i have that to go by but still. i text him yesterday to ask if we were still on for monday and so far no response.

If thats normal anyways I wouldnt be worried
A few months is quite a long time for a first meeting though

>>18312309
there was a good 15-18 day block where we didn't speak to each other at all.

I dont want to be an ass, but I can all but confirm youre not the only woman hes been texting.

>>18312214
Don't come to the conclusion that he's not interested if he's not texting you. Sometimes I get so distracted with work and school that I don't text me friends for days. Focus more on how he behaves in person.