Boner problems

It should only show visit info and no medical info if you are over 18. Go to the doctor. You're too young to have ED problems without some contributing factor unless there's more to the story you're not sharing. It could be all in your other head (the one in your neck). Who knows?

>>18312167
i signed the waver to have my medical history sent to them when i was in a car crash earlier in my life. so they get a rundown on everything, status of tests, etc.
what could i be missing in sharing?
if mid july comes around and im still soft im maning up and going anyway.

>>18312172
You can revoke that permission to share that info (if you're in the US). When you go, sign new HIPPA forms telling the doctor you don't give permission to release the data to anyone but the insurance company for payment. Outside the US, not sure how it works.

It's because of porn. It's fairly common, especially if you include guys who don't have real problems but would get hard easier and more often if they didn't jerk off all the time.

Jerking off is fine. It's natural, it's healthy. Only exception is if you throttle your dick too hard (death grip), but that should still allow for boners just decreased sensitivity.
The issue is that porn makes you lazy. It is a really exaggerated show of human sexuality that makes real life sex seem more mundane, more watered down.

Quit porn, learn again to masturbate to your imagination. That's active, you are actively seeing the erotic raw potential in everyday life.

If you don't watch porn that's a lot trickier but I'd just get viagra. If you have not trained yourself wrongly then it is likely at least part insecurity/nerves and knowing that in the worst case scenario you can pop a boner that way should give you some peace of mind.

>>18312193
I'm in the U.S. so i'll have to do that, any idea if theres anyway they'll find out i even went if i pay the co-pay?
>>18312194
i have jerked it to porn about everyday for the past 4 years, sometimes twice a day. i stopped a few days ago to see if that was the problem and theres has been no improvement. . but is this a meme or could this really be the cause?
is viagra over the counter? and how soon before sex should i take it?

>>18312205
You can't really expect to have your dick return to normal in a matter of days if you had this habit for years. No it's not a meme. It won't impact every man the same way, some can jerk off to it twice a day and be fine. But your story is not uncommon. The sexual triggers in porn are really exaggerated/hardcore and you are spoonfed a smooth show of turn ons. In real life, you cannot lean back and have it unravel like that. YOU need to make the connection why something is hot.

Where I live it's not over the counter, look into what it's like in your region. There's off brand shit but I'd never go there.

>>18312216
Found you a source.
https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/study-sees-link-between-porn-and-sexual-dysfunction-2017

There's loads more stuff on yourbrainonporn.com

>>18312216
i guess thats true, but has this happened to you? how long did it take? i can see your point in making the connection with something being hot though, sometimes i get a good thought in my head that just works.
whats wrong with the offbrand stuff?
thanks btw

>>18312232
Nah, I'm not even a man actually, which is also why I can be of little help for viagra. Reason for off brand is that it's usually tested less and might be shady, particularly if you get it online and it's just marketed as something that works like viagra. Either way you want to avoid actually taking it if at all possible. You're a healthy young guy presumably, this is not a medical issue and like all medication it always comes with potential side effects. But having it would be a really good mental reassurance because you know that if all else fails, you can still resort to it. This avoids the trap guys often fall into of having a bad experience where they couldn't get it up, then becoming more afraid that this will happen again, which will take them out of the moment and make it harder to get or stay hard. So the idea is that knowing that won't happen will make you relax more and make it more likely you will just get hard naturally.

Well yeah and real life IS more diluted and all over the place. During real sex not everything will objectively be sexy. Almost more importantly, not everything will be sexual. You might have to stop everything because her arm went numb from your weight, or her hair gets caught, she does dirty talk that is kind of off/weird, tons of little details. It isn't the fantasy land where everything revolves around pleasure and play like porn is. And that transition from fantasy realm to real life is for whatever reason much more difficult to make for some than for others. The gritty aspect of it all being real and normal in a way can be an endless turn on, or it can make sex just another interaction in a long cycle of interactions.

Either way I would absolutely quit it at the very least for a month or so beforehand, try to fap as little as you can. Even if porn isn't the sole issue - eg also low testerone - you still increase the chance of the experience being exciting and arousing to you.

>>18312261
It's crazy that you would take the time to look into all of this then.
So even viagra has negative side affects? thats a shame, would've just like an easy way out but i guess thats never how it works. whelp, im definetly afraid it will happen again, because it was a pretty bad experience having her cry.
yeah i had that problem with my old gf, i would hear someone talking, or she'd make a joke while changing position and it'd be over.
im gonna stick with the no porn and no jerking it shit for aslong as i can and see if anything changes, hopefully it works out. but ill probably end up buying the offbrand despite the health problems, because just seeing a condom kills it too and she seems pretty clean.
thanks again

Do no fap for atleast a month. I had the same issue, fapping daily for years, then i met a girl i liked, and had trouble staying hard, did no fap/no sex/ working out for about 3 weeks, and i was getting much better hardons. When we had sex again, i came in under a minute, but was hard again after just a couple minutes. Currently training to get back to lasting a normal amount of time, since porn made me desensitized, and no fap made me too sensitive. Thankfully shes been helpful and supportive. Do no fap, and hit the gym to fill your time and help you get to normal faster. Thats what helped me. It may take you anywhere from 2weeks to 6months, just stay determined and dont quit. If you have a relapse and fap, dont let it stop you or demotivate you. You need to be determined.

>>18312509
i already go to the gym everyday so thats in check, the cuming in one minute thing scares me though because a good side affect is lasting in bed for as long as i wanted and girls usually mistake that for being "good at sex" at least in my case.
only got 2 months, so hopefully it'll kick in before then. i'll do my best but i want to fuck this girls brains out in a good way, if i see this shit making me too sensitive i'd rather just go back to this, because atleast with this, once i get going it doesnt stop.

Let me guess are you white and socially awkward? Your type is not only the most annoying but the most unmasculine and unvirile

>>18312639
I had that same side effect. First time we had sex, she came, i didnt. And all the times after. Now after no fap for a while, and i try to fap only 3-4 times max a week im lasting about as long as she does so we usually cum at the same time which is great for us.
You could do no fap for about a month then start to fap again but less often to reduce your sensitivity.

>>18312650
nice try
>>18312736
ill probably take that route then, hopefully it works out like we think it will on paper, thanks

>>18312772
We wish you luck, seems like youve more or less got this and can figure out what will work for you!