As the subject says, if you can't handle girly feuds, this isn't for you.
So basically I have a friend. I do things for her all the time. I have spent a lot of money and my own resources on her, I let her come to my house whenever she wants, I have stayed up hours at night talking to her when she is upset. I have gone out of my way to do things for her that I would normally charge other people for but free for her. When she was depressed, I was constantly there to help her.
So I hooked her up with my brother in law because I thought they would be a good match. Within two weeks he is her entire world, and I wasn't upset by that. I get that she loves him.
HOWEVER the thing that has bothered me, is that she tweets things like "I have no friends" and makes posts saying "The only people I care about are my boyfriend and mom."
And once even made a picture collage saying "I love my friends!" and left me out. This has happened at least 7 or so times and each time it left me feeling so unappreciated and I swear she is doing it on purpose. In fact the only time she ever makes an effort to contact me first is to talk shit about a her boyfriend's ex girlfriend. She also doesn't like that I am close to another friend who spoke to her boyfriend's ex. And I think that is why she is doing this.
I have talked to her about it but excuses of "I am having a hard time" just get brought up and I don't know how to respond to that. It doesn't seem genuine at all.
What should I do?
Distance yourself from her. I had a friend who never appreciated me either and I seriously don't regret cutting her out of my life.
And my other friend only talked to the ex to ask her a question and my friend got pissed about that and passive aggressively kept tweeting about my friend for weeks and lied about it to her, but her boyfriend confirmed the tweets were about my friend.
Also she has gotten obsessive over his ex.. I am talking stalking her social media and even making fake accounts. I don't want to encourage that but I am scared she will get mad if I say anything,. I feel stuck.
>>18312076
I am just not sure how to do that now even if I wanted to. She is dating my brother in law.
>>18312108
Unfollowing from all her social media would be a start, it will help keep her out of your mind.