Obligatory bi btw.
So, /adv/, ever since I got out of highschool I've noticed I haven't genuinely loved any woman, I only "lust" after them. Despite finding them attractive, I can't imagine spending most of my remaining life around one of them.
Guys on the other hand, I would live and build a life with but I just can't find guys anywhere near as sexually attractive as women, i.e. I just can't really enjoy physical intimacy with them, I just feel uncomfortable with it for some odd reason. Maybe it has to do with the fact that I grew up in eastern Europe, I'm sure you know the cultural attitudes towards that there.
I just think I'm really fucking confused.
I love guys more for their personality and women for their looks but I don't know how I'll keep up an honest, decent life with this sort of mindset.
How about a woman with masculine character traits?
>>18311417
Maybe you just haven't met the right woman, or the right man? You'll find out eventually. Sexual attraction is important to a relationship, but you have to be able to spent time with them and enjoy it too. I see your dilemma.
>>18311433
They're right. I am exactly the same. Met a girl who was the one. Got married and have a great sex life. But I can fap to a pic of a hot guy all day long. Wouldn't dream of doing it for real or with a guy or cheating on her with a guy or anyone else. You'll be fine
Sounds like you just want a woman with more stereo-typically male personality traits. I've had the thought myself but boiled it down to just liking certain personality traits, not traits inherent to men, because that realistically any thought a man can have, so can a woman.
Uh, good luck finding that though. I'm still looking for a woman who is deep and complex with multiple layers to her. Like an onion...
>>18311433
Yeah, I know time will tell and all that.
I live in an isolated region in an already small country (attending uni in the region), so it can seem a bit hopeless at times.
Pressure and frustration can really get to a person.
>>18311419
I would be extremely happy to meet such a unicorn, man.
Although I get out quite a lot in my life and connect with loads of different groups (gamers, right wing people, left wing people), I have yet to meet one of those who isn't some fat feminist with a nose piercing.
My last ten attempts at posting this have gotten a connection error and it turned out to be ublock.