Sexual Debate

Get a bissexual girl and fuck girls with her

Problem solved

>>18309550
Why is fucking around so important to you? How would you feel if she left you because she wanted to "find herself"?

>>18309553

Yes, I've thought about this... Though it's much easier to find someone who's into this then to try and program a fresh personality. Perhaps it would even be a futile effort.

>>18309560

Because I like variety. I assume you're a married person who doesn't cheat or watch pornography? Please explain to me what makes that so much more fulfilling.

I would have no problem with her doing so, why would I try to restrict such actions if that would only lead to another failure of a relationship? Honestly, that would solve my problem anon. But she's not leaving me, she's falling deeper in love with me each day.

>>18309613
>assume you're a married person who doesn't cheat or watch pornography?
I live in celibacy and don't watch pornography. There is an infinite number of things you can do in life, you don't have to play the sex minigame.

>>18309632

I understand you don't have to, just as you don't have to go skydiving or travel. The question is why wouldn't you?

>>18309613
Bi curious is good enough. took me a few years but I got my curious gf into it. We don't even fuck around too often, but it's enough to feel refreshed.

>>18309550
>wahh I want to fuck ez sluts and collect STDs like they're pokemon

No wonder you fail at every relationship.

>>18309656

Sounds nice man, it would be nice to have some sexual freedom and still be tight with my mate. Relationships can feel like a prison sometimes when you're neglecting your desires to save someone else the emotional pains that come standard. I'm a freak, I need a freak... I just hope she's got it in her because I wouldn't want to force an identity on anyone.

>>18309660

Who are you quoting anon?

Can you please share some advice, as the name of this board isn't /crit/

>>18309681
Yeah it's neat. I think every man has those feelings every so often, specially if they enganged in a relationship too young. I had my first gf at 18, ans my second and current at 22. I'm 29 now. So I'm very conscious that I missed out a lot of experiences, even though I do prefer having relationships.

So for someone who has those urges, you either supress them or cheat, which I think are the most common options and obviously lead to misery, or become something else, like a serial monogamist, open relationships, or any other arrangement that allows for an escape valve.

>>18309550
You clearly havent matured yet op. Break up with her and return to one night stands. After few years you should realize how shallow and unfulfilling it is. Maybe then you will be ready.

>adopt
Dont make me laught.

Just break up, spare the girl and yourself the pain and trouble. Tell her you want to fuck everything what moves and therefore you are not compatible.

Settling down with your current attitude is recipe for disaster.

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>>18309731
>>18309744

I suppose I should bait with bisexual opportunities as to make a proper judgement on the probability of her entertaining these sexual fantasies, and then make a determination whether or not to stay with her.

>>18309794
Yeah, probe her, create a situation where you can ask her if she ever tought of being with a girl and so on... That's how I got mine started, for some reason in a context she told me a friend of hers kissed her for attention whoring in a party and that she was curious and I worked on it from there

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>>18309827

My girlfriend is 21, and I am 22 years old. She is ultra-innocent, and doesn't even curse. She was a virgin when I met her, though she gave that virginity to me within a couple months. She has opened up to new experiences such as going out drinking and even LSD, I'm sure I can convince her to come to a gay/swingers club one day. She did mention she was a tomboy at one point... Not sure if that has any correlation to suppressed sexual desires though. Anyway, I trust my psychoanalysis and I must say that she will be susceptible to sexual advances from someone other than me sometime in the future considering our life goals (with regards to physical separation that is.) It would be prudent to run a test early on, as we are in the first year of our relationship, so that we may be certain as to the direction of the relationship. No?

It seems your only criteria for judging the value of a relationship you have with a woman is based on sex. You know there are many other factors couples find reason to be faithful for? For me, it's a matter of personal integrity, and respect for her. I hear the sirens call my name too. I had plenty of one night stands and fuckbuddies and all the rest while I was young and single. But when I met my current gf i knew I only needed her to be satisfied. Over the years I have gone through so much with her and I have seen the care that she puts into loving me, how much she empathize with me and considers my feelings or desires or rationale. To betray that love trust she has in me would devastate me much more than it would her. I would truly be a piece of shit and it would wreak havoc upon my self-image.

In short OP what it comes down to is that if you respect the person you're with, you'll remain faithful to them even when greatly tempted to do otherwise. To even consider cheating on her instead of firstly considering breaking up with her to have sex with other women is the irrefutable proof of the absence of your respect for her. You would take the best she has to give, and give her only a shadow of the truth - that you don't love her as much as you love your 'variety.' So to answer your initial question: "are you ready to settle?" The answer is definitively no. You are not, until you find an equal you can respect.

>>18309933
I'm not sure if I follow. Do you think she might cheat you given the chance?

Anyway, the sooner you find out, the better. I always tought in my relationship that if all went south, which every relationship is susceptivel to, at least I got a threesome out of it.

Since she seems to be really open to new experiences, it's really likely that she might be up to it. The tomboy part is no guarantee, but tomboys aren't usually extremely prudish conservative girls...

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>>18309933

>Anyway, I trust my psychoanalysis

>>18310002

When did I say I was considering cheating? I'm not...

Some context:

My last relationship I offered openness from the start, she scolded the idea and said it was monogamy or nothing. I was completely faithful to her for years, easily deflecting temptations. She went on to cheat on me twice after that time, and is now pregnant with a child she doesn't want and has since moved back to NY.

Me? Here I am today planning my life from my one bedroom apartment trying to avoid making the same mistakes. Sex is important, not the most, or not the only important thing - but an important factor all the same. Just as intimacy, financial stability, all those goodies we look for to work together that some lie and say they don't care for.

>>18310043

In general, I don't trust women. So yes I do believe that given the circumstances it is a possibility.

> Only had sex with one man
> Is a beautiful young lady
> Her man moves away for med school
> ???
> She moves away for school
> ???

On the flip side -

> I'm away at school wondering ??? while XXX passes by.

I suppose that's my dilemma, trust. I'd love to throw 2-3 years of my life (perhaps more) at a time trying to start a family with someone who eventually crumbles.. It would make more sense to me to run this beta/experimentation period lest I become a "beta" myself. Thanks a lot anon.

>>18310048

What a thoughtful comment anon, thanks for joining my thread.

>>18309550
If my boyfriend would be leading me on like this, stealing my virginity and then whining about not being able to sleep with other women during his travels, he would be dead soon. He will wake up with a shotgun shoved up his ass. Giving up your virginity is a big thing for girls. Personally I would be pissed if I would be deceived like that, because I wouldn't even consider spending time with a degenerate like you.

Stop being a Cuck, she's not perfect.
-Lucanus Beats