my gf just blew up at me and broke up. I know I was dick-ish

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I'm like 80% sure shes never cheated on me, but she always says shit like this when shes mad
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I'll answer questions if you guys need more info
I'm also pretty sure she isn't going to accept that guys offer, she just says these things to get under my skin

I'm always amazed by by people who call themselves Christian but don't act like it. She should be more worried about how she acts not how she looks. To go off on a rant over something so stupid is childish and immature. To make up lies and try to hurt other people is mean. I would dump her ass and look for someone who isn't batshit crazy.

so... move on, what advice do you expect to get?

>>18307400
>>18307405
idk, I guess I didn't know if maybe I'm the one to blame for hanging up or maybe my comment about how she dresses really was out of line. shes my only friend so I'm hesitant to break up with her because I'll be totally alone

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Alright anon fellow chick here. In all honestly I don't know this person but shes a two faced cunt and you can tell. she honestly seems abusive. I'm religious to and I wouldn't dream of being with someone who gets this toxic and says such horrific things even if " she's just mad" This might be for the best and honestly might have been a small miracle on for you. Maybe it will open up to help you continue a zealous life and be happy because all she can seem to do is rot in toxicity. Also I think you brought up a really good point in saying she should make a statement with her clothes because it's not a fucking fashion show. This could be God's way of saying you have better things to do.

>>18307371

>I know I was dick-ish but I want to know if you guys think what I did warrants a blow up of such magnitude

I didn't read your post. It doesn't matter who was right or wrong, while not even taking into consideration that the only perspective we have on the situation is yours. The relationship is over.

Dassit.

>>18307400
Christians aren't perfect. That's why they're christians. They still make mistakes and let things like anger get the best of them. The point is to develop your relationship to where it starts influencing your behavior positively. However that doesn't mean those negative behaviors go away magically. It takes work, and some people just don't ever accomplish it.

Being a Christian myself, this has always bothered me. But it's not like I'm not guilty of acting like a jackass or saying mean and hurtful things out of anger. I do that shit all the time. I've gotten a little better though. It's a constant battle dude.

>>18307411
you are not to be blamed for this shit, anon. really, what kind of cunt would be upset over a suggestion like the one you gave? that's so over the top that you should be glad that you lost that bitch. I know, the feels, but you will be better. you have more chances for a happy life now

>>18307413
I know in the end, I just have to keep faith in God. if we're meant to be then we will be together. I'm happy to see another Christian here (though I sincerely appreciate everyones advice)!
>>18307440
thank you. Its a lot more believable to hear this from someone else, than to just condescendingly tell myself these things in my head...

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>>18307371
>we are a Christian couple
LOL. might as well stamp 'im stupid' on your forehead

You could try to forgive her and work on this as a couple. It's good you've realized your mistakes, she needs to realize hers too. And definitely maybe some couples counseling.

Forgiveness is good, but don't let her take advantage of you or hurt you. If this is a frequent thing that happens then maybe you should not try to repair the relationship.
I was in a bad relationship for 3 years. I finally decided that maybe the constant bad things that he did or was a result of his doing was never going to change. But I didn't know how to leave. I think maybe God let him leave for a week straight in order to show me that it was okay to get out of that. I was very depressed and suicidal as well.

A good partner isn't going to hurt you knowingly and then continue to do it with no intention of changing behavior.

>>18307374
>>18307378
Jesus I sure hope this isn't real. It sounds too crazy to be real, but at this point nothing would surprise me.

>she always says shit like this when shes mad
Why the fuck did you put up with it so far? I don't understand people like you. She's obviously trying to seriously hurt you. Why would you be with someone who tries to hurt you over something so petty?

She is a horrible person and you shouldn't surround yourself with this kind of people. Let alone have a relationship with one of them.

>>18307429
I agree with everything you said. I think every Christian would. I'm not perfect either. However, this girl crossed the line. I have never treated or talked to a girl I cared about like she did this guy. I personally wouldn't put up with it. I would be moving on.

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>>18307411
>idk, I guess I didn't know if maybe I'm the one to blame for hanging up
555-Come-On-Now

Anyway, I would explain the situation carefully that your suggestion wasn't meant to be forced, maybe apologize for the makeup, but don't apologize for making a small suggestion.

It also seems to me that the relationship isn't strong enough to begin with. She cheated on you multiple times? Seems like she isn't the mother of your children, OP, but I'm not in your shoes to dictate that.

>>18307400
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So much for a "christian" girl heh?

Dump her crazy ass op

>>18307468
Yeah definitely. I commented twice, my other advising him to leave if she won't at the very least apologize for her behavior and go to counseling with him.
Of course it's okay for him to just leave it at that. In the end it's his choice and we're merely giving advice. Honestly, I wouldn't go back either.