General life issues are drowning me in sorrow

first of all, work out. this won't solve all problems, but you need to be fit, take care of yourself. be active. eat well. limit all kinds of addictions, even porn. spend more time with real people, it's exciting. maybe you're a nerd, but you can connect through general stuff well enough with pretty much everybody who's a decent person. and yeah, even if you can't find a job, do something. maybe try a shitty job at first, but don't waste time for excuses anymore

>>18307464
I do work out and try to take care of myself. I've also recently quit porn and masturbation to a certain extent. I've also been working on this shitty warehouse for some time, but it's usually the case that I can't work during that time because of my education. Everything just seems to fuck me over, I just need a mindset where I could actually be doing more and not caring that much, but the feels keep coming back.

i feel ya. dad had two strokes. he seemed to recover, but then he fell over and broke a rib. not looking good. mom got fired for taking time off to take care of him. my dogs losing an eye and her other eye is going to cost a lot to maintain for the rest of her life, but at least she doesn't have ot lose both now

>>18307464
porn isn't a problem unless you're masterbating 30 times a day.

>>18307480
That's not even comparable to me anon. You have the real struggles. I know that my problems aren't that huge, but I still need to get out of mine to see the bigger picture. I wish you and your parents luck!

>>18307506

we've all made bad decisions. some of us just have different bad decisions to make.

were all struggling. i just wish it was all not struggle. this last year has been non stop and i keep thinking its over and another shoe drops. its like a never ending line of perpetually dropping second shoes.

Read "Happiness" by Matthieu Ricard.

>>18307510
I guess it's how like works. Pretty much shoe after shoe dropped in front of you. But my main issue is my pshychological state. Everything feels like falling apart.
>>18307515
Will look into that

>>18307533

it didn't used to be like this for me. i had struggles but until april 9th of last year my life was pretty good. then suddenly its just constantly shit.