Parents on shaky ground

You could try and get them to attend marriage counselling

>>18305611
>helping your mom cuck your dad
Disgraceful

>won't talk to the person you vowed to spend your life with
Pride is a motherfucker.

>>18305611
This will be very difficult for you to read, but it's important:

This story is not about you.

You are a bystander in two other people's story, and the only thing you can do that won't make things worse is stay on the sidelines, don't take sides, let both know that you love them, and hope they'll get through this bad time, whatever the outcome.

>>18305670
Ill try, but to get both of them to attend would be difficult

>>18305812
>Pride is a motherfucker
It seems that way, neither of them are budging. Its almost childish ffs.

>>18305903
Thanks anon.
I'd like to help and keep them together because we have no other family in this state.
We missed so many family gatherings because we're too far away, but had to move because of employment.


I'm currently sleeping on the couch trying to do my assignments at 2am. Should I go talk to a counselor tomorrow morning for advice?

Gonna try not to write too long a post since I wamt to go to sleep and overall try/intend to spend time on this website overall.
Anyway, my own parwnts are in a similar situation. There's a conflict between them that has been going on for decades and things seem to get torn apart between them.
The thing is, I know I can't solve their relationship and if i get in on their quarrels it tends to only have negative influence.
What I've done nowatimes is to "simply" focus on bettering myself since I now realize that much of the underlying reasons for their fighting was actually caused indirectly by me (not saying it's the same for case but it might be).

What ive done is getting my basic shit handled; got a job, moved out, got a hobby, exercise regularly, eat better and overall try to replace my bad habits (a prevalent one being wasting time on the internet, mainly this site..) and little by little has not only my life improved but it affects my parents relationship as well. They get along better and seem in better harmony more often. They still have issues, and like yours can be VERY childish about them, but now when i try not to get involved directly in their relationship (which is harder said than done most of the time) i see that if i choose to focus on my own mind in the situations where arguing ensues am i able to steer the course of the athmosphere much more fluently in a positive path.t

tl;dr
Focus on bettering your self and you'll give room for improvment to them in turn