Is it bad or vain to feel attractive? I always feel like some delusional narcissist when I do.
>>18304787
it's not bad until you act like it. confidence is great but don't act like a dick if you feel attractive. it's good to like the way you are though.
Being happy with how you look is fine. Being confident is great.
But don't place your self worth in it. Your looks can change at any instant - focus on your character.
Do you follow through with your word?
Do you act with good intent?
Are you good to the people around you?
Are you making the progress you want to make?
Don't be proud of how you look. Be proud of who you are.
Being a narcacisst is 100x better than being an insecure faggot.
Everyone is an insecure faggot nowadays. Be proud that you think you're attractive, as long as you genuinely do and you're not just telling yourself that.
Wish I could feel the same way.
>>18304922
I hope so too anon. I don't know you, but I know you deserve it.
>>18304925
Thanks brother
Wish I liked what I saw in the mirror. Everyone loves to talk about how women are insecure about their looks, but IMO men have it just as bad in the modern age
I've been told I'm handsome or attractive plenty of times too, even by strangers or acquaintances. I still don't believe it
>>18304928
I sorta used to be the same, but I kinda forced myself to try to appreciate my features instead of immediately trashing myself. That and my life getting better (I think) eventually turned me around.