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>last year
>post photos on /soc/, get high rates and lots of compliments
>have many insecurities by then, vent about them there and have people tell you how unfounded they are and how handsome you are
>now
>moved forward in life, more confidence in myself irl, don't come to /soc/ often and generally have focused on other things than my looks (still taking good care of myself though)
>post photos a few days ago, get average rates and comments that make you insecure
>feel low as shit and like you're not good enough
>haven't changed too much (even posted photos for comparison before) and feel that whatever made me attractive or not back then should still be there now
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>>18304384
If your self esteem depends on the moods and views of those around you youre gonna have a hard time friendo.
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>>18304391
it just hurts
I don't know what's wrong
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>>18304725
You care too much what people think. Accept yourself for who and what you are and stop searching for validation from other people or anything external. Confidence is the most attractive trait on anyone.
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Did they give you bad ratings or just ratings you didn't like? 5/10? You're doing fine.
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What a little bitch. Grow up OP
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>>18305501
I remember one time I asked the girl I liked irl to rate me for fun. She gave me a 4/10. Not even online, but right to my face around other people. It me feel bad too even though I had to play it off in the moment. And this was when I thought I looked the best and well kept.
After that, I just stopped giving a shit. It's not like it really means anything. Most people aren't even average in the first place. So don't worry about it so much. If all else fails, just know you're at least not a tard. Or Anthony Burch for that matter.
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>>18305501
More like 6/10, but I used to get 8's regularly
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