ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything GUIDELINES: Before you

-- From the previous thread since I felt this was not adequately addressed.

Girls or more specifically Bisexual girls,

How do you deal with having boobs.

Sincerely,
Concerned 4channer.

If I think a girl is horny will she send me nudes? I flirt with this girl sometimes really late at night and just not sure when or if I should

>>18301906
Not bisexual but what do you mean?

>>18301913
Clarification --

so when you look in the mirror you can just get off to yourself?
......narcissistic?

>>18301915
Yeah, I guess that's not something I'd know from experience. It seems kind of obvious, though - I mean, you don't get attracted to yourself.

>>18301915
No. I don't view my body like that. I don't think you'd ask gay men the same question.

>>18301915
What the fuck does that mean?

>boyfriend keeps asking for anal
>keep telling him no
why do guys like sticking their dicks there? it's gross

>>18301915
Are you turned on by your own hands when you masturbate?

>>18301944
You can only reach the prostate through there.

Hit it at just the right spot, and he'll cum so hard, he'll forget he even had balls the next morning, and yet he'll feel so refreshed, it's as if he transcended joy.

I mean, totally not that I know how it felt when my gf did it, no sir.

>>18301925
He is retarded. Don't mind him.

>>18301944
I agree. I only go there sometimes, for some variation.
To answer your question, because it feels different, it feels tighter than the vagina.

Repost:

Guys,

I'm been wondering about something. What's 30 extra pounds on a girl like? Is it excessive?

>tfw it's not grotesque fat, it's evenly distributed, but aside from D-cups your body doesn't look feminine
>tfw you've been fat since forever and are just beginning to unfuck yourself

I plan to lose the rest, I'm on a good track, but finding the motivation is sometimes hard when I wonder whether or not it'd really make me look all that much better.

>>18301971
>30 extra pounds
I don't know, what's the default amount of pounds? I'm not trying to sound obtuse or anything but that's kind of important. As far as what I'm attracted to a girl's frame and proportion really matters and it's far from the only attraction quality that matters.

>but finding the motivation is sometimes hard when I wonder whether or not it'd really make me look all that much better
It almost certainly would. Healthy weight always looks better than overweight to me.

>>18301971
Yes, it is excessive. If you're too fat, guys will want no more than a blowjob from you. I wouldn't even want a blowjob, to be honest.
I love slim girls.

>>18301971
30 extra pounds on ANYONE is a lot. (From your natural body weight I mean. If you're 5'9" 300 pounds, 30 pounds isn't going to mean much as opposed to 5'9" 170)

It DOES make a visual difference, and it even changes the shape of your face.

That being said, get o a point where you're happy with yourself and you know that you're at a healthy weight (look it up. Granted, different people have wildly different body types, but you should be able to get a basic approximation of what to shoot for).

Ultimately, it's not so much about what other people think so much as you should be somewhere healthy, both physically and mentally.

And when you've got both, THATS where you're most truly attractive (self confidence is hot).

>>18301971
What if a guy you started dating offered to help you lose weight? Would it be good or offensive?

>>18301971
Another fat femanon over here. Let me say that losing weight shouldn't just be about your appearance - that's a side benefit. Your health is what's really important, so I'd encourage anyone who's looking to stop being overweight to go for it.

That said, make sure you lose weight carefully and in the right ways - exercise, safe diet changes, that kind of thing. Know your limits and don't try to overdo it. If you've got cravings for junk food, try and find healthy foods that are similar. If you freeze blueberries, for instance, they have an almost candy-like consistency, so they make for a really great snack and you can trick your brain into thinking you're eating delicious garbage. Diet programs can also help if you need direction.

>>18302166

another femanon here, I'm 5'0 and lost over 40 pounds. I'm 120 and I'm still trying to lose weight but for the most part I am glad that I lost those 40 pounds. I feel so much happier and have so much more energy. I feel like I have more discipline for myself (like actually studying, working out, doing chores than playing video games for 4 hours like I used to). Even if I'm not at my ideal body shape or weight yet I'd rather stay 120 than be 160 again.

>>18302056
not op but it dependson how he asked but i'd say yes; nothing more empowering than a workout buddy. i'd admit that i'm not fit at all and if someone super fit were to coach me i'd feel intimidated. but they're fit so i should trust them.

>>18301944
it's still kinda taboo and you saying no just makes him want it more

>>18301993
My understanding was that 110-140 is in the healthy range for me, what should be *default*. I'm currently 160 pounds.
>>18301996
The irony is that I'd love to give a blowjob to a guy I like but yeah, never have gotten into any sort of sexual situation.
>>18302037
>face
Does losing weight improve the look of your face? That's one other thing I'm anxious about. I'm kind of self-conscious about my cheekbones. They're too huge/high, totally Pocahontas-tier, and make my eyes appear more sunken then they really are. I almost feel afraid that I'd look more angular if I lost weight.
>>18302056
Honestly, someone wishing to help me out to that degree would be very nice...they care about me enough to do that. But that's just me and I'm not really easily offended. I know reality, and that it's that I'm not only overweight, I'm out of shape health-wise.
Other girls might not be as chill and may take offense. I'd suggest it in a lowkey way, like asking her out on hikes and stuff.
>>18302166
>frozen fruit
Sweet. I actually do that already. I might be weird, but I prefer it over actual candy and ice cream.
My diet isn't that bad--it's actually the sole reason why I've lost 35 pounds these past few months.

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Where should I go this summer to find a gf?
>inb4 outside

>>18302209

There are worse things to worry about than your face shape changing desu. /r/progresspics help for reference. I'm sure there are better blogs or forums out there for before/after pics but I usually browse this one. I haven't met anyone who didn't like the shape of their face after losing weight. If anything, most people hate their saggy skin or how some women hate that their boobs are gone.

>>18301944
We honestly just want to try it. I wanted to for a long time, would always get told no and just wanted it more. I didn't end up doing it again though since it wasn't all that incredible and I've never asked to try again.

>>18302209
That's good! Diet can be hard to change and stick to at first (it's actually my main hurdle right now since I've got a pretty bad sweet tooth), so I'd say you're already off to a fine start.

Females,
If your fiance promised you he stopped watching porn, but you found a ton recently downloaded on his computer, would you break off the engagement? Back story, he is a porn addict and this has been an issue for years but this is his first time promising to stop. I don't want to get a divorce because I married a liar who can't stop touching himself

>>18302230
i'd absolutely break it off

>>18302224
Make exercise a priority. Change your diet to whatever you need to exercise and stop drinking any and all soda.

>>18302209
>My understanding was that 110-140 is in the healthy range for me, what should be *default*. I'm currently 160 pounds.
Then you're really not all that far off from your goal and that's good. To answer another question:
>Does losing weight improve the look of your face?
It definitely can, yeah, and regardless of what you think about your cheekbones, most guys probably won't care in a negative way about such a subtle detail and in fact would probably like a thin, pronounced cheekbone face better than what a face can look like when you're overweight. And by the way it sounds like you're more self conscious about your weight than your cheekbones and the confidence boost you'll receive from trimming down will dramatically overcompensate for any insecurities you have about that. Best of luck.

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>>18302220
Okay maybe I'm just being silly...I need to remind myself that on a face like mine the fat is more bulbous than qt.
Speaking of which, one of my family members was really taken aback by how different my face looked after my slight weight loss
>me: is that a bad thing
>them: no, not at all, the opposite really
It's admittedly stupid of me to worry.
>>18302224
Good luck femanon. I personally am smart and keep no empty calories/snacks in the dorm and am mindful when I'm shopping, and am a talented cook. I can make amazing healthy food...shame that my appetite rivals a teenage's boys. The best I can do is limit my food access.
>>18302259
Thanks for the vote of confidence. Honestly, I'm being a bit of a fucktard regarding the final step: exercise. I know that it's supposed to be great for your brain and makes you glow, not just makes you healthier+slimmer, but I still haven't gotten around to it. I can justify not going to the school gym because it's a huge timesink and takes an emotional toll. Nonetheless, I can't justify how I've ignored my weights or haven't tried to do something like HIIT.

>>18302236
Yeah, I quit soda cold turkey a few months ago and switched to water. At first I didn't believe everyone saying it's poison, but in hindsight it was seriously fucking me up. I've been looking into this meal replacement shake diet/exercise plan as well, since the distributor has a few flavors that are sweet enough to satisfy my cravings and the people who've been on it swear by it.

>>18302298
Thanks, anon! Careful shopping is a great idea, I should bear that in mind.

As far as the exercise goes, you could always start small. I've been doing three reps of twenty countertop push-ups every day and it's a pretty good way of easing yourself into a steady exercise routine. Swimming is also great if you've got access to a pool, especially since it's getting warmer now.

question for white girls. are you at all worried that pretty much all men in general turn against you at some point?

>>18302343
no because thats retarded.

>>18302343
Assuming this isn't bait, anon, what the fuck is that supposed to mean?

>>18302347
>>18302348
oops should have been more specific. are you worried that men are turning to asian/hispanic women in favor of whites?

>>18302298
>HIIT
Fitness-obsessive here. The fact that you're even aware of what HIIT is means you've taken this more seriously than almost all girls and most men. Best of luck.

Tip: the more compound lifts you do, the more fat you'll burn, so things like squats, deadlifts and rows are great, whilst curls and tricep extensions are less good.

>>18302343
Guy here. If you've been hurt, I'm sorry, but thinking that another race of women is going to treat you with some sort of reverence is horribly wrong.

>>18301906
I'm not attracted to myself, no. That'd be weird.

>>18302355
>Guy here. If you've been hurt, I'm sorry, but thinking that another race of women is going to treat you with some sort of reverence is horribly wrong.
but they already do anon

>>18302230
I'm not bothered by a man watching porn at all, but if it bothers you a lot then yeah, speak to him about it or break it off.

>>18302343
>question for white girls. are you at all worried that pretty much all men in general turn against you at some point?
No? I've had plenty of attention from all races, and look around, most couples are within racial groups.

>>18302230
I'm not about to tell you to dump him outright, but you should seriously talk things over with him. If he's willing to lie about something as inconsequential as this, he'll probably be willing to lie about worse things.

>>18302363
i think the problem is more about his addiction, constant lying about it and breaking promises.

>>18302362
>but they already do anon
Time is a teacher.

>>18302367
>>18302368

Exactly. If it was once in awhile, we've been busy etc. I wouldn't think anything of it. And I expected some as he never said he would stop before. But now he's lied plus he's still watching it although not as much. Its changed me and made me insecure so im questioning if im overreacting or not. Thanks for the input

Asking women..... How do you feel about a guy that stuffs his pants. When i go on tinder dates or whatever i always have some apparatus in my pants to give the illusion of a large bulge. It seems to make people respect me more in general, and dates go smoother. But most of the time the chick is like really turned off when she find out i have a carrot or cucumber taped to my thigh. I just dont get it. Its just to boost my confidence

>>18302387
You're not overreacting, I think it's a fair reaction and you need to tell him to fix it.

>>18302388
Also its like this one girl totally liked me and then left my house when she found out i had been wearing a jock strap with newspaper stuffed in it. That was our 4th date i thought it was serious by then

>>18302343
No. If someone thinks that being white says a lot about my personality for some reason, he's stupid and I am not really missing out.

>>18302388
i think you're a loser

>>18302388
>>18302396
I'd leave too. How are you not embarrassed by this? I'd rather someone that doesn't need to fake shit and is confident with themselves.

>>18302388
Cringe, ew. I'd leave in that situation.

Guys: Do you think I'm just 'one of the boys' or was he inviting me and not thinking about it?

I made a new guy friend who might like me. he invited me over to play a board game at his house. I went and there were 5 guys and no girls except me. I had a lot of fun! I'm also confused. It was a weird dynamic because I only knew him and another guy.

>>18302415
It could be that he invited to a friends thing so he didn't seem to obvious and eager. I've done such things initially and then moved on to one on one things. How did he word the invite? How long have you known him?

>>18302415
He definitely wants to bang you. Or he's gay.

>>18302419
I've known him for 2 weeks actually but we really clicked last week when just me and him hung out after partying and walked around town laughing. Nothing happened that could really be considered flirting. He was teasing me a lot. And he did take off his shirt and started taking his pants off because I jokingly told him he looked like justin bieber with his purple jacket and tan jeans. I think he was really drunk.

Anyway he worded it as 'Hey we are playing board games if you're interested. ' and added a smiley face. I feel like it could just be him being friendly though

>>18302431
I think he likes you but it's hard to read since we're not there with you. But still, if I were him I'd be just easing along to see how you feel about me and to get to know you better.

So there's a very good chance he's into you.

>>18302434
Ah ok, thanks. I hope so. We've been texting since about funny things. I just had terrible luck before with guys that i thought liked me, but they didn't actually, so i don't trust my ability to tell things. But I'll keep getting to know him and see where it goes.

>>18302355
Probably the one good quirk about me is how if I'm gonna do something, I'm gonna find the most efficient way to do it, classic tradition or what's on TV or the magazines be damned.
...though I really can't draw any conclusions about HIIT yet. Does sound encouraging.
>>18302328
One thing silly ass thing is that people who wanna lose weight often keep all the nasty temptations around. Fuck knows I'd still be 200 pounds if I did so.

Swimming is tempting. I once was a fish.
>kid me cried when forced out of the water, was crazy fast
>outgrew pool, never swam again
>now probably will sink like the titanic
>tfw ocean access minutes walk from school
>can't do a thing but watch it longingly
I can try the countertop thing, though.

>>18302437
Be careful of disregarding signs though, I've been through the same and convinced myself of things and totally ruined my chances. Keep your eyes open anon and try not to think about the past.

So far it sounds like it's going good though.

So there's this tomboy girl, really reminds me of Arya Stark. She has sexual energy flowing through her, but, being a tomboy, she often jokes about strap-ons and other femdom stuff. The thing is, I have already fucked her, and I'm certain that when met with a dominant no-bullshit man, girls like that succumb and really enjoy the process of being plowed.
Girls, what kind of domination does it take to reverse the tables? I'm certainly not the type to ever be femdom'ed, and so I rather like the idea of breaking a tomboy.

>>18302471
What are you asking? You said you already fucked her and she enjoyed being dominated.

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If I just want to take care of someone, make sure that they're happy, worry about their health and fuck 'em real good, that's basically liking them, right?

On that note,
>Guys:

Say that you had strong mutual feelings for a female friend. You're both young and both work full-time - she makes a higher wage than you and has virtually no expenses in comparison.
How would you feel about her always paying for you to go out (together and in groups) and generally buying you gifts if you can't reciprocate?
What if she says "It makes me happy to spend time with you, so it's okay. I'm basically buying a treat for myself." ?

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>>18302471
>I'm not the type to ever be femdommed

Kek. You're the best kind to break.

The only guy I've ever let/enjoyed being more dominant in bed is actually the gentlest one outside of it. I mother the fuck out of him and am definitely the dominant party of the rest of the relationship - he's just a really sweet, shy, cuddly kind of a dude - but when he wants to facefuck you, damn.

>>18302477
>How would you feel about her always paying for you to go out
Some or most of the time, fine, but always, no. Also, maybe try to do things that don't require money all the time, like hiking or something.

>(together and in groups)
Together, fine, groups, not on your life.

>and generally buying you gifts if you can't reciprocate?
Way too much. Going out is a necessity, but buying him gifts randomly would be too much even if he could reciprocate. If he can't, it'd be almost like you're going out of your way to draw attention to the disparity in salary.

>What if she says "It makes me happy to spend time with you, so it's okay. I'm basically buying a treat for myself." ?
I'd find that condescending.

I'm not even the kind of guy who is obsessed with earning more than girls, but you seem to be so preoccupied with it that you'll accidentally make it seem like him earning less matters to you. Be careful.

>>18302476
Well, I did dominate her, but I'd like to know what exactly is the key to her. What emotion should I tap in to, so to speak, to reach maximum wetness.

>>18302491
How the fuck would we know? We're not her.

I don't mind being dominated in bed, especially if I feel like there's a little bit of "struggle for power", but really I get a thousand times hornier when I am the dominant one. I am literally dripping when I'm in charge, when I am dominated it's good but still not exceptional.

>>18302441
>One thing silly ass thing is that people who wanna lose weight often keep all the nasty temptations around.
... Oh shit, you're right. I really do need to get rid of my snacks, that'd help a ton. Seems really obvious now that you mention it.

>>18302501
Get a FitBit too. It actually really helps since you can see your progress.

>>18302482
>You're the best kind to break.
That sounds kind of like rape.

Rape is bad.

t. ethics pro

>>18301944
sorry for late reply and a follow up to this. for girls that have tried anal what is it like? i'm willing to give it a shot just once to make him stop pestering me

>>18302506
Come on, anyone can say anything online. Obviously when met by a man with anything resembling a pair of balls, she'll be bent over and fucked into submission.

3rd date with this girl. How do I initiate a kiss? Should I even? I have no experience kissing outside of nightclubs.

How old is too old for a dude to never have dated a girl?

>>18302534
Dated? Maybe 24ish?
Never had a girlfriend? Maybe 26ish.

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My dream is get a blowjob one day but how do girls deal with dick cheese?
Are some absolute madmen and don't give a fuck about it or will it have to be civilized and say "ayo hol up lemme just wash my dick first brb"?

>>18302543
Yes, anon, you're going to need to wash it first. Look at it this way - would you want to do anal with a girl who isn't clean?

>>18302543
Shower more often idiot. I've never had cheese in my entire life, only people that don't shower often enough get it.

>>18302543
Wash that shit you grot.

>>18302539
Fuck

>>18302534
20 for dated

>>18302543
How do you have dick cheese?
Is the "Amerifats don't wash" meme true?

>>18302568
Super fuck

Guys: what does it feel like when a girl cums with you inside of her? Can you feel it at all?

>>18302577
Dick cheese is leftover traces of cum that hasn't been washed out. Naturally works as lubricant.

>>18302582
Might grip a bit tighter around the shaft but not anything special. Best thing is if she holds you tighter or shrieks.

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Question to single mothers:

Do you, deep down inside, want to kill your children? Especially your male kids as they remind you of your ex?

I want a legit answer on this one.

Thanks.

>>18302471
>Girls, what kind of domination does it take to reverse the tables?
I'm a femdom, and nothing. I find the idea completely unarousing.

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The attention I get I see as inherently judgmental and negative. My past traumas, trust issues, and morose perspective paint them in gloom. However, there's one situation that's not cake to write off as something negative and then proceed to ignore it.

>student worker at my school
>only went to his cash register two times yet have seen him a lot
>knows my name for some reason I don't understand, I use cash, said it with warmth in his voice
>dunno if he's being an excellent service worker or something else is stirring (get it? no?)
>seems to stop in his tracks when I enter
>gazes at me mostly
>try to keep my head down
>dunno, considering how I've improved my appearance a lot but not enough, if it's possible for me to be *appreciated*
>left once and he followed
Men--what do you think about this? Is this man crazy enough to be into me?

While I usually joke around with service workers to cheer them up or at least make em laugh, I've never done so with this man...so, yeah. He has no real reason to like me...and if he did like me and I knew it was shallow as fuck, it'd make me feel guilty and generally unwell. But, I have to know. Not knowing is really what's making me uncomfortable whenever I get near that area. I'd just like to move on and stop thinking about it when I'm there.

best way to hint to my crush that I'm in love with him and want him with me -
without directly telling him my confess?

>>18301911
Screw nudes, ask her on date and buy condoms.

>>18302212
Here >>18293702

>>18302415
If you find him attractive, ask him on date yourself. If not, why even bother?

>>18302477
Mature guys who feel threatened by rich girls will tell them. Immature boys will juat break up. If it bothers you, just ask him. Personally i wouldnt mind. I might even become man version of gold digging whore.

>>18302534
Stop giving fuck and just do it >>18293702

>>18302670
Ask him on date. Ask him if he is single. Grab him by penis and drag him to bedroom. Guys like girls which know what they want. Be dominant and secure him as your boyfriend.

My boyfriend browses women hate threads on /r9k/. He tells me he loves me, though. Should I be concerned? What should I tell him?

>>18302477
It depends on the guy.

Guys with a more traditional view of relationships might feel emasculated if the woman takes the role of provider, like they're not a "real man."
Some guys won't care. Some might actually enjoy the woman being the provider as part of a general desire for the woman to take the dominant role in the relationship.

>What if she says "It makes me happy to spend time with you, so it's okay. I'm basically buying a treat for myself."
If the guy is the type to feel emasculated by not being a provider, then he'll likely think you're lying to him out of pity, and that you secretly wish he was more of a man so you wouldn't have to pay for things.

Ultimately, you'll just have to find out which type of guy your guy is.

>>18302471
Tend to agree with the third poster. I'm more of a switch than a complete Domme but sexual preferences are what they are. Now if you are talking about just being plowed, that's fairly normal stuff and I think most women would to some extent enjoy that under the right circumstances.

But psychology matters as well. Biologically you would probably LOVE to get something up your ass and have your prostate massaged. Chances are you actually don't find the experience mentally hot (or rather humiliating). If a woman solely gets off on fantasies and angles that leave her in control, there's just a maximum level of what something outside of that will do for her.

>>18302388
This guy also needs to get added to the OP (fuck off section). Hahaha

>>18302415
5 guys and no other girls? Were you not afraid/scared? That's how my porn starts.

>>18302230
>because I married a liar who can't stop touching himself
It's not as simple as "he said he would stop and then didn't."

If it's an honest to God addiction, he needs to get professional help. A treatment program or something.
It's not even necessarily that he doesn't want to quit, he may not have the will to. It's a compulsion.

You can't make someone quit heroin just by having them promise to stop using it.

>>18302685
I think it varies. I occasionally browse them because occasionally they have screencaps that make me laugh. I browse r/relationships for the same reason. I'll admit its practically the internet equivalent of watching the Kardashians though.

>>18302685
He probably hates women in general, but that doesn't necessarily mean he hates you.

I'm sure there are plenty of people on /pol/ that have black or Jewish friends despite their opinion on the races as a whole.

>>18302666
From what you describe it sounds like he likes you, but I don't know how much of your description is objective and how much is through the lens of your own suspicions.

The sensible thing to do would be to ask him up front if he's interested in dating you.

>>18302697
Even if this is the case I'd find it pretty damn insulting to date someone who thinks that "your kind" is essentially trash. Especially if this person loves her own mother, sister(s), female friends etc. And all the more if her guy also loves most of the women he knows but attributes more impact to girls he hardly knew that scoffed at or rejected him than the women who are around in his life... as happens all the time on arcanine.

I got a gf in university.
How should I treat her friends when I see them?

>>18302685
Well, I wouldn't date a misogynist, but that's your prerogative. Seems like a massive red flag to me.

>>18302712
>misogynist
This word means nothing

>>18302707
If you have actually talked to them or been introduced to them, acknowledge them with a brief smile or greeting. It's no big deal if you don't recognize someone you saw just once, or are distracted and "miss" an opportunity to say hello. It's just about generally showing goodwill and that you know of each other who you are.

>>18302714
Proclaiming that doesn't stop a word from having a definition.

>>18302714
>This word means nothing
It means exactly what it should mean- a woman hater of either gender. Just because people try to warp the words of the English language shouldn't mean they are inherently changed.

>>18302703
>who thinks that "your kind" is essentially trash
If he's the type of person who believes women are terrible because they are women, and that womanhood as a state of being makes one inherently inferior, then yeah I could see why you wouldn't want to date someone like that. It's incorrect thinking anyway, in the same vein as how the early KKK regarded black people.

However, it's also possible that he merely notices a trend among people with similar traits exhibiting similar behavior and, based on that behavior, formed an opinion of people with those traits.
Like anything, this behavior would be a bell curve, meaning at each end there would be those who exhibit it to an unusual degree and those who don't exhibit it at all.

If this person has only seen evidence online/in media to suggest that people who happen to be female tend to exhibit negative behaviors like manipulativeness and shallowness, then it's not exactly unreasonable for him to have formed an opinion that women, on average, are manipulative and shallow, is it?
And if he happens to personally know women that he likes, he is able to justify this by assuming that these women are rare, falling at the end of the bell curve.

Not that this is necessarily a correct mindset, but it is possible for such a person to dislike or distrust a woman he doesn't know based on what he believes to be a reasonable assumption of their likely behavior, yet still love and trust a woman whom he does know.

>>18302722
What you are describing is generalization. It's a useful tool to deduce patterns in the world that are too big and intricate for any one person to disentangle by themselves. ("How can we know water is always wet when we haven't touched all water.")
However, as you grow up you are ALSO supposed to learn that many groups of things are too big to ever really get a full grasp on. Like how a child learns that just because it was raining twice when they went to grandma, that doesn't mean it's always raining at her place. There's a balance in between deducing bigger similarities and realizing you cannot jump to logical conclusions because of your sample size.

Don't forget when talking of women you are talking about HALF of mankind. Smart people, dumb people, healthy people, sick people, kind people, heartless people, rich people, gutter addicts, inmates, parents, tax payers, tax avoiders. The very angle of "female" is kind of feeble in the landscape of so many different cultures, circumstances, cards they got dealt in life.

You cannot say something reasonable about trillions of complex, individual people based on thousands of media portrayals. It is not reasonable either to think that you can, just short-sighted. And it is particularly disrespectful and ungrateful towards the women who cared for you in life, not in a few minutes of tv pictures but in everyday life for years, to attribute more weight to literal fiction than to their real life time, energy and sacrifices.

Not to mention, let's turn this around for a bit. Men are much, much more likely to kill women than the other way around. Men are more likely to commit just about any crime, more likely to be addicts, more likely to be schizo. But I bet you would not be impressed with a woman using this as a reason to be very wary of you upon meeting you.

>>18302728
I'm not claiming that the guy's mindset is reasonable, but is it possible for him to hold that mindset while still honestly loving the women who are close to him.

>>18302736
Oh I'm not trying to say that that it is impossible. People have all kinds of warped reasoning and blind spots and what not. The question is rather, if you are a self-respecting woman with options who could be dating a guy who doesn't just like you but also doesn't struggle with hostility towards women in general - why would you put up with being the rare exception in someone's negative universe.

This is of course a rhetorical question as I don't know what this particular guy does or does not offer and how off the deep end she is in terms of feelings. I was just arguing in favor of being turned off by this even though it wouldn't apply to "her" (yet, btw, these types are also often capable of doing a quick "see, you are just as bad as all the rest after all").

we are dating. its been one year and a half, she stilll makes the effort to message me everyday, although i feel like im losing her from repetitiveness. WHAT DO I DO?

>>18302649
>>18302687
Being submissive is emasculating. If your partner is emascullated, even if you enjoy dominating, I would assume you'd easily fall for a manly man who enjoys dominating you in bed and throw away the sub.

>>18302703
If you ever go to those r9k women hate threads the screencaps are usually set up by some broad who lied to her SO about something significant and is crying about the consequences. It's not like they're just posting pictures of random women.

It's like the fast food of the internet.

>>18302774
>If your partner is emascullated, even if you enjoy dominating, I would assume you'd easily fall for a manly man who enjoys dominating you in bed and throw away the sub.
Nope. Not at all. I've been propositioned by masculine, aggressive guys. Turned them all down.

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I've always been the more affectionate one in the relationship. She used to be more needy. We've been together for two years and I am employed part time (2-5 bar shifts per month, can't drive so can't get a job out of town, can't afford driving lessons).

She's been studying for exams for a few months, and her first exam is next week. We have seen eachother practically every weekend until a few months ago (live 20 miles apart, neither can drive). Now we see eachother every other week, occasionally not for three weeks.

She has a chip on her shoulder about proving herself to men (me and my dad) since she stop living with hers about four years ago. (Useful info for my eventual question)

She hasn't text me for a few days, not properly for a long time, and I see her online but not reading my messages, stuff like that. I'm not paranoid or worried about shit like cheating etc (she literally is all about education and getting a good job in life, sucks that's she's dating a dropout lol), but I signed into her Facebook to at least see who she's talking to.

Turns out she's got a weekend job at a restaurant last week, didn't book my birthday off, or hers (she knows I plan to take her out) but luckily she starts after her birthday, and she already told me she'd be late to my birthday (now I know why).

Basically, (tl;dr) my girlfriend didn't tell me about a job she got, why would she hide it from me?

The reason I mentioned the chip on her shoulder earlier is because I initially put it down to worrying about not getting the job, and the embarrassment of telling me, but she's got it so... why wouldn't she tell me?

Maybe it all seems blown out of propertion, but I don't speak to her anywhere near as much as I used to. I just wish she could care about me like she did a year ago. Now it's like I'm a hopeless burden, put aside until she needs attention. If I mention that, she's busy and I need to grow up, which tbqh I agree with.

>>18302774
No, it's not necessarily at all. I don't enjoy any form of humiliation. I don't want to step on someone's balls. I don't want to call someone my bitch.

I just want to be the active partner. Undress my man, pamper him, wash and shave him. Or turn feisty and ride him while denying orgasm until I feel he's waited enough. I want to be with a masculine man who would in a different mindset be embarrassed to hear the noises that come out of his mouth when I finger his ass.

Nothing about this is objectively humiliating. It's just two people having fun.

Also
>you'd easily fall for a manly man who enjoys dominating you in bed and throw away the sub.
thankfully I've never had an issue finding men who will be the man who pounds me AND the man who gets tied up by me.

Does anyone have any advice for dealing with people who don't reply to messages?

Specifically, this girl I've been seeing on and off for YEARS is currently pretending she hasn't read my latest message where I asked her out for coffee. We went out only 2 weeks before and had great sex so I'm not sure why she's being like this.

At the moment I'm sitting on it, but I do get a bit annoyed and want to tell her just to say no or make up some excuse rather than not responding. Can any females shed some light on this?

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>>18302388

KEK

Nice dubs my man. Keep doing God's work

>>18302841
Chances are she wants to tell you something but is hesitant to do so. Eg she did not enjoy the sex very much, or there was nothing wrong with the technical details but she realized she doesn't have feelings for you the way she thought. Or the other way around, she has lots of feelings and realized she only wants to see you again if you're being official and exclusive.

Either way, she's putting it off/procrastinating because she dreads sending you a reply. And the reason for that is likely one of the above options. It could theoretically be other things, but typically being busy isn't as much of a problem for people as having mixed feelings about it. Even just phrasing an uncomfortable message is something most people hate.

If a girl calls you "a great friend" does it mean there's no chance at all, ever, of starting a romantic relationship with her?

>>18302683
i don't want to ask him out on a date myself. i want him to ask me. i don't feel like it's a proper role for a girl to be the chaser.

>>18302854
Generally it's not a great sign. It could mean that she really just sees you as a (great) friend or even that she's subtly rubbing it in that she sees you that way.

But people are actually more random and it depends on the person. I had a friend for years I called bro, my best friend etc and I wanted him to the point where I masturbated thinking of him all the time. It depends on whether SHE thinks that seeing someone as a friend kills potential attraction. Or whether she thinks that love blossoming from friendship in the natural way, or kind of weird/incestuous. Also how strategic and diplomatic she is. Plenty of people would just throw out this compliment without for a moment pausing to wonder that it might be interpreted as "I'm not attracted to you".

>>18302785
>>18302824
That really goes against all the things I thought I knew about sex relations. I simply don't get how a woman would be attracted to someone who is submissive over someone who isn't. Maybe domineering women are just lesbians in denial?

>>18302851

Thanks. I guess I'll just continue to wait.

If she wants to be exclusive it's something new, cause like I say it's been years and she doesn't even want us linked on Facebook. And she definitely enjoyed the sex... I'm pretty sure that's the main reason she sees me.

>>18302864
Look man, obviously it's a lot more complicated than you thought it was. For one thing, being dominated and dominating aren't mutually exclusive. That's exactly what I meant - just because I coddle and fuss over a man doesn't mean he can't turn around and pound me into oblivion if I or he feels like that. In fact, I love the contrast of role reversal so that makes it all the hotter.

Furthermore, women are fine. I'll sleep with a cute woman under the right circumstances. But I like man. I love the smell of men, their body hair, their big hands, their dicks. Just because I don't fit into the very most common and universal trope of a woman into men doesn't mean I'm suddenly a lesbian.

In fact, I like submissiveness in men in part because of the contrast. A big, burly man being vulnerable and on the receiving end of tenderness, teasing, and so on is vitally different than a woman in the same position.

I have this female acquaintance. We get along well and she is always touchy feely with me. All in all I like her.

So she had to crash at my place a few days ago (I have a double bed and she had nowhere to sleep, no ulterior motives). After she came she fell asleep pretty much instantly due to being tired and drunk. I thought no big deal just the usual when a friend sleeps over. In the morning I was awoken by her stroking my hand, and after a while we ended up fooling around in the bed (no sex, just some grinding). We then talked a bit and smoked but she felt distant.
I don't know if she was embarassed or regretting it.

I'm emotionally retarded myself so I never know what to say, but how do I ask her about it in the best possible way?

For everyone: what do you usually talk about with your partners in general conversation?

Not really the right thread to ask this but, how do I effectively release anxiety and anger?

Can't make a new thread, because I'm phone posting in bed. I apologize.

>>18302856
Tough luck girl. The amount of estrogen and plastic things around our lives decreased testosterone in males and combined with feminazi swjs bullshits you have to be very beautiful for boys to ask you out. And even then if he is shy, he may never try asking you.

If you want to give him hints, it will be also almost inlmpossible because simply boys cant pick up social interactions well.

What about ask him what is he doing on weekend? You dont have to use word date, just start talking to him. Still the only guaranteed outcome is to act yourself. Maybe he isnt interested in girls yet. Maybe all his free time is filled with 2D girls and games and you can hardly compete with that.

Tldr feminazis claims equality. If some boy strikes your fancy, why couldnt you ask him out to cinema or sonething.

>>18302707
Like a people.

>>18302748
Move together. After 6 months of living together you ask yourself if she is a bitch or still qtie. Then you marry and impregnate her. Easy.

>>18302788
Ask her, not us. If you dont trust your partner, the relationship is over.

>>18302897
>hey, i have been thinking
>since you already sleep in my bed
>we should also try to date
>wanna go to dinner with me after work?
Buy condoms.

>>18302938
About the latest shitposting trends and memes on 4chan.

>>18302965
>anger
Sport. Online competitive games until you get ban for toxicity.
>anxiety
By ignoring the feelings and forcing yourself to do it no matter what.

For anyone attracted to women:

I'm a lesbian in my late twenties and three years ago I started a job as a receptionist in an office. We had one client who would come in regularly who I always acknowledged was gorgeous but wasn't really my type. I only liked older women with small breasts and short dark hair and darker eye colors. She was a younger woman with huge cow udder tits and long blonde hair and baby blue eyes. One lazy day we got to small talk and I started to develop a thing for her and soon enough I was head over heels in love with her. I thought about her all the time and would always make sure I was the one to greet her and would make her coffee and stuff and try to talk to her whenever she was there. After a while I couldn't resist and found her Facebook and blog and started watching her online. I guess I became a stalker though it was only on the internet and never in real life.

She found out a month ago and asked to talk to me in private and basically called me a cunt and told me to fuck off and leave her alone. She took her business elsewhere (luckily she had a valid reason to do that as we overprice our customers like fuark and didn't tell anyone). I kept stalking her but pretty quickly she deleted her accounts or made them private or something and I told myself I really had to stop so I tried my best and only looked her up a little bit when I was desperate but eventually managed to stop.

Here's my questions:
1Is it normal for your sexual tastes to change when you meet someone you fall in love with like mine did?
2How the fuck do I get over her and stop wanting to talk to her?
3Is it irrational that I'm upset that I'm only into women like her now that I'm trying to get over her? Is there a way to undo this and go back to my old tastes? I hate that I can only fantasize about women like her because it will surely make getting over her so much more difficult and I KNOW the only reason I like busty blondes is because of her and I want to stop.

>>18302477
I think I'd feel good about you being so nice to me. But I'd make to a promise to always pay for you if the situation gets inversed (and I really mean it).

>>18302506
I'm not really keeping up with the conversation, but if this about raping a guy, no, rape is not bad.

>>18302521
Usually girls who don't like it or find it meh say it's like pooping and "unpooping".
I'm >>18301968

>>18302534
Don't worry about it.

>>18302539
>>18302568
STOP OPPRESSING MEN!

>>18302548
I am not anal obsessed, don't ask for it often, I know poop comes out of there and I use condom, so I don't care much. As long as she wipes properly and don't have poop outside of her butthole.

>>18302582
>>18302586
Pretty much this. I find it awesome.

>>18302666
Why don't you like him, though?

>>18302685
"I'm breaking up with you."

>>18302697
The black person has to be really, REALLY good for me to be their friend.

>>18303015
I'm a man but I can still answer you
>1Is it normal for your sexual tastes to change when you meet someone you fall in love with like mine did?
Yes. Love (can) come from a lot of different things and not all of them, like looks, have a role in you falling in love with someone (but they could at another time)
Like, I always thought my style was slightly geeky white girls but, out of 3 gfs, only 1 of them was actually a geeky white girl. The other two being fashion-y black girls
>2How the fuck do I get over her and stop wanting to talk to her?
Time.
Falling in love again.
Time.
>3Is it irrational that I'm upset that I'm only into women like her now that I'm trying to get over her? Is there a way to undo this and go back to my old tastes? I hate that I can only fantasize about women like her because it will surely make getting over her so much more difficult and I KNOW the only reason I like busty blondes is because of her and I want to stop.
See answer 1 and 2
Your tastes are always changing but always the same.

>>18303044
>Your tastes are always changing but always the same.
I see what you mean but I can literally only cum when thinking about girls like her now. Will this change? Thanks for replying, I appreciate your help

>>18303046
Also should point out that big tits were a huge turnoff for me before but now I ONLY like big tits... I want to change this because I know the only reason I like them is because of her and it makes me feel guilty because she hates me for stalking er


friendly sage

>>18303046
I think that's because you're still in love with her.
Try getting off on the porn you were used to maybe?

Where do I find females to talk to? Also do girls actually like just being chatted up out of nowhere?

>>18303050
>Where do I find females to talk to?
Anywhere outside where you can also find men
>Also do girls actually like just being chatted up out of nowhere?
As much as men do

>>18302965
You need to find a hobby that lets you channel anger. Exercise works, get a punching bag or a pull up bar or something. Do it until you'd rather lay down than punch something.

How do I stop being so intimidated by pretty girls? I just feel like they're going to laugh at me for even approaching.

>Our server thinks you look like a robot. Please solve the CAPTCHA below to access the site.
JUST LET ME SHITPOST FOR FUCKS SAKE!

>>18302712
I like hating on both genders and I like being called shitlord. Am I misogynist?

>>18302856
>wants "equality"
>"i don't feel like it's a proper role for a girl"

>>18302864
Maybe you're just stupid in denial?

>>18302866
Are you called Chad by any chance?
With this new info, I think she doesn't like something about you and don't want to be that close to you.

>>18303015
>>18303048
>blonde with big tits
[ BONER INTENSIFIES ]
1. I've never experienced such a thing. There was this black mixed girl who I got a crush on, because she was nice and had good physical characteristics (not looking like the typical nigger). But she didn't make me want only girls like her.
2. and 3. It sounds like you're obsessed. Maybe it's time for professional help?

As a man, how do I stop feeling inadequate ? By that, I mean as a man, it is natural not to feel desired because in society it is expected of men to approach women, so you won't really be getting huge signals or whatever.
But my question isn't about why am I not desired as much as I want to, it's more about how do I stop being a bitch about it ?

>>18303015
>>18303048

1.It's normal. Well kinda. I don't believe your taste did change deeply, you're just into more things than you thought. Now you're "only into big tits" just because you can't stop thinking about her. She is the cause, wanting the boobs is the symptom
2. How the fuck do you get over anybody ? Time + meeting new people unrelated. Maybe fucking another woman with big tits could get the sexual aspect out of your mind at least.
3. Don't be upset toward yourself. You have to learn that your tastes are probably way broader than what you think. And they change with time as much as you change. Again, don't misunderstand the thing, wanting the boobs is only a symptom of wanting the blonde. The important thing to do is to get that woman out of your head. Good luck with that, it ain't easy but not impossible.

>>18303034
>but if this about raping a guy, no, rape is not bad
You did not just seriously say that, did you?

How weird is it for women for the guy to hate being touched?

>>18303082
There must be some specific hormone that causes lactation during pregnancy.
Maybe you can buy that or something that mimicks it?

Do web searches on shit like "how to breastfeed after adoption" and other situations in which a non-pregnant woman might want to lactate, you might find solutions that way.

I'm terrible at knowing when to fug. Is there any body language bullshit I should be paying attention to? Like what are some signs a girl is interested in more than friendship? Particularly less outgoing / more inexperienced girls

>>18303276

Start by kissing before fucking, dude. Escalate things slowly.

>>18303276
Where does one find less outgoing girls?

>>18303276
Time is the most valuable thing people have. If someone is spending time with you, they like you, or they have absolutely no self esteem and can't bear to tell people no.

>>18303284
Yeah I phrased that kind of wrong, my bad. I'm looking for signs that a girl is looking for more than friendship. I'm very dumb when it comes to reading these social cues and stuff so I'm afraid I'll think a girl is interested when she's just being friendly and vice versa

How old is too old for a woman to be a virgin?

Is it less lame if it's because I haven't started looking for a boyfriend, and have been turning down the guys who ask?

The girl I'm dating is very ticklish. Almost any sensual touching I do tickles her
>rubbing her hand when we hold hands
>kissing neck
>licking ear
>rubbing hands around body
>fondling boobs/tits
I don't know what I can do when we're getting sexual. Any advice?

Guys,

I've been on a few dates with a gentleman friend of mine, but he still hasn't kissed me. He's very respectful which is something I appreciate, but because of that we're moving kind of slow. How do I take things to the next level without coming off as forward or trashy?

Any girls wanna share some advice on how to lick pussy? I'm pretty small so might as well try to get her off in other ways.

All I know is you like kisses in the inner thigh area.

>>18303330

Is she sitting close to you? Is she covering her chest with her arms? If you answer "yes" and "no", then you can try putting your arm around her. Break the contact barrier. That's step one.

>>18303342

Same as men, there's no too late as long as you don't make it weird. Some people will care, but who cares about them?

>Is it less lame if it's because I haven't started looking for a boyfriend, and have been turning down the guys who ask?

Ok, so this is trolling. Sorry I replied.

>>18303356

How physical have you gotten? Hug him, rest on his chest, talk close to his face, wear lipstick or at least lip gloss to make your lips pop up, try kissing him yourself, etc.

Pick some or a couple of those.

Also, if a guy you are dating thinks you are thrashy for trying to move things along, then he is a dumbass that won't kiss you on his own terms either.

>>18303360
Putting my arms around her seems like quite a jump. Sure we talk quite a lot and study together sometimes and whatever but I think it'd be really weird if I did that suddenly.

>>18303402

Yet you want so see signs she is down to fuck?

Ok dude, then what's the plan? You are going to wait for her to say "fuck me" when you have never even laid a finger on her?

Also, if you think just holding her would be weird, then that's your gut telling you she is not into you.

>>18303360
>there's no too late as long as you don't make it weird
Well okay.

>Ok, so this is trolling. Sorry I replied.
No, it's genuine. I'm still totally inexperienced, and worry about being a hassle for guys because I'm not gonna give it up easy and I'm going to have to catch up to my partner instead of already being on his level.

>Meet up with female friend to hang for a few hours
>topic goes to "gf/not gf" girl we both know
>i ended up spilling my guts a little in that i'm kinda sad and annoyed that the girl seemed mad as fuck the last we spoke and haven't spoken since
>not only has it reopened the "what if" thoughts in my head, but also i'm wondering if i should text friend sorry for talking about it
Thoughts?

>>18303414

Ok, assuming you are not trolling, the quote I made earlier is gonna get people yelling at you on this board. So keep than in mind.

Being a virgin is hard. This board knows. The best way to deal with it is: Find someone that's either at your same level, or that's cool and understanding. Either way, you'll have to be honest with them.

Getting laid doesn't change who you are as a person, so even if you manage to do it, the doubt and shit you have inside won't disappear. Yeah, it may be easier to do it again wit hthe same person, and what you learn can be applied to other relationships, but there's no big change between "never laid" and "laid". It won't solve your problems.

That's why it's important to be honest with the person. Good luck.

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>>18303412
I'm just looking for signs to help me differentiate friendliness from sexual/romantic interest. I mean things like hugging her would be fine, but putting my arm around her like pic related seems way too much like something a couple would do. It'd be pretty uncomfortable I think, especially considering we're both the "reserved" type. You might be right though, this could mean I don't really have a chance

>>18303441

Ok, so you might not have a chance with this girl. But let's keep this exersice going for next time you do have a chance with another girl.

>I'm just looking for signs to help me differentiate friendliness from sexual/romantic interest.

Well, if you don't do something romantic, then how can you know? You say a hig would be fine, but what's the difference between a friend hug and a romantic hug? See? If you never try, you never know. You can't ocmplain that you see no signals if you only act as a friend.

>>18303448

Fair enough, good advice. Not going to give up on this girl right away but I'll definitely be braver when testing the waters next time. I'm not going anywhere unless I'm willing to take risks

>>18303456

But take small risks. Going for a kiss out of the blue is dumb. Just saying.

>>18303469
Of course, I'll just try to make sure things escalate somehow, even if little by little, until she makes it clear whether she likes or dislikes it

This will sound extremely creepy, but fuck it...

Girls, how do I keep in touch/be friends with a much younger girl?

Me and my gf met a cool girl in a bar, she typed her phone in my gf's cellphone and they traded a few words, but we're 10 years older and a bit awkward/forever alone-ish. We want to ask her to hang out with us but don't want to sound creepy

how do?

>>18303483

>We want to do something creepy without lookng creepy. How do?

>>18303488

Hey, I wouldn't be asking for advice if I didn't already know it... I don't think it's creepy to try to keep in touch, I just don't know how to do that in a non creepy way

>>18303493

You are basically asking "How do I punch someone in the face in a non-violent way?".

What you want to do it creepy. No way to make it less creepy.

>>18303498
Why is it creepy exactly? She's 19, not underage, and enjoyed talking to us enough to give us her number. We're not stalking her or anything, we just could use some new friends...

>>18303506

You are almost thirty. You guys ashould be thinking about marrige, family, moving up in your chosen fields of work, or something like that.

She is 19, she just finished highschool and should be thinking about college, her first job and other teenager/early twenties stuff. You are at different places in life. Keeping a relationship with her is creepy because you have no reason to do it. You are not amily, you don't work together, you don't share any kind os space.

So yeah, it is creepy. And it speaks badly about the place you guys are in life if a 19 year old is a viable friend to have.

>>18303512
>You are almost thirty. You guys ashould be thinking about marrige, family, moving up in your chosen fields of work, or something like that.

Uhhh how being friends with another person of any age is getting it its way? I'm not any less worried about my job or our relationship because of any friendship. I think you're mistaking things or going out of your way to prove your point...

And we wouldn't even trade numbers with anyone if there weren't mutual interests, that's pretty obvious.

>>18303545

Never said it was getting in the way. I'm just making a list to show you have have different priorities, different goals, and live different situations. THat's the point: You don't share enough to make a meaningful connection. If you did, then you wouldn't be asking here what to say. You would talk naturally about that meaningful connection.

>And we wouldn't even trade numbers with anyone if there weren't mutual interests, that's pretty obvious.

Really, then call your friend and talk with her. What are you doing here if it's so "obvious"? Why do you think it's creepy if it is so "obvious" that you are friends with her?

>>18303433
Yeah, I don't think it's going to fix my problems or make me a better person or anything like that. I'm not upset about it. I guess I view sex a bit like travel: it's fun, it's a new experience, I get to learn a little from it. That's all. Sorry if that's a sore spot for you guys.

>>18303193
I'd love to get raped by a girl.

>>18303276
Seems like the next step after cuddling, according to what people say here.

>>18303342
If you're virgin after 30, there is something wrong with you. If you're virgin after 40, I don't want anything to do with you.

>>18303347
Does she enjoy it? Do you mind it?
I'm a guy who gets turned on by getting tickled, but there are girls who don't like when I laugh during sex.

>>18303356
"Kiss me" or "I'd like a kiss"

Girls

I'm average-decent looking guy, /fit/, and well dressed. I don't have sex, and have never had a girlfriend. Generally, that doesn't bother me too much since it's by choice. But sometimes, even still I feel emasculated. Just because having a girlfriend and having lots of sex is what I'm "suppose" to be doing at 25 years old.

Just curious if girls go through the same thing

>>18303588
>Does she enjoy it?
I'm not sure, in the heat of the moment we were half talking about it and she said something like "so dont do it". Though when I played with her hair close to the scalp it tickled but she liked it
>Do you mind it?
It's sort of disappointing. I like to feel the uniqueness of her body and I like rubbing my fingers against her hand when I hold it. Something to keep in mind here is that she's not very experienced in this area

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>>18303642
She'll probably get a little less sensitive when she gets used to it.
Maybe ask her if she enjoys and where she likes it.

If I've known a girl for like a year and we are sort of friends already, how do I impress her before asking her out? is it too late to get her to be attracted to me if she's not?

My dick thinks paying $150 per hour for a whore is OK, but paying $80 per month for the gym is too much. Isn't this wrong?

>>18303669

You don't impress people. If she is not into you, she is not into you. Move on.

>>18303673
What's the point of literally everything people do to get a couple then?

>>18303693

What do they do? I have never had to "impress" someone for a date. Or seen someone do it. We just hang out and people either like us, or they don't.

>>18303699
Usually I say all the cool shit that I've been doing lately to impress them, then they're interested in getting to know me. But if you're already friends I think they already get the idea of what you're like, so there's not much you can do to change that image even if you impress them

>>18303711

>Usually I say all the cool shit that I've been doing lately to impress them

Yeah, that's not my style. I talk to male and female starngers the same way: I talk about myself, and again, either they like it, or not. The only difference is that with girls I flirt. With guys I don't.

Don't focus on impressing people. Just be you andsee how lkes you.

>>18303716
I'm not the guy you were talking to, I actually have a relationship blooming at the moment. I usually bring it up as the conversation continues

How do I meet girls? I'm a 23 year old young professional and everyone in my office is middle-aged. Meeting girls my age was super easy in college because they were everywhere. Now I just don't know how to do it. Most of my friends no longer live in my town so I don't really go to parties anymore.

One other problem is that I look very young for my age. People always guess that I'm around 16. Anytime I've tried to buy a girl a drink or something in the past they act weird about it because they think I'm underage. Is this an issue? It kind of undermines my confidence but there's not really anything I can do about it.

>>18303722

Dude, just talk about your life, no need to keep "impressing" her. Don't try so hard.

>>18303741
this conversation doesn't make sense anymore

>>18303741
The cool things are my life, and without the cool things there wouldn't be any interest in getting to know me. The motive for my doing these cool things in fact are to impress, and it worked

There is a girl I like who is significantly younger than me and I have a pretty significant fear of rejection. How do I get comfortable enough to ask this girl out?

>>18303727
You can start by stop trying to pick up girls on 4chan. Do you honestly think anyone is going to reply to you here and say "omg I'll be your gf". Seriously pathetic anon

>>18303748
>The motive for my doing these cool things in fact are to impress, and it worked

Wow. So you don't live a life you want, with things you feel arei mportant or fun. You just do what will impress others.

>>18303746
>this conversation doesn't make sense anymore

Read above. That's what I was getting to. Actively impressing people is dumb (for me at least). If they don't like you, why bother? You do you.

>>18303766
The things I enjoy the most are not impressive or appealing apparently. I continue the things I enjoy while doing things other people find interesting

>>18303766

Not him

But many people have told me I should go do things that I'm not interested in just to meet girls.

>>18303767

You said you do them to impress. You literaly wrote that:

>The motive for my doing these cool things in fact are to impress

>>18303788
The things I enjoy the most I do for myself and are not impressive/appealing to others, so I do things that are impressive to others too that I don't particularly want to do. To give you an idea, I work 2 jobs from my home

>>18303776

I probably won't work. You'll be bored and be boring. Try being into what you do. Unless they suggested taking abath and shit. Do that one.

>>18303766
I meant it doesn't make sense because other anons responded in a way that made it confusing as to who's talking to who

>>18303796
You might not meet people doing it, but it gives you something to talk about and to impress people with. That's how it helped me

>>18303794

What do you do just to impress?

>>18303796

>You'll be bored and be boring.

I agree with that. All of the things people suggested seem dumb to me (concerts, parties, clubbing, bars). I have absolutely no interest in that.

>try being into what you do

Oh I am. I am into the things I do. But girls don't like the things I enjoy. That's the contradiction to what you're saying.

>>18303798

Let's be clear, what are we talking about?

>>18303801

Wgat do you like? Vidja and fapping?

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My boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me recently (not for the first time. its happened QUITE a few times actually). Is it a failing relationship that shouldn't be put back together because we keep breaking up or should I at least keep trying because I honestly do feel like he is my soul mate (high school sweethearts, have know each other for about 10 years, again dating on and off) or should I just shut it down? I'm fully expecting him to contact me in a few weeks like he always does saying hes sorry and he misses me so much and we always say things are going to change and they do for a little bit but then go back to the way they are right before we break up. What would you do in this situation? Sorry for wall of text
tl;dr
boyfriend break up every so often and get back together. How unhealthy is that?

>>18303808

How unhealthy is that?

What do you think? Do you want to go through the same sequence again?

Girls

I'm seeing this girl and we're quite compatible and like each other a lot.
Thing is: I'm a virgin and she is not. I'm 25 years old so it's not like we're teenagers. Being a virgin is something I've been very insecure about for a long time.

I'm considering paying a prostitute just to get it done with before doing it with her. Is this a bad idea? Would you find it sexy to be the first one of an old fuck like me? Or would it just set off red flags?

>>18302702
>>18303034
>why I don't like him
He's alright, probably a cool person, but we must not have any real connection. I can't take him or his potential crush seriously. And even then if I took him seriously, I'll never consider dating anybody anyway. Just have nothing to give, y'know? Besides my body now apparently.

I might be a little too suspicious. The best I can be is chill around him, and tone down my own negative attitude. I feel badly because I'll never reciprocate - if he does like me, it seems like it's a lot - but I guess the best I can do is not burn him for his crush.

Is age difference a problem for girls? (Especially when the guy is younger than girl)

>>18303800
>scuba diving
>first aid
>volunteering
>working abroad (though I ended up really liking this one)
>taking painting class at different university

>>18303803
I'm saying doing things people typically find cool gives you something to talk about and gives you an advantage getting to the stage past meeting them due to impressing them. You might not like doing these things but it helps

How to tell the difference between a girl flirting to get attention vs being interested in you? Also, if a girl never looks at you when walking and talking is that a good/bad sign?

>>18303817
Oh add going to the gym to the list

>>18303810
I mean, no, not really. But every time this happens, I always hope that somehow it will be different. When we were younger we kept going through the phase every few months but recently, we have been together for 3 years straight. We had a house together and everything. One day I come home from work and he asks me if I ever question our relationship. He never gets another girlfriend, he rarely has any rebound sex, its ALWAYS when something is going wrong in his life and he is beyond depressed (he just quit his job recently and wasn't bringing any money to the table and we were struggling financially) so I understand where maybe having a girlfriend might be an extra burden when you are trying to get your life on track but I feel like that mature thing to do would be to communicate to me how you are feeling instead of just feeling like you're so depressed that you can't do anything and cut ties to all your friends and family until you get back on your feet and then ask for forgiveness.

>>18303342
Just read what boys do and try the same or go forward towards them and meet them in the middle. Good luck femanon!
>>18293702

>>18303426
Ask her on another date. Pretend nithing happened and if she doesnt reply, move on.

>>18303598
Look at start of my post.

>>18303669
Just ask her out on date.

>>18303671
Paying for whores is ok if you want instant satisfaction. Paying for gym should help you in the long term. Maybe stop thinking with dick and use brain.

>>18303727
Looking young is bonus. Try to let grow a beard or visit doctor to see if your puberty hitted you properly.
>>18293702

>>18303749
Grow balls, buy condoms and ask her out.

>>18303811
Super retarded. Being virgin is not a character flaw. Get over with it. Ask her out, buy condoms and if everything fails during sex, use you tongue.

>>18303814
It depends. Your best bet is to try date her anyway and see for yourself.

>>18303821
You cant tell. Some are shy, some are dumb, some are inexperienced. Keep dating them and see for yourself what will hapen.

>>18303817

So do you like volunteering? Or id it just a plan to get pussy?

>>18303823

So you know how he acts. You know he would do it again if things get tough. The question is: What now? It's yout choice. I woulnd't do it, I wouldn't go back. But what do you want to do?

>>18303805

I actually haven't played video games in months, and only fap once a week...

But, I like going to Airshows, going shooting, traveling to historical sites, sightseeing. Not exactly places to meet single girls..

>>18303833
I already get pussy at the moment, but I need some friends though. Rarely some volunteering can be fun, yes. That being said I only volunteered at one event for a few days back in 2012. I'm currently waiting for an event coming up and to see if I can fit a 7 month commitment in my schedule. If I don't meet someone volunteering I can talk about it in passing to impress. The actual events themselves? I don't give a shit

>>18303808
Stop dating him or at least fuck another dude while on a break. I knew this girl in college, her boyfriend repeatedly broke up with her and pursued short term relationships with other girls. They always got back together after a month or so. This went on for all of college and beyond. He did this because he wanted to fuck other girls and he knew his main girlfriend would always wait for him to come back. I know for a fact that he would have been pissed/hurt if she had pulled that shit on him. Maybe if she had dated somebody else for awhile he would have appreciated her more when he was with her.

>>18303840
I'm not really sure yet. Still reeling from the whole thing, you know? Its only been about 6 days so i'm still pretty bummed.

>>18303841

All you do is by yourselft, try group activities to meet people.

>>18303843
Any of the others times that we have broken up, I have always been the one to fuck other people. He never gets into anything. The last time we broke up he slept with this girl that he met online and then never spoke to her again, just because he wanted to get his dick wet and it apparently made him miss me. Idk man, nothing seems to phase him when hes in his own little world sometimes.

>>18303842
>The actual events themselves? I don't give a shit

That's why you don't meet people in the activities themselves. You don't want to be there. People pick up on that.

>>18303853

Up to you. All we can say is: don't act surprised when it happens again

>>18303856

I don't understand.. you said to do things I enjoy, which I am. How am I suppose to find a bunch of cute girls willing to do this stuff? I'd have to do things I'm not
Interested in just to meet them. Girls are not interested in the things I like.

So again, that means I'd have to go do things I don't enjoy just to meet girls.

>>18303865
I know, and I appreciate ya'll for that. Thanks for the advice.

>>18303862
That's true but there aren't any events I want to go to. Aside from the loneliness I'm pretty much fine on my own from what I can tell. If there are some events you actually care about then certainly choose those ones I agree

>>18303832
How is managing to go 25 years without having sex with a woman not a character flaw?

>>18303884

>25 years without having sex

how old are you, 40?

>>18303884
Well, there is a law that you have to go to school. Then there are parents which are making you do things. But in our current age, you can fap all day every day to porn and in some schools it is like 20 boys to 2 girls. Combine it with being introvert with weaker libido and boom, you are 20+ virgin.

We have classes in school about aids. But there are actually no classes about how to date, pick your partners or how to tell if girl will be bitch. Then there are single mothers and some boys have no clue how male is even supposted to behave in modern swjs feminazi society.

I know i am probably talking to normie here who banged girl in his 16, but not everybody is actively pursuing sex from his young age and more than often, waiting for the right girl moment is bad strategy.

And no, you dont help virgins on /adv/ by telling them how weird they are. You help them by realizing that nobody can tell if you are virgin or not, so you can just lie about it and finally go try date somebody.

>>18303867

If "anything with people" includes everything you don't like, then sorry, but how do you expect to meet girls?

Try new things, maybe there's something you'll like doing and just never tried. Right now you are being a baby.

>>18303506
Just ask her to do something with you. I'm 19 and have friends over 30 that I meet up with regularly. I'm a guy tho, but there are women among the friends so beats me if the same rules aply.

Why is it half of women think it's ok to defend their ignorance with petty excuses rather than enlighten their minds?

>>18303873
>Aside from the loneliness I'm pretty much fine on my own from what I can tell.

>Aside from the problem, there's no problem.

>>18303907
Seems like you're trying to make a pretentious social statement than honestly are open to changing your mind about anything. Loaded language and all.

>>18303905

I never said I hate being around people. Usually I find people to talk to when I go places. But again, the things I'm interested are things girls don't like.

People keep saying I should go clubbing,bar hopping, or concerts to meet girls, because that's what a lot of girls like. But I have absolutely no interest in any of those things

>>18303890
25

>>18303901
I am the original guy. I mean it's just a character flaw. I went through Uni and stuff and never managed to connect to a female. That at the very least says I have trouble doing things most healthy males can do. It is a character flaw.

>>18303911

Try classes, or volunteer work. Maybe something artistic. Also remenber, the goal is meeting people and having fun with them, not just getting laid. Any friend can help you meet more people, so it's better to start focusing in having a healthy social circle. Getting laid with one is way easier.

>>18303916

>25 years old
>"25 years without having sex"

You can't say you "went 25 years without having sex". That logically sounds retarded. Just say you never had sex.

You're not going to have sex between age 0-13. 13 at the VERY earliest. why the fuck even include those 13 years? It sounds retarded.

>>18303909

Change my mind about what? You don't even know context. I have literally had nonsense spewed at me that is 100% irrelevant to something I said and then when I ask what it has to do with anything I get responses that are completely asinine then "justified" with further nonsense.

>>18303926
Jeez man it's just a manner of speaking.

>>18303921

I did sign up for a Russian language class at the university. But I didn't like it, and didn't like the classmates. I have been thinking about voluenteering at an animal shelter just to play with the cats. But, that's the only reason I'd do that. Not for the people. I doubt QTs do that job anyways

>>18303935

They do. But again, even if they don't, just making friends is a step forward in your goal.

>>18303947

I have friends

>>18303955

Do they introduce you to girls? Do they introduce you to new people at sll?

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there is a girl I work with who I enjoy talking to and Im pretty sure she find me fun to talk to. on top of that she is pretty qt.

my main issue is that I'm scared of how she will react when she realises I have no friends of my own (I'm a real homebody type)

like I'm pretty easy going to make friends with, like having a light flirt with younger female clients and receptionists of other departments or companies a we deal with.but they never seem to last because I hate going out doing normie things.

I'm willing to do normie things with her but how important is having friends to a girl.

I haven't had friends since I was 19ish and haven't had a gf since I was 21. (27 now)

when I last had a gf she never brought it up and we used to go out a lot with her friends which I actually liked doing. but obviously when we broke up I went back to the Hikikomori life.

like my social life pretty much just consists of visiting my siblings and their kids on the weekend and talking to people pretty briefly after church. overall I'm pretty content and happy with that but it's like people expect me to be doing more which for the most part don't like doing. how do modern girls take this?

I don't even have a FB account anymore since no friends anyways but when I got my sister to check her out she is the type who has like 400 friends.

how important is the dude having friends or even a big network to a girl?

Where does one find more introverted, relaxed girls?

>>18303957

all of my friends are married or in serious relationships. So whenever we hang out, it's just "the guys". So, no.

>>18303970

Then it's not a healthy social circle. It's stable and dependable (that's good) but it doesn't see a big enough influx of people to help you meet girls. Work on that.

>>18303867
Try joining a meetup. I'm sure there are meetups to go to those things you like. There's probably at least one girl. More likely in the historical sites and sightseeing than the airshows and shooting I'd wager though.

Try online dating (but don't expect much) or singles groups in the area.

Consider picking up other hobbies that might have more girls. Not necessarily barhopping or concerts, but maybe hiking or photography or join a ukelele club or something.

>>18303982

Well, it gets difficult when most people you are around are married.

>>18303987

>meetup
I have done a meet up group in the past for a battlefield walk. But most of the people who showed up were much older than me. The girls I've seen at my hobbies were always with a guy. I've never seen an attractive girl at any of those events on their own. They are just things cute girls are not interested in.

>online dating

That's a meme

>pick up more hobbies

Well, maybe I'd do photography if it isn't lame. I do like taking pictures, but only when I go traveling. it's just hard with time to find new things to do. How would I even find a photography group that girls would even go to? I can't really imagine girls just going online to find these groups.

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[m18] want to get back in touch with a girl I used to know [18f]. I went to high school with her but I dropped out 6 months ago. I know she used to crush on me since I was real athletic. I talked to her a few times freshman year but not really since then.

Im thinken about adding some photos and then adding her on social media? maybe dm her after a while?

>>18304018
Many girls want to do things they enjoy with other people, just like guys. Like I said, meetup is an option. There appear to be some female photographers in the groups near me at least, but I can't really tell too much details.

>>18304044

Well, i think I'm just going to keep doing what I'm doing for the next few years. Like I said in my OP. If I'm suppose to meet girls I have to change. Unlike what you or that other anon said. No girl is just going to pop into my life. I'd have to go way out of my way to find one.

>>18304018
>The girls I've seen at my hobbies were always with a guy. I've never seen an attractive girl at any of those events on their own.

Make friends! Female friends introduce you to female people. Even if you don't get a date, just making friends somewhere is moving a step closer to more dates.

>>18304060

That just sounds like a lot of work and time. I already have a very busy schedule, which I try to do the things I enjoy when I can. I really think I'm just going to write off girls. I don't "need" a girl, and I'm not desperate. Lonley at times yeah, but I don't have the time or money to go through all of these hoops to maybe meet someone.

What can be thought if a girl essentially say "We should remain friends for now" and doesn't refute having feelings?

(I know the most likely is that its an easy letdown, but other ideas?)

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>Ask the opposite gender anything
I identify as a bird, I want to ask the cats over here why they are such dicks?

>>18304072
>Lonley at times yeah, but I don't have the time or money to go through all of these hoops to maybe meet someone.

That's up to you. You decide if you are lonely enough to try something. But if you don't meet girls, of course you need to change to meet girls. Just make sure you like what you turn into.

>>18304090

I did find one or 2 interesting groups on meetup. But every single meetup date they have is on weekends, which, I work on weekends. So that's not possible.

>lonley enough to try something

meh, I'm 27 and have always been lonley. It's normal at this point. I was just trying to say, just doing the things I enjoy isn't enough to meet girls. Someone posted that if you just keep doing your normal hobbies things work out, although that's not reality.

Why do people lie?
Why do they believe that lying to you will hurt you less?
Why are they so dumb that they think that they can get away with it when it's so obvious?

>>18304096
>Someone posted that if you just keep doing your normal hobbies things work out, although that's not reality.

If your normal hobbies are lonely, then of course it won't work. But as I said earlier, in your normal hobbies you do meet people, you are just not happy because you want to straight up meet single girls.

[m18] want to get back in touch with a girl I used to know [18f]. I went to high school with her but I dropped out 6 months ago. I know she used to crush on me since I was real athletic. I talked to her a few times freshman year but not really since then.

Im thinken about adding some photos and then adding her on social media? maybe dm her after a while?

After building up the courage, I confessed my feelings to my classmate whom I've had a crush on for quite a while now but never acted upon. I confessed to her and she rejected me but I feel that she behaves differently when she sees me in campus. She also used to react in a weird way when I see her talking with another male student. I've also noticed that she tries to make me feel jealous by joking with my best friend and doing those cute moves or at least I think so. My best friend is engaged and she knows it and is very happy for him so she doesn't do it because she likes him. What does all of this mean? Why is she doing this? Perhaps my mind is trying to convince me that she is targeting me with all of these when she isn't?

>>18304110
>Perhaps my mind is trying to convince me that she is targeting me with all of these when she isn't?

Probably.

But imagine she is really doing that: Do you want to date a crazy person that rejects you only to tease you later? Of course not. So either you are imaigning it or she is a bitch. Move on from this one.

>>18304116
Assuming she's doing that on purpose, just what is she hoping to accomplish?

>>18304122
shes trying to ward of a creepy virgin fag like you

Fellow guys
Why do you blatantly use the bathroom and walk out without washing your hands? I'm standing right there, washing my own hands, and I hear you wipe your ass, get out of the stall, and walk right out the door.
It happens like half the time I'm in the bathroom. Do you truly not care if I see you not wash your piss covered hands?

>>18304122

Does it matter? She doesn't want to date you, or she would have said "yes" earlier. Whatever she wants is not good for you.

>>18303928
Nigga, we all fucking know that shitty people are gonna dodge the point. You're treating it as if it's something tragic and something specific to women, which is a lie.

You "literally" haven't even given the context of this. What points are you even referring to?

I'm not arguing that it didn't happen to you, my point was this: what are you looking for? Can we actually help you avoid these situations and sorts of people?

>>18304130

That shits gross. I always wash my hands

>>18304129
Anon be nice.
>>18304132
Exactly my thought. If she had liked me or even wanted to be with me then she could've said so when she had the chance

>>18304141

So, no need to obsess about her then!

>>18304130
>It happens like half the time I'm in the bathroom.
Shit like this makes me wonder if female separatism ain't so bad.

BTW, women, wipe your ass after you pee. It drips back.

>>18304147
I will not pursue this any further. Thank you for your advice

Are there any sort of signs that a girl is interested in you?

>>18303811
Paying a prostitute would be a VERY bad idea do not do that. honestly she probably won't care about you being a virgin. Plenty of girls find the thought of having sex with a virgin sexy. If she makes a big deal about it she's not the one for you.

>>18303908
I thought the problem was doing things to please other people? I enjoy my own hobbies but people don't care about my hobbies, so I do things people like. Sorry for the late response, went to the gym

>>18304168

The problem is you need to fake to interact with people.

Girls

From your point of view, is there anything wrong with a 27 year old guy who has his life together, and is decent looking. But has never had a girlfriend, experienced love, or had "good" sex?

One of my female friends was just asking me why I've never talked about past girlfriends before. I told her I've never had one, and she said "really?" and got really quiet and looked sad. It was strange

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Girls

What the fuck do you mean when you say that you need more space? She said this 9 days ago, and I said whatever, fine. We havent spoken in 9 days which is weird, but idgaf 2bh.

Am I supposed to do something? Because this have been pretty good so far.

Just saw a girl I recognized from middle school at the post office. She's cute, but I didn't talk to her or anything but this sparked my curiosity:

If I did want to talk to her, how would I even start off? Who knows, maybe I'll see her again.

>>18304198
What's wrong with this webm? It's true all girls do exercises to tone their sexy parts, but is there something wrong?

>but idgaf 2bh
Really? Why are you asking about it?

>>18304234
>Really? Why are you asking about it?
Because I want to know how you women think.

>What's wrong with this webm? It's true all girls do exercises to tone their sexy parts, but is there something wrong?
There is literally nothing wrong with that webm. I've been lifting 6 times a week for 7 years, despite uni, internships and work. Women squating and thrusting is one of the highlights of my days.

>>18303588
If you want it, then it's not rape. Actual male rape, on the other hand, isn't taken nearly as seriously as it should be.

>>18303645
You might have to turn off your adblocker if you've got one.

>>18304250
Sorry dude I'm not a girl, but I'll say trying to find out how girls think is a lost cause

>>18304081
ideas?

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Other girls:
What should I do about this? Is this normal behavior?

>dorm go-to joke or topic of conversation usually relates to boys
>they fight about boys a lot
>I practically stay quiet about em though do say when someone's my type
>usually B teases me regardless, sometimes the others jump on the bandwagon
>lies about boys coming over or us meeting sometimes
>usually is their go-to joke to mess with me
>B and D usually lie, "oh and so and so said anon was especially cute!" in a playful way
>ask to see text and it's played off; it's a lie, they're playing with my feelings
>feels patronizing because they should know the fact that I'll never find love, I look like an old hag and am a diagnosed chronic depressive
>most of them have dated
>I haven't
>I feel like a freak

It's all just playing around, but when its mainly on the topic of boys they say the same things about it all the time, I can't really have fun with it. What do?

>>18304297
Lower your standards. I would bet the only people you're seeing are the party chads that get whatever pussy they want. Why not talk to the guy that plays a game you play in the lounge?

>>18303074

"creep here".

Laughing in my face was the best rejection I ever got.
It can be so much worse, your fear is justified and protects you. Don't try to get rid of it.

Women (although guys can answer this too):

In your experiences, how have relationships differed between the guys who made it official with you without any pushing from you, and the guys who you had to tell or heavily hint to make it official first?

>>18304307
>lower your standards and it'll fix everything
>party chads
...That's a 4chan meme.
Real girls go for real guys. One of the so-called Chads I'm into who shares my nerdy interests and passions complains that girls just don't seem to like him, but openly said that he's only into short or qt Asian girls. He's never had a girlfriend.
Usually something similar is up with the other borderline nerdy guys I've know. Maybe not *perfect*, but still doesn't really care for me. There's just a certain point in which you're too ugly and not qt or short enough to be on anybody's roadmap. I've mostly accepted it, but it does sting when my dormmates have to bring up boys so often and hold them over me.

My standards might be able to ignore appearances, but I'll never have low standards regarding someone's personality. That's just reality--I'd rather be alone and work on myself then settle just throw myself onto someone random for the sake of having a boyfriend.

>>18304359
Post pic?

I'm not even sure if it's a meme at this point
Why don't you girls want kids? My ex's didn't want kids, most girls i know don't want kids. I only know a couple girls that either were teen moms or want only one kid. Personally i want two or more kids, depending if my life keeps going uphill or not.

>tl;dr why won't females have kids

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>>18304369
I already said I'm ugly. That case is closed and posting a pic is usually a bad idea, anyway.

>>18304428
Just cover the eyes, no one will recognize you.

How do I find a girl?I'm broke and there's not alot places to hangout in my town

Secondly if somehow I find a woman online how would I get her to visit me.I mean whlg would a woman travel from a city to a country town for 1guy when she can choose anyone in the city?

Thinking about creating a tinder account. Problem is, i can't take any good photos of me.

Is not liking your appearence in photos a normal thing, like thinking your voice is strange when heard through a recording?

Also if i ever set up a date, I'll most likely flake because i'm worried i'll get extremely anxious going on a first date with a random. Any ideas?

>>18304454
Not sure what you honestly are trying to prove. Aside from my eyes my face is oval and features are regular but with a manjaw. My skin's riddled with red marks and general damage, it's a revolting sight.

>>18304478
I always get someone else to take the pictures for me, for an objective opinion

>>18304479
I'm just saying you might just have poor self esteem. Sometimes your mind will warp that shit into an ugly face, but whatever.

Whats the best way to break up with your girlfriend?

normal to be confused and a possible red flag going forward if the girl you've been dating for the last two months wanted to back off for a minute (to hangout with other guys I know for sure), sorta transition into fuck buddy status, but still says "I love you, I appreciate you, im grateful for you, etc."?


we are not "labeled" as a couple per-say so im trying to adhere all possible warning sings and I don't know why im so dumb and naïve and ignore them

>>18304481
i tried this once, got someone else to take a photo for me but i still hated it.

Also do i look at the camera? what should and shouldn't i do?

>>18304503
You gotta flat out ask her what you two are doing just for practical reasons. Doesn't have to be a label but you need to be on the same page with what you want.

>>18304512
You look at the camera, not into it (the lens), don't force a smile, think of a funny joke or something. Also, if your friend says it's a good picture and you don't think so just trust your friend and use it

>>18304503
>>18304503
That sounds completely suspicious, yes.

>>18304526
>not into it (the lens)

wew thanks dude. I'd always look into the lens. Does that trigger uncannyness?
Thanks a lot.

Also, what about photos where i'm doing something or looking away and not looking into the camera? Are they acceptable?

And what should i do about anxiety if going on a first date with a random?

>>18304523
>>18304534

its been a weird past few weeks to be honest.

im 21 and really haven't had much experience with dating to be honest so im finding it super difficult to break this thing off for some reason. ive done it with past flings.

>>18304541
Looking into the lens always makes me look cross-eyed or loopy, probably does that for everyone. You can look away from the camera just make sure enough of your face is captured

As far as cold feet, my advice is just go through with it, she's just as nervous as you are

>>18304212
Anyone? Actually staring to mildly regret not talking to her.

>>18304130
>>18304134
I'm with you guys.

>>18304250
>Women squating and thrusting is one of the highlights of my days
lol

>>18304409
WHERE ARE THESE GIRLS? I can never find any of them.

>>18304547
alright. Thank you!

New thread: >>18304557

>>18302414
interesting; i am guessing he is trolling?

However, Push up bras/makeup seems fine(?)

>>18302352
that's just fuckin wrong. I find waaaayyyy more white women attractive than I do any other race.

>>18304359
I think you're over reacting. I just said try to talk to them. Lowering standards doesn't mean picking up random losers