So my girlfriend gets embarrassed during sex. She has gotten to the point where she is crying afterwards or after she stops it herself. Is there a way to make it easier or will just take time
>>18301651
>she is crying afterwards
Well that should do wonders for your confidence Anon.
Yes, take her yo a shrink. That's not embarrassment, that's sign of some much deeper problem, likely related to sexual abuse.
Tell her she looks ugly when she cries
>>18301651
The first case for premature ejaculation that I've seen
>>18301651
I have cried during sexy.
Just recently. I had 2
Babies and my husband was fixing me in front of a mirror and I got so nervous that I started crying.
I felt different after having 2 babies and self conscious. He pulled out and never came and it's been a little tense since then.
But we will get over it soon.
>>18301687
He should have held you and reassured you. It's difficult to have your body change.
But crying is a sign of anxiety or some trauma that needs to be dealt with. Have a heart to heart with her and ask her if there's something she wants to talk about and how you can help her through it.
>>18301695
That's true
I was raped. Your girlfriend may have had sexual trauma too.
Sometimes when I feel bad I think about getting raped during sex and cry.
My husband always stops and he does hold me. Not always at this time though sometimes he just gives me space. I try not to do it a lot though because I know it leaves him with blue balls and makes him feel bad. But I can't help it and I really just appreciate him understanding.
It happens maybe 2 or 3 times a year.
>>18301651
>>>18301687
With this in mind I tried talking to her again and it was body image. She told me that I deserved a better looking female and all that shite. So I reassured her I was hers, so ig I'll see if this will help