I feel like everyone my age is effortlessly having casual sex

>>18300871
>tfw no bf to choke me
why live?

>>18300883
I think you answered your own question.

>>18300883

My bf chokes me every time we have sex. I cum really hard every time he does it. I think I'm messed up

>>18300899
Actually you are perfectly normal

>>18300871
Maybe instead of bitching and self loathing try actually searching and dating for the first time?

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>>18300902
I wouldn't go that far, seeing as how she felt the need to inform a perfect stranger on 4chan of this. But, yeah, there's nothing implicitly weird or taboo about being choked during sex.

>>18300899
That is some baby tier fetish, you're fine little boy.

>>18300899
lucky. cherish it.

>>18300905
Yeah, I'm trying. I hit it off with a girl at work the other day, but I think I may have blown it. She's not a regular and she probably isn't going to come back.

Then again, 'hit it off' might be overstatement of the year. I thought she was cute so I locked eyes and trapped her in a five minute conversation about something neither of us cared about. Still, she didn't run away, so eh. Maybe she was feeling it too, or maybe that's just wishful thinking.

>>18300871

I don't know what to tell you, OP. I've been without love for years now, and I'm to the point where I'm contemplating casual sex to just pretend for a moment that somebody loves me. Dating in general now is just awful, and online dating has largely contributed to the problem. People just toss around superficial pop-culture nonsense to define their personality. Their "personalities" shift with the winds of whatever is trending. Actually getting to know anybody anymore seems a lost cause. I might as well get laid? I'm not sure I even care about diseases anymore. Very lonely over here.

>>18300925
OP here, I feel you though I'm in the opposite situation. I recently quit a five year relationship because it had become stifling. Love and intimacy quickly become familiarity and boredom. You constantly have to revitalize your interest in each other and after a while it just becomes a futile effort.

There's something to be said for the companionship, though. But on the other side of the same coin, there's something maddening about waking up every day to the same face, the same routine, the same conversations.

I'm kinda in the same situation desu.Well maybe just chill and flirt a bit will help till you meet someone you hit it off with.Nobody can say for sure when that will happen,it may take a lot of time.

>I feel like the ratio of time spent finding a partner to time spent fucking said partner would be disproportionate. But maybe thoughts like that are the reason I'm not getting laid?

exactly

as well as thoughts like

>Meanwhile I'm mildly autistic, out of touch, totally uncool in conversation (I have no ability to just be casual)