Me and my girlfriend got into an argument
I told her she was being condescending to me
Her reply was something along the lines of "how you feel is your own fault"
This came off as pretty fucked up and cold to me, like she was disregarding everything or how I felt. This made things a lot worse and she refused to see where I was coming from
My question is how would you take hearing "your feelings are your own fault", did I misinterpret what she said? I still can't get past it as being anything but writing someone's feelings off
Thank you
Well you're not telling us the whole story, so we can't weigh in on this properly.
She's right. It's your entire fault. That doesn't mean your emotions are there randomly, they're there for a reason and the reason is her.
>>18299660
>argument
>should I get butt hurt over something said in a fit of anger when both of us were mad, emotional, and out of our right minds?
Up to you.
>>18299690
Partially true but also eat shit people say shit they damn well mean in an argument all the time
>>18299694
Doesn't change the fact. Whether you choose to get butt hurt over it is entirely up to you.
>>18299660
You two were (im assuming) in alot of heat. Was there a better way of saying "youre being condescending to me"? I say there is. You got to explain how you feel. Dont attack her. "I feel like im being treated ______" is a better way of saying it so it doesnt sound like youre atracking her. But of course im assuming she also attacked you verbally. Let this simer down and once everything has settled a bit, talk to her camly. Dont attack her by saying "youre ____" or "you always____." If she attacks you, be the adult and try to regulaye it by asking whats in her mind. Try not to take everything personal, people dont tend to express themselves very well and sometimes they say what they dont mean...
>>18299701
Im not the OP retard
>>18299710
I choose not to get butt hurt over this comment. The choice was mine.