Just got dumped cause im a failure at life ask me anything

#1 dont blame yourself... you didnt cheat or hit her. she got bored and didnt communicate very well and left you high and dry.
#2 Sit down with her and have her tell you how it started and you deserve closure for being faithful. then do whatever you can to rekindle your love
#3 if shes really done.... go hit the gym, play more video games, hang out with friends. Do what makes you happy

i had the same thing happen to me. she got really cold and distant, and only told me 5-6 months after the fact that she didn't love me anymore. it hurt a lot at first, and i felt like i didn't know what i was going to do without her. best thing to do is cut her out of your life all at once, like ripping off a bandaid.

not a shill if you're looking to improve yourself, i recommend the book 'the gorilla mindset'.

>>18299345
thanks
>dont blame yourself...

trying not to, but also trying to keep myself occupied it just felt like i kept disappointing her and always letting her down because i wasn't/am not going anywhere in life. im stuck in a dead end so to speak and she has everything going for her right now...

anyone have any cheerful/uplifting greentext stories? really need to get my mind off this

>>18299368
well she's in the Army she leaves back at the end of the month and has asked me to drive her back, but at this point im lost at whether i should keep trying or just let go like you said