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Hey /adv/
I met a guy this past semester who I started developing a relationship with and eventually caught the feels for
We plan on hanging out a bit next semester, but the problem is, I have sort of become obsessed with him
I know that he does not have the same feelings
I literally can't stop thinking about him
I keep checking my phone to see if he's texted me (he hasn't)
I dream about him, masturbate to him (pretty much exclusively at this point), talk about him to people who don't know him like we're already dating (I honestly doubt we ever will)
I'm worried that this is headed in a very bad direction, so I want to stop before it gets too far
A few questions for you, /adv/:
>how do I stop thinking about him?
>is there any way I could keep up a normal/healthy friendship with this amount of obsession?
>should I attempt to reconnect next semester or have I let my feelings reach the point of no return?
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>>18298611
Yeah, avoid him for a while. Hang out with other people.
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I had the exact same problem OP. Eventually I ended up asking him out and he said no :/
Literally killed all feelings I had for him
Just find some closure and the feelings may stop
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>>18299358
Best advice. Once you find out for sure they don't feel the same way, it just feels extra stupid to waste your time with fantasy.
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>>18298611
I have the same issue
>be incel loner
>help someone out
>we become friends
>we become super close for 2 months
>i start to like her
>she sends nudes, masturbates her
>we meet up irl, she kisses me when date ended
>can't stop thinking about her
>fantasize what it might be like to date
>ask her, "hey anon, i have feels for you. do you like me"
>she avoids question
>outright ask if i should kill the feels, she says no
>going on for a month, she talks to me less and less because she is busy
>she talks about other boys
>she avoids direct questions about my feelings
i am spending all day, everyday, thinking about why shouldn't i just kill the feelings. it's bothering me to no end.
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>>18300051
You should, stupid. She does not feel the same way.
She dodged you but said you should keep liking her, she's explicitly telling you to be a beta orbiter while she pursues people she's interested in.
Also,this isn't the same problem as the OP.
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>>18300064
>She dodged you but said you should keep liking her, she's explicitly telling you to be a beta orbiter while she pursues people she's interested in.
okay, wow. i didn't think she wanted me to orbit and if that's the case then yes, it isn't at all like OP. OP is just unrequited.
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