Can't keep it up during sex with new girls

>>18298591
Bro your dick was hooked up in a sweet 1 bedroom apartment for ten years. He's gonna be a little home sick.

>>18298591
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The whole ride from there to my house she wouldn't shut up about how she's going to keep me up all night and its going to be the best sex we both ever had and I'm just thinking this doesn't feel real it feels like a dream yet I'm to getting in the mood because she has all these expectations and I'm probably going to have ED again. Well sure enough when we got to the house and started making out and she tried sucking my limp dick I still couldn't get it up. Then she whispered "I wanted to fuck you back in 9th grade science class" into my ear and tongued it and then sucked on my neck and gave me a massive hickie. That turned me on enough to get it up and I fucked her good for about 7 minutes or so then I went soft again. She didnt give up though. She kept at it until 3 in the morning as i went in and out of being erect enough to fuck and I ended up going down on her and making her cum but I never finished bc I only could fuck her in intervals. Luckily she told me it was still good for her and she wants to do it again but hopes that next time ill be able to keep it up. It was so frustrating because it should have been the best night of my life but it was ruined by the god damn problem and I don't know where it's coming from. It really sucks by I don't want to let her down again and I'm worried that I'm going to be avoidant because of it like what happened with the other girls. I think I really like this girl, or just really want to have good sex with her. What should I do?

Go to your doctor and talk about it. They'll understand and prescribe you with something like viagra. Did you jerk a lot as a child/teen? That might be why.

>>18298617
Yeah, but I discovered she was fucking random strangers she met on r/gonewild. I'm not hung up on her in the least bit. But I have noticed that my sex drive in general has been down since going through the whole thing even though it was 6 months ago. It doesn't help that this girl I'm fucking now is married but separated and she claims its because "he kept accusing her of cheating". But this woman is amazing and she wants me and all the other girls I've gotten with were at least two points out of ten below her. But part of me says I'm in forbidden territory because even though I can confirm they are seperated through their FBI status it's only been three months and he was texting her when she was here and she brings him up a lot when we're texting like how he's being an asshole and wont leave her alone and stuff. Maybe I'm getting some fear of stepping in shit or something and its contributing to my problem I dunno. I just know that I want this chick more than I've wanted any of the other girls I attempted sex with recently.

>>18298664
Yeah of course I jerked a lot as a youngster who the fuck didnt?

Ironically I remember beating off thinking about this very girl when I was in 9th grade. I never imagined that 15 years later I'd finally get to have sex with her but couldn't keep it up. That's the cruel irony of my shitty life I guess. At least I might be getting another chance but yeah I should probably find some Cialis first. I'm hoping that having one successful fuck will get me out of the loop of fear that its going to happen again.

>>18298591
Gelatanized maca is a really good suppliment for sexual health too. Google it. Take it every day and you'll start noticing a difference almost immediately

>>18298777
>Peruvian viagra

This has been happening to me for about 4 years now too. Started when I was around 24 or 25. I think it's mostly a psychological thing. If I think some bitch is stupid or she doesn't give me emotional affection, I literally just can't get it up for her. Girls have literally begged me to fuck them and sucked on my dick, and I couldn't get hard if I didn't feel like they actually liked me instead of just wanting to fuck me. Women are pieces of shit. I blame too many of them either cheating on me or trying to cheat with me for my contempt for them.

You just have performance anxiety and she is doing EVERYTHING wrong to make it worse. She sounds crazy, she's not dating material. Tell her to chill the fuck out and be patient if she wants it so bad. Putting pressure on you will only make you limper.

>>18298798
Yeah I think that might be part of my problem as well. After discovering all the messages detailing the sexual acts between my girlfriend who I have a kid with and was with since we graduated high school and the random guys she used to fulfill whatever sexual needs I didn't give her, I just don't see women in the same light. I never had that problem with her and I thought our sex life was great and I never thought she was that kind of person but sure enough she was hooking up with strangers on reddit and fucking them at the hotel she works at. Now every time I meet a girl and she says she just got out of a relationship I immediately suspect that she was the problem especially when she says the guy was so horrible and he "suspected she was cheating". It makes me feel like the guys who were fucking my gf and it doesn't feel right even though I still want to do it. Some girls are irresistible though especially ones who you had a thing for in hs and they suddenly message you 15 years later wanting to have sex with you finally. I just really hope this is a psychological phase and not early onset of serious physical dysfunction.