I am starving for some form of intimacy. About to turn 24 without

>>18297135
>I want to say I don't seem desperate or needy for attention

But you are desperate. Chill, channel that energy into something, and just try to start meeting people when you are out. If bars aren't your scene do something else.

>>18297142
Meant to say I don't think I appear to be needy or desperate to others.
I do want to stop with going to bars for a bit, it's just a matter of finding something else to do.

>>18297145
>Meant to say I don't think I appear to be needy or desperate to others.

You think you are good at lying, then? Believe me, it shows. When you act out of desperation, people can tell.

If you try to score with a girl just to cross out "get a loving hug" from your life checklist, girls wil be turned off. Learn to be alone, learn to be fine with being alone, adnd then getting with someone will be way easier.

>>18297151
So am I supposed to to everything alone expecting someone to fall into my lap with no effort put in to finding someone?
This isn't sarcasm btw, I'm pretty sure I'm socially inept.

>>18297135
In your age group people are a LOT less controlled by physical appearance than they were by teens. The other gender is more open to someone really nice/funny/smart/interesting/approachable and more likely to respond to what's attractive within you than outside.

As you say, loosen up and let the "real you" show - and whatever that real you is like, there is likely to be someone who likes it.

>>18297213
>So am I supposed to to everything alone expecting someone to fall into my lap with no effort put in to finding someone?

No, you are supposed to love yourself for who you are (or can be) before asking someone else to shower you with affection. Other people won't make you worthy. You have to be worthy to get other people.

>>18297135
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>>18297757

>All you have to do is to behave like you are horny beast a little on dates. Try to kiss her, tell her she makes you nervous because how sexy she is, hand hold her in public, hug her, bring her flowers on 2nd date, try asking her if you can walk her home, ask her if she wants to see your butterflies collections etc.

So the rest are first day suggestions? Only the flowers are for the second one?

Yeah, guys here won't get laid like this. They lack the ability to read their partners signals, so bahaving "like you are horny beast" will get them slapped (on the best case scenario).

>>18297767
You can try read the whole thread. When you are big robot, you can use compliments and words to behave like that.

Also if girl really finds you cute / attractive enough, she wont friendzone you. She can also escalate things herself. But it is better to act like a male if you are the boy in relationship.