Is porn cheating? What about sexual online chats?

>>18296104

Regular porn is just porn. I don't know how anyone sane can consider that cheating.

Chats with strangers online seems like a grey area depending on what's going on and I'd probably be inclined to consider that cheating. If you're being open about what you're doing and your significant other is chill with it, though, it's all good. Important thing is communication

>>18296104
Porn is perfectly fine and not cheating.
Roleplaying with random online people is cheating.

Sexual activity that involves 1-on-1 interaction with another person makes it cheating for me.

What about live cam shows?

>>18296135
Not cheating if there's no 1-on-1 interaction (350 dudes watching a girl who is masturbating), cheating if there is the interaction (you and her are masturbating alone, she chats with you, etc).

>>18296141
What if it's 350 dudes watching and you can chat and she responds to what you say

What about strip clubs

>>18296104
Anything you wouldn't do with your partner right beside you should be considered cheating. I would honestly dump your ass for going on sites like that. Watching some porn is understandable, but you're basically using these other women to get off. That is cheating

>>18296142
Then it is cheating because there is the 1-on-1 interaction.
You're not passively assisting and using what you see as an aid to masturbate, you're actively involved in a sexual act with someone else.

At least, this is how it is in my book and where I draw the line.

What if it's a live cam show and he donates?

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>>18296148

Not cheating, but would piss me off a bit.

What if it's one of those new robotic fleshlights that connect to mimic what someone else is doing to a dildo.

>>18296169
What if it's a lapdance at a strip club

If you were my bf and doing all this shit instead of fucking me I'd wonder where I went so wrong.

what if it's masturbating to non-nude pics of people he knows in real life

>>18296135
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>>18296197

The fact you need all of this and have to ask if its cheating should show you that you have a problem. Are orgasms that important in your life youre willing to risk your relationship and deeply hurting someone you supposedly love to get it? This thread is pathetic and most likely bait. Grow up and get some control of yourself. Like holy shit lol are you actually that retarded? Youre poor girlfriend. She doesnt know shes with a sex obsessed parasite. Truth always comes out eventually

What if it's following sexy girls on instagram and liking their photos and sometimes commenting but they never respond

>>18296104
This is a good question and reveals that the subject needs honest communication in all romantic relationships.

My wife once asked me just how often I wanted to have sex. "If we're not doing it 2 to 3 times a week, there's something wrong."

You realized that everyone has different levels of sexual desire.

Talk about it.

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>>18296212
Pretty pathetic.

>>18296194
>>18296197
Cheating.

>>18296230
What if it's imagining people he knows irl during sex

>>18296234
He should be fucking them and not me.

>>18296129

What's the difference between watching porn with a pornstar in like a jerk off instruction video and 1-on-1 interaction with someone you don't even know?

What if it's hanging out with a female friend and paying for her meal

pretty low quality bait.

basically if it's something you wouldn't be comfortable with her doing it (e.g.: giving a lapdance), it's probably cheating.

>>18296242
In the pornstar case, she's not engaging in any activity with you specifically.
If you are roleplaying online, you are engaging in a sexual act with another person which is cheating.

>>18296266

Even if it's just like.. text?

in both activities you're jerking off in front of a computer

>>18296270
Yes, even if it is just text.
You are being sexually involved with another person who isn't your SO.

Would you be fine with your girlfriend telling LongAndHard88 that she met on a dirty kik thread on /soc/ that she wants to suck his dick and gag on it? Probably not.
Same concept applies.

>>18296276

... Point taken. I never considered it that way. I guess I am a terrible person then. Thanks for the advice and the honesty. At least you have decency and common sense

>>18296285
I said this like 10 posts ago you tit
>basically if it's something you wouldn't be comfortable with her doing it (e.g.: giving a lapdance), it's probably cheating.

>I guess I am a terrible person then.
yes, kys.

Who cares if its cheating. No point being faithful as youll only get fucked over in the end. So do what you want.