Can't seem to move on

>>18294257
You're being delusional. She obviously values your friendship but you're trying to manipulate her into loving you. Move on.

>>18294257

>this is how autistic manchildren see the world

>>18294315
hey at least give me some advice on how to be less of an autistic manchildren

>>18294338

First, you give off a really weird vibe with 'we can't be just friends if I like you so much' but you continue to speak to her and be her friend. You basically just threw an empty 'pls date me or Ill be sad' out there and didn't follow through at all. If you hate that she won't date you then stop being her friend, there's nothing wrong with that. Tagging along like a sick puppy and hoping she will change her mind is misleading to her and just going to hurt you long term because she will genuinely think you're her friend while you're secretly hoping for her to want to date you suddenly.

Second you clearly put WAY too much stock into minor things. The fact that she re-dyed her hair for example, could have been 100's of different reasons but instead you link it to the fact that you told her you hated red hair.

You take minor events of no significance and tie large emotional attachments to them which is just a set-up for future disappointment.

>>18294257

You need to let it go, you can't make someone find you attractive, they either do or don't. Nothing you do will suddenly change how she feels. She values your opinion and friendship but that doesn't mean anything romantically. If you can't have a platonic relationship with her then you will have to part ways like you said for your own mental health and sanity.

>>18294349
>>First, you give off a really weird vibe with 'we can't be just friends if I like you so much'
Agree, it was utterly autistic. To be fair i did want to just stop being her friend but i just got attached to her.

>Second you clearly put WAY too much stock into minor things
Yeah..

Thanks for pointing those things out anon, i'll try to not make the same mistakes the next time. For the record, after the hair thing she's been asking advice from me on several things related to how she looks.

On a side note, i've always wondered what's actually happening in those rare cases where the girl eventually starts to like the guy after long friendship relationships

>>18294358
Don't worry anon, we've all been there where we put women on pedestals. If you continue to fail over and over again thought you'll eventually not care as much. Good luck anon.