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How to tell if flirting or just being nice?

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Ok so I'm a relatively new host at this restaurant and theres a server/bartender that seems to have taken an interest in me. In the past week we exchange lingering glances with smiles, she says "hey [name] how are you doing today".

Now typing it out makes it seem like this is just general friendly stuff, but theres something that makes me feel something a bit more. Any input? I can hit up my good female friend who got me the job because they are actually roommates I just found out from some light fb stalking. The girl in question is currently single as well
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>>18292907
Ask her to hang out somewhere else after work.
When hanging out try to read signs, like what topics she brings up. Body language, etc.

Alternatively some Anons might tell you to walk up to her and ask to be fuckbuddies. Ignore the auspies.

Talk, read body language, notice things.
Invite places like movies, see if says yes. Etc.

Best of luck Anon.
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>>18292907
Didn't you already ask this on a different thread?
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>>18292919
Yeah but I wanted to get like a more in depth chat going about it
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>>18292917
Will do, I think I'm going to text my friend about her tonight
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>>18292924
Fair enough, here's my input: Just let things go on as they are, judge whether she's into you through her body language, clothing etc. At least for now, because at the moment it just sounds like she's being nice
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>>18292930
My original advice was the good advice. Here is the bad: You are probably right, she is probably into you. Restaurant business is pretty grimy thing. Lots of fucking off, fucking, drugs, theft, etc. I know I did it for a while.

Sure you two are nice decent folk. But if you are in the areas you can, consider activities that loosen both of you up, like drinking or recreational alternatives. Once both loosened up, it should become clear how you both feel.

Don't be a fuck up or perv - not suggesting anyone take advantage of anyone, but ppl relaxed talk easier. One way to figure it out. Also, what you looking for Anon?

Fun? Relationship? Fun-Relationship? Haven't decided but giving in to my hormones sounds like good idea? All cool.
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>>18292955
No idea what I want anymore and that's my problem. I hate hookups, I'd almost always be romantically be involved with someone instead even if that means nonsexually (what can I say? Catholic guilt does wonders) but I am graduating and leaving the town I'm in at the end of the summer. So I have no idea what the future will hold.
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>>18292955
I normally wouldn't want to be that guy but it seemed like she was happy to see me when she came in today and talked to me. I mean it could also just be my Brain telling me what I want to see
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