So I'm in an unusual situation; I've two girls really interested in me and I can't choose which to go for.
More info:
>match with girl on tinder from my home city this easter
>we matched the day I left for my current city where I'm studying so we didn't get to meet
>she starts the tinder convo and basically we hit it off extremely well, she's a really cool girl and she's super into me
>we've been snapping every day since then and she's already sent me nudes and there's basically an understanding that when I go back home for summer we're gonna hang out, fuck, and then who knows
>however, she has no plans of leaving our home city (she's a student there) and I have no plans of leaving the city I'm currently a student in so a relationship would kinda suck because we wouldn't be in the same place for years, only really able to meet between semesters and taking the odd flight in semesters
>then again, she seems like a really cool girl
and then this happened
>last night be at a party
>meet another girl that seems pretty cool (not sure if she's as cool as girl number 1 tho but still pretty cool)
>she's about equally hot
>we hit it off but because of some logistical problems we didn't hook up that night, however she wanted to meet me again
>so we're gonna meet this week
>not sure how I feel about it since I've been talking A LOT to this other girl
what do?
I would advise against pulling any romantic moves on both of them simultaneously. You should probably see how things go with the first girl, you seem to be more into her. You could try to stay in the second girl's life until you find out what's happening between you and the first girl. Just don't leave anyone waiting, feeling like a plan B isn't a good feeling.
>>18291787
you know the tinder match likely matched with other guys and she's sending them nudes and hooking up so I wouldn't take that one seriously.
>>18291867
problem is I'm not gonna see the first girl for at least another month though. I mean we haven't even met in person yet, so I'm not 100% sure I like her more. I've just been snapping a lot with her.
>>18291916
I kinda doubt it because she keeps sending me snaps of her coming home from nights out alone, indirectly showing me she's not fucking around, I mean she seems really into me.
>>18292170
>I mean we haven't even met in person yet
From past experience, pick the person you met in real life over the online. If you really want to keep contact with tinder girl then do it. Just be real careful and keep the same sort of mood.
I once talked A LOT to a girl on Tinder and snapchat, then met a girl in real life. I carried on doing both but my attitude towards the tinder girl subconsciously changed and she noticed. Eventually she asked and I just told her we could no longer chat and I was seeing someone else (cold I know but that was over a year ago and I've vowed never to do it again).
Be careful Anon...
>>18292311
thanks I will
Just go out with both at least once. Years ago I was talking to 3 online, settled with 1 without meeting in person, blew off other 2. Finally met the girl I liked...I was bamboozled. Wasn't even the girl in pics sent. Felt like a dumbass.
>>18293997
this is what I'm thinking about doing. The problem is just the time windows: I'm meeting girl 2 tomorrow but I'm not gonna be able to meet girl 1 for another month. So I'm gonna have to keep this up for at least a month if I'm gonna manage to meet both.