ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

Girl I'm dating (who's social but not outgoing at all) texts me out of the blue on a late afternoon that she's having fun. Ask her what's up and tell her to enjoy, and she gets all secretive and quiet. Then, shortly after, she brings up something entirely different and responds instantly to answers about that.

Girls, amuse me. What's going on?

>>18291706
playing super smash most likely

>>18291706

She wants you to dig deeper and is trying to gauge your response to her having fun. It's a shit test.

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Autistic permavirgin retard here.
Was talking with the girl i like and all that.
So when i was leaving, i told a joke, and so we kept eye contact a bit, her smile was that kind of smile when they smile but keep their mouth open, like surprised, and her eyes looked kinda surprised, it ididn't feel like that kind of smile a friend would use neither her gaze, what should i think , how can i really tell she likes me, physical, how should her smile and her look? i'm sorry so bad

She was smiling with her mouth half open a lot of the time, like waiting for something idk.
Then her gaze at me while i was leaving felt different, please help ):

>>18291718
Eh, I like the Smash one better. At least Final Destination's winnable

She has been online several times now but doesn't read my messages at all
Is there a non cringy way to ask why she's doing that?
It's killing me that she ignores my messages
it's not the first time

when we meet we talk a ton and do stuff but when I message her she somehow ignores me completely for days

is this some sort of game?
that's just cruel

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>>18291722
RRRRRRRRRRRRREEEEEE
That's literally what has been happening to me last weeks, as far as i know she's busy, like real busy, she goes online for like 5 min a day.
But i just don't know if she's just ignoring me or what, i fucking hate this game or w/e it is

So... if I sleep with one girl in a group of friends, is it still somehow possible to get with one of her friends? Or am I now forever "marked" as hers?

I may have done something a little stupid.

Why doesn't pretty girl message me? ;_;
I don't message her because my ego (e-penis) doesn't let me.

Dominant guys.

What do you expect a submissive girl to do?
My boyfriend is very dominant and I find it very sexy, but I really suck at being submissive. I either end up being a starfish/really passive or topping him from the bottom.
I was more dominant in my only other relationship, so I think I am having trouble adapting.

Tallmid 20s + women,

If a short man (5ft 4in) man tried to rob you and rape you, would you comply or fight him?

>>18291745
Honestly, I have never thought about what the girl _really_ does when we do it
she moans, she smiles at me, she enjoys herself, that's what I like to see
I don't expect anything else from her, no shitty slutty dirty talk or whatever, dunno
but I can only speak for me of course

Girls, i want to create a tinder account but i dont want to link it to my Facebook because i have like 200 friends and im ashamed of it
Is it a dealbreaker if i use my phone number instead?

>>18291745
Well i'm having that kind of issue, i'm not in a relationship yet, however i ended up talking for 4 hours straight with the girl i like, i totally dominated the date, she didn't speak at all, it was annoying at some extent.
Because it feels like she has no interest even though she does.
Being submissive is not all about "yes master"
Being active THEN sumbiting, now that is hot

>>18291741
You are forever marked dude wtf that is a retarded question You already know that

Girls

Can you be addicted to a good cock?

A little backstory, a girl I'm sleeping with has a long term (4yrs) boyfriend that shes's cheating on. According to her their relationship is perfect EXCEPT for the sex. She comes to me for sex around once a week. She says she's addicted to my cock. Is this a real thing? Can you be so addicted to a good dicking that you're willing to risk a 4 yr relationship?

>>18291741
She will eventually wonder if you're just there to fuck and move on, dropping her after sex and just moving on to the rest of her friends. Quickly, the others will catch on to this game too.

Best method: Spend more time with the one you had sex with; develop a friendship and slowly level away from the sexual side of your interactions, if you decide you're not that into her personality. You can become a friend of the group, and only then at that point, you can proceed to start with one of the others.

>>18291765
I mean, I do - I enjoy myself and moan. I love our sex, he's amazing in bed and pleasures me.
But when we get really kinky I feel like I am not doing it right.

>>18291768
I'm not passive at all, neither in everyday life or in bed.
We are in a very "equal" relationship, conversations are fun, the relationship is balanced.
When we have not-so-kinky sex, I feel really comfortable taking charge, being on top. I even initiate sex half of the time.

My problem is really just during kinky sex. I don't know what to do because I really have never done it.
I end up either telling him what I want him to do me (which is not the purpose of being dominated), or I limit myself so much that I end up being boring and passive, which makes everything less enjoyable for both of us.
I am a terrible submissive, I can't find balance.

>>18291745
>>18291765
ah right I forgot
touching of course, a lot of it
feel him up, his arms, his legs maybe, his chest, his ass (no poking of course, if you know)
if he's into it maybe tickle his sides or whatever while he's doing you, caress him
everything is better than starfish

>>18291796
nigga just rape him

>>18291722
>>18291729

Some people don't like to text. Some people won't like to text you, even if they are fine talking in person.

You can't look at this piece by piece. Based on everything she does you can tell if you have a shot or no. If she even cares about you as a friend.

The fact that you are bitching about her not replying tells me she doesn't give much of a fuck about you (each of you). If she did, you wouldn't care.

My gf has been complaining of uterus pain since the last time we fucked. She isnt ln ber period. Says her tummy area is tender. Any girls know anything about this?

>>18291798
I would, if he let me. I like being dominant too. Did it a bunch of times with my ex.

>>18291797
I don't really like being fucked in missionary.

>>18291805
>can only touch him in missionary
sorry what
what else you gonna do with your hands then? lay on them? waddle around in the bed?
>>18291796
Sorry but now your posts get a bit contradictory
Doesn't really sound like your bf is really dominant
If you have to tell him what to do most of the time he's not dominant, not from my understanding
When having sex I dictate the positions and the pace (while considering everything, don't worry)
The girl is the person I want to pleasure in bed, it's MY responsibility to achieve that
not hers

>>18291720
why

>>18291720
nobody

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I can't masturbate to porn featuring real women anymore.
Hentai has ruined my ability to enjoy actual people porn. 3D women honestly make me gag.

Is this a problem? I mean, if I ever were to have a gf, I fear that I wouldn't be able to find her arousing or shit like that.

>>18291720
answers

>>18291817
>what else you gonna do with your hands then?
He mostly takes me from behind, that's how we both enjoy it most. I can't really reach him.
My hands are either behind my back or helping me to stand.


>If you have to tell him what to do most of the time he's not dominant
He doesn't need me to tell him what to do.
Again - I don't know how to properly be submissive. I don't know how to be not passive if I am not being dominant. I end up topping him from the bottom (telling him what to do me), or being very passive.
I was asking how to find balance and be properly submissive, because I feel like I'm fucking it up right now.

It's my issue, not his.

Girls, how does it feel having your breasts played with or licked? Is it sexually pleasurable, or is it just something you're happy to do because the guy enjoys it?

>>18291864
>Girls, how does it feel having your breasts played with or licked?
It feels pretty good but nothing amazing, at least to me.

How do I find women that aren't whores? It seems like in order to get a girlfriend, you have to act like an alpha douchebag. Most women don't want loving boyfriends, they just wanna fuck Chad.

>>18291894
Pretty much all girls want loving boyfriends.
You can be loving without being a doormat who bends over and takes all her shit. That is unattractive.

>>18291894

Have you tried? Have you found a kind, loving girl by actiong lke a douchebag?

>>18291909
Yeah they want Chad to love them, but most women are honestly so picky nowadays. I'm not even that unattractive and I rarely get matches on Tinder (I've had it for 6 months and only have 44 matches), and when I try and talk to the girls I match with, they just give me dismissive, one-word responses. Like they don't even want to try and talk to me. So my question is: where can I find women in my league that want to date men in their league?

>>18291922
No, but lots of guys do it, and I would give it a try, but I just can't do it. I don't look masculine enough to act like a douchebag; if I tried acting like a douche, people would just make fun of me.

>>18291929
Probably you are seriously overestimating how attractive you are. Or you are really boring.
Plus, you sound bitter as fuck and that's so unattractive.

>>18291936

Then maybe the problem is you, man. If you know what women want and still can't get them, maybe you are just mistaken about what women want.

>>18291938
No, I posted my pic on /soc/ once and most people said I was at least a 7. I used the same pic on my Tinder profile and I barely get any matches. Even if I am unattractive, I still want to date a girl in my league, but it seems like most girls only want to fuck guys who are way out of their league, which makes it impossible for any guy who isn't super attractive to get a girlfriend.

>>18291944
>>18291936

>which makes it impossible for any guy who isn't super attractive to get a girlfriend.

Thought it was about how you acted, not how you looked. Now it's only attractive douchebags that get laid? I call bulshit on that. I know plenty of fatasses that get laid regularly. I'm sure you do to, or at least see them with their girlfriends on the street.

>>18291952
I'm just asking how to find women in my league who aren't whores. It's a pretty simple question.

>>18291944
First, stop trying to find a girlfriend on tinder. It's an app to hook up.
Go out and meet people in the old fashioned way, or go on other dating sites.

Attractiveness is a bit more complicated than "look good". It's about your confidence, the way you carry yourself.

If a cute guy sent me a shitty opener I'd immediately be turned off. If a cute guy had cringey clothes or a shitty bio, I'd be turned off.

>>18291957

Oh, I guess putting dumb statements around your questions make people focus on those instead. Use this advice on ddating sites, too. If you add crap, don't complain when people don't focus on the good. No one wants to deal with crap.

>I'm just asking how to find women in my league who aren't whores.

There are plenty around you. Work on being a better person and they might decide to stop ignoring you.

>>18291963
That's bullshit. Confidence only works if you're attractive. Unattractive guys who act confident are considered "creepy."

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Women

What is the ideal male height?

>>18291968
>Unattractive guys who act confident are considered "creepy."

What's confidence to you? I'm not that same Anon, by the way.

>>18291966
I'm a pretty good person to be honest, I just hate how women only go for guys way out of their league.

>>18291972

>I'm a good person, I'm just mad at women in general because I believe they all behave the same. Why don't women want to date me?

Bump >>18291744

>>18291972
If you were attractive and had a good personality, you wouldn't struggle to find a girl.
If you cannot find one girl out of 3.5 billion that likes you it is probably because there's something wrong with you, not because there's something wrong with all of them.

>>18291969
Around 5'10", I'd say.
My first boyfriend was a little shorter than 5'7" and my current is 6'4" so I guess it doesn't really matter much for me.

>>18291969
I like men in all heights buut being a tall girl, really tall is the best. There's this guy I work with who's, 195 cm maybe? And next to him I feel SMALL. Which never happens. So it's awesome. The only guy I dated was shorter than me and I didn't mind though.

Is it okay to send a "how are you?" text to your ex after 1.5 months? The relationship was short, about 4 months, but it was overall positive and we broke up because she wasn't ready for a relationship.

I do still have feelings, admittedly, but I know better than to pursue something if she's not ready.

>>18291993
How tall are you?

>>18291978
Obviously not all women are like that, but a good number of them are

>>18291994
>she wasn't ready for a relationship
Is that how you call "wanted to fuck other guys" now?

>>18292000

You are still starting the interaction with your guard up, dude. If you go ready for a fight, people react badly. Until you deal with your own issues towards women, don't expect women to have patience. You are the common thread in all your interactions. All women don't think and behave the same way, but most people react badly when they are subjected to unfair prejudices. Don't blame them when you are starting with the wrong foot.

>>18292002
I'd like a reply from a non-virgin, please.

a few days ago i met a girl online, she is very kind and we can really talk about our problems/things we've been through (trauma's in the past). the thing is that she doesnt live close to me and she is a few years older then me(4-4,5 years older). what should i do?

>>18292016
>the thing is that she doesnt live close to me and she is a few years older then me(4-4,5 years older). what should i do?
Forget about her and move on.

>>18291998
175 cm

>>18292016

Understand that's not a relationship that will develop into boyfriend/girlfriend. If you can share stuff and it makes both of you feel good, great. But don't expect too much. This is probably as much as you'll get out of this.

>>18292022
Where do you live?

>>18292045
Argentina

>>18292054
Ok, that makes sense.

>>18291969
For me, somewhere between 5'7" and 5'10", leaning more toward the shorter end of that range

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>>18291992
>>18292062
We're talking about men here. Are you serious?

>>18292112
Who is this goddess?

>>18292112
m-marry me

>>18292112
How do I get a gf like that?

>>18292112
Rita Faltoyano > Karlie

>>18292112
God daaaaamn.....

I feel like getting in shape all of a sudden.

>>18292112
How tall is this gorgeous angel??

>>18292136
lol

>>18292136
Said no one ever.

>>18292112
Fuck, I remember her from another thread. Her name is Karlie Kloss.

>>18292150
>follow your dreams

A friend of mine and I both clearly like the same girl. What's the right way to deal with this situation?

>>18292169

Is she into either one of you? Then the other one steps down. If she isn't into either, then leave that girl alone.

>>18292176
I can't really tell if she's into either of us. She's the kind that's very enthusiastic and friendly with everyone.
It also feels kind of awkward when both of us are around her.

>>18291864
I almost cum from it. Presumably, this might be a rarity.

>>18291969
5'11-6'0
This number would vary depending on what height I was at. Being 5'9, taller is the preference.

>>18291972
>I just hate how women only go for guys way out of their league.
>Hating on evolution

Going for the highest sought after males is the way it should be.

>>18292184

How about you go find girls on your own? You know, away from this bullshit drama?

>>18292195
But I'm more interested in the girl than the bullshit drama

I've been betrayed many times throughout my life and got some pretty strong trust issues out of that.

Now I'm kind of dating this girl who's got a very social shell, but is very sheltered and insecure behind it. 'Kind of' because she's interested but wants to take it slow.
She does have guy friends, most of them from a culture where it's normal to be very warm in the things they say and do. She hates it, but at the same time says she's flattered and keeps reaching out to them.

I don't feel alright with this, because it tears open old wounds and it hurts me that she won't tell me or at least assure me what's going on.

What can I do, other than the obvious "reee move on"-answer that /adv/ loves to give?

>>18292200

They are together, dude. You can't have one without the other. Make a move, create drama.

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I'm 27 years old, never had a gf, not a fatass or obese and take good care of my skin.
I can hold a conversation and being that I used to be "the funny one" back when I was a kid I can make the conversation enjoyable.
But not matter what women just stop acknowledging me after meeting with me, it doesn't have to be a date I could just meet a girl as friends, she'll still erase me from her world right after saying goodbye.
What in the fuck am I doing wrong? I no longer feel like it's worth trying to get to know women(or even people) and just accept my depressing lonely life.
Please don't tell me "oh now you have so much time to do whatever YOU want!" I've been doing that since day one, it hasn't cured me or made me less suicidal.

>>18292169

"May the best man win".

Be cordial, don't be a backstabbing jackass or do underhanded shit (your reputation is worth alot more than that).

Simply put, the choice is hers. Make sure that whoever she likes (if any) that the other one doesn't hold a grudge.

>>18291751
I'd fight anyone who tried to rape me.

>>18291804
Tell her to go to a doctor- it's probably nothing, but pain from sex can be a symptom of ovarian cancer, which is relatively symptom-less. Better to be safe than sorry.

>>18291894
>How do I find women that aren't whores? It seems like in order to get a girlfriend, you have to act like an alpha douchebag. Most women don't want loving boyfriends, they just wanna fuck Chad.
Well, for a start you can lose the assumption that all girls are whores-that'll turn most girls who AREN'T whores off you pretty quick.

>>18291969
I literally do not care. I'd date a guy anywhere between 5'5 and 7', provided I got on with him.

The hell? Are we being raided by /r9k/ again? So much bitter virgin bullshit in this thread.

>>18291894
The one and only advice you need is to stop going on /r9k/. You have let the angry virgin manchildren poison your mind.

>>18291671
have any of you girls ever met/hooked up with/had a relationship with a gynecomastia suffering guy? how did it go and did you mind it much?

i have slight gynecomastia (slight or not it doesnt rly matter, its noticeable) since i was pretty young and most girls dont seem to mind/notice due to how i dress (thanks thick clothes) even through deep hugging and slight touching. Tho i havent had sex ever or been intimate enough with a girl to undress eachother. Im scared that when the moment comes the girl will gross out.

i actively avoid going to the beach due to this, and doing activities shirtless is terrifying

What does it mean if a girl is ignoring you for no reason/suddenly stops talking to you for no reason

>>18292546

Maybe something is going on in her life. Or maybe there's a reason and you are just not seeing it.

>>18292546
she either realized something off about you/ is interested in someone else (doesn't even have to be new)/ just wanted to test the water with you

it happened to me

>>18292556
How should i ask her if she's doing it again?

>>18292546
It means she ghosted you and most likely you did nothing wrong and nothing you could have done would have prevented it. Girls do it all the time for no reason and without warning.

>>18292559

Why ask her?

>>18292560
The weird part is that she does it almost everytime when we have a good chat

>>18292574
And a Day later she is Just chatting with me like she didnt know i said/asked something. But i can see she saw what i wrote

Dear "women" why are you so against the idea of going into secret breeding farms,
Human society will prosper and you will be impregnated by synthetic Chad that you will think is real. You will even be allowed to stand in a feild above ground once a week

>>18292546
>>18292560
Similar question to that guy's: if I sent the last message, the girl doesn't reply and I don't try to message again, who is ghosting who?
I'm >>18291744

>>18292220
Not being Chad, I am sorry anon this is the truth you have to wait another few years before you can be a beta provider for a woman who hates you

>>18292220
Are you the cat?

>>18292592
You should leave

>>18292578
Damn, where did all this /pol9k/ crap come from?

What are reasons a girl would not go out on a first date with a guy who asks? I mean a date takes a few hours tops, has the potential to be fun, doesn't guarantee sex, etc. I know that a very tiny minority of girls have the mindset of going out on a first date with any guy who has the guts to ask. Why is this not the norm?

>>18292596
Answer the question, I think it is unfair as women have too much value nowadays anyway and it would just piss people off, what do you think?

>>18292604
Sex normalfication in popular culture and aggressive ad tactics that are used to give women the false opinion that only Chad is hot and they are all entitled to one, of course when a woman reaches 30 and is not longer needed by society they go crazy and try finding a beta but still sleep with young Chad on the side.

tl;dr You cannot just ask a woman on a date nowadays you must be Chad

>>18292605
> what do you think?
I think you're a troll, and anything I say will be interpreted through the lense of a misogynist troll worldview.

>>18292621
I am not a misognyst I am a rationalist I do not hate women I dislike most of them but do not blame them as they cannot help it, that guys question was retarded, I think you should answer it though, otherwise you are just censoring yourself

Girls: if a guy speaks something against mysoginy and sexism do you assume he's a beta idiot?

>>18292624
>I am not a misognyst I am a rationalist I do not hate women I dislike most of them but do not blame them as they cannot help it, that guys question was retarded, I think you should answer it though, otherwise you are just censoring yourself
>I don't hate women
>I think they should be treated as cattle

>>18292627
>Girls: if a guy speaks something against mysoginy and sexism do you assume he's a beta idiot?
No. I assume he's a decent human being unlike a lot of men.

>>18292627
They do.
>>18292629
Never said they should be treat like cattle it is a bad idea. I am just more rational than you, and before you ask. Yes I am from r9k and a virgin but out of choice

>>18292630
>No I assume that if someone has unwaiforing believes that women are superior then and only then is he a good.

No offence

>>18292615
Who is chad?

>>18292632
>Never said they should be treat like cattle it is a bad idea. I am just more rational than you, and before you ask
How are you more rational than me? I haven't said anything beyond "anything I say will be filtered through your misogynist lens, therefore saying anything is pointless". Arguing with believe based ideologies is wholly a waste of time. It's rational to come to that conclusion.

>>18292624
You are a basement-dwelling virgin who learned everything about women from /r9k/. Get off this board.

>>18292633
And you would be one of the non decent men.

>>18292638
Claims to be rational, calls me misogynist despite not knowing me and only calling me such because I disagreed with her (xe) also refuses to argue kek

>>18292636
Chad is a term used to describe the muscular guy with a jaw line that could crack a pavement that all women like exclusively women don't give anyone the time of day unless they are a pussy slaying Chad.

>>18292647
>Claims to be rational, calls me misogynist despite not knowing me and only calling me such because I disagreed with her (xe) also refuses to argue kek
Well, generalised dislike of women, if not misogynist. Also, you didn't answer my question. What evidence is there that you're a rationalist?

>>18292647
Thanks for the explenation

>>18292647
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>>18292584
Hey dude, What are your thoughts on misandry?

>>18292643
>gets triggered because I literally disagreed
You are not a nice person, I am a nice guy.
>>18292642
Granted I learn a lot about women for r9k however they are too stupid.(r9k) I also learnt stuff about women from my own experience,
Please point me in the direction where I can learn more if you dissagree with me

>>18292627
No, not at all. I mean, if that's all he talks about then it's pretty irritating, but merely being against it and as egalitarian as possible? A bit plus.

>>18292655
No problem have a good one
>>18292656
It is disgusting but taboo to talk about in modern society it is disgusting

>>18292627
To a degree; yes.

>>18292522
This
I'm a virgin and would never date someone if /r9k/ was in their regular usage.

>>18292657
>You are not a nice person, I am a nice guy
I'm not triggered. Observing a fact-you would be a man I would consider an uncivilised, rude and at the very least sexist person. Thus someone who is not worth any attention.

>>18292650
Well I am really clever, am doing well at life and destroyed your argument

>>18292659
>It is disgusting but taboo to talk about in modern society it is disgusting
Greetings. I am a misandrist who thinks men are disgusting pigs, just as you seem to think women are disgusting whores.

>>18292657
1. Stop going on /r9k/
2. Go outside and get actual experience with girls

And once again, a dateless virgin like you is not qualified to speak about women.

>>18292660
EVERYONE READ THIS HOLY SHIT MY POINT WAS PROVEN SHE ONLY WANTS CHAD AND ONLY WANTS TO SETTLE WITH CHAD

>>18292664
I don't think they are disgusting whores, I think a lot of western women can be and there are more than there ever were, I think that men are more qualified for most work.

It is easy to call all men disgusting pigs, when they created the computer or phone that you are typing on, aswell as the English language

>>18292663
>Well I am really clever, am doing well at life and destroyed your argument
I didn't HAVE an argument. My statement was I refuse to argue with a troll since it will get nowhere.

>>18292656
I think that you 2(/3?) Shouldnt fight about Who is right and Who not. Just be nice^^

>>18292665
1. Just turn off le internet
2. Go out and speak to people and probably get a false rape accusation filed against you

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>>18292584

Wew. What a good bait my friend. You have done well to suck all these people into arguing with you.

>>18292667
And you corroborated as to why I wouldn't date an /r9k/ visiter.

>>18292695
What did I do wrong, I am a nice person. Is it because I am not Chad?

Hey girls, rate some of the boards as to how likely you are to date someone who frequents them. Obviously you don't have to list all of them.

>>18292701
>What did I do wrong, I am a nice person. Is it because I am not Chad?
It is because you dislike women and condescend to them.

>>18292704
Least 3. Pretty much every board
Second 2. /fa/ :D
Most 1. /fit/ <3

>>18292707
That's like being mad at a burn victim for not liking fire

>>18292704
>would probably date
/lit/ and /his/ and /mu/
>eh
/int/, /lgbt/ (I'm bi) /x/, /tg/
>not really
/v/ and /fit/
HELL FUCKING NO
/pol/ and /r9k/

>>18291969
I like tall guys (6' or more), but height isn't really a huge factor so much as build. I think it'd only be awkward if he was shorter than me. I'm not used to feeling taller than other people, so it's kind of disorienting on the rare occasions I meet someone who's under 5'3''.

>>18292713
>That's like being mad at a burn victim for not liking fire
It doesn't change the fact that that is why you are an unpleasant individual to most girls.

>>18292717
What is wrong with pol and r9k, must suck being afraid of opinions

>>18292720
>What is wrong with pol and r9k, must suck being afraid of opinions
I just don't fancy dating people that think I should be barefoot and pregnant and in the kitchen/ am less than human, y'know?

>>18292719
link one example where I am being a dick.
Please stop harrassing me because i am not chad

>>18292704
>would date
/vg/ (specifically /bbg/ or /owg/), /an/
>maybe
/ck/ or /pol/
>nope
/b/, /d/, or /r9k/

>>18292724
>>18292667>>18292633
Ignoring everything they say in order to further your own ideology-thus being condescending and presumptive.
>>18292624
>>18292615

Thinking women are less than human or are so inferior as to deserve the same rights and respect as children.

I was at a bar and some girl grabbed my hand and tried to grind on me but I just walked off because I have a gf. My friends asked why I just walked away and I said because I have a GF, they said 'dancing isn't cheating'. She was pretty cute but I know if my girl danced with some random guy at a bar I wouldn't be happy about it. Did I make the right decision?

>>18292721
1. Pol is redpilled and filled with smart conversation
2. Most people on r9k are nice people that have been twisted by women and feminism
3, Good choice on fit, I hate those Chad cunts
4. /x/ really, need I say anymore?
5. /lit/ le not like other grills

>>18292720
A classmate of mine is 4chan addicted and he loves /pol/. Just saying he is pretty fucked up in his head

>>18292734
>1. Pol is redpilled and filled with smart conversation
Redpilled literally means "women are less than human and should be barefoot and pregnant and in the kitchen"
>2. Most people on r9k are nice people that have been twisted by women and feminism
Some certainly are, but they regularly have "women hate" threads that garner 800+ replies.
>5. /lit/ le not like other grills
I just like books. I like men who like books. Common interests in relationships are good.

>>18292733
Why are you here, You know what to do Chad, just think yourself lucky that you can get female attention

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>>18292704
>Yes
/pol/, /sci/, /g/, /int/, /sp/, /diy/, /biz/
>Maybe
/x/, /out/, /ic/, /3/, /tv/, /mu/, /news/, /fit/
>No
Any of the 2D porn boards, /soc/, /fa/, /mlp/, /lgbt/, /cgl/, /b/, /a/, /r9k/, /vip/

>>18292733
Yes

>>18292739
I am NOT OBSESSED WITH THE INTERNE AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME I AM A NORMAL HUMAN

>>18292743
/pol/? May I ask why?

>>18292747
>>18292743
>>18292727
>>18292717
Can I point out to you the fact that /r9k/ was the bottom of every single respondents list?

>>18292743
STOP HATING ON R9K
A lot of those guys are nice who were twisted by women? If you women were nice to men who were not Chad, then I wouldn't be mad would i?

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>>18292748
I browse /pol/ and have met people ""from"" /pol/.

>>18292750
That's because they do not unerstand robots and are afraid of the truth

Girls, is it odd for a Girl with a BF (even if he lives an hour away) to be hanging out with another guy so much.

>2 weeks before final has asked me everyday to hangout and watch movies at my place
>Invited me out to go to dinner with her mom who is visiting tonight
>Sends me a text, "Thanks for tonight." but all I did was get some dinner with her and her mom

I think she might be into me, but she is dating someone else

>>18292701
Chad or non-Chad, what difference does it make? I want to be with someone who uses their time more wisely, is emotionally self-sufficient (low co-dependency, non-leech) and compassionate. None of these are elements I see in /r9k/ users.

May I ask you a question, anon? What sort of girl do you think you deserve? It also might be worth contemplating what you want in one and its relation to what you have to offer. Or not, since this is kind of unsolicited.

>>18292755
>That's because they do not unerstand robots and are afraid of the truth
I think it's more that they understand robots all to well and would never dream of dating them.

>>18292747
M8 im not saying That you are fucked up. Just saying that my classmate laughs about people being dead or that he laughs about racist jokes that are true and sad

>>18292740
>Redpilled literally means "women are less than human and should be barefoot and pregnant and in the kitchen"
Not really.

I mean you could argue some people from r/theredpill think that, but their "redpill" is very different from the one from /pol/.

>Some certainly are, but they regularly have "women hate" threads that garner 800+ replies.
They also have "big belly gf" threads, I'm half convinced the regular threads are each maintained by a cadre of 5~ posters, especially when you notice all of the pictures they post are the same and even have the same filename every time presumably for cataloging purposes.

I mean for christ sakes you seem to be ok with /x/ and they regularly have threads about how Humanity is in the center of a cross dimensional and galaxy war powered by souls.

>>18292757
I don't entirely think I deserve a supermodel, Or anything else that is ridicously out of my league.
I would be more than happy with a nice smart girl who does not lust after Chad all the time, like most women do. I do not even care about looks all that much, as long as they are not morbidly obese or not deformed

>>18292765
>mean for christ sakes you seem to be ok with /x/ and they regularly have threads about how Humanity is in the center of a cross dimensional and galaxy war powered by souls.
That's just funny. It's not going to directly impact the relationship balance due to inate hatred of my purely for my gender. And wanting to have sex with certain kinds of bodies is not mutually exclusive with hating women.

>>18292770
>That's just funny.
Yeah except a large portion of them seem to actually believe that. So if we're going to compare groups, the guy that thinks hes talking to aliens from the 7th dimension is probably a touch more concerning to me than someone who circle jerks over screencaps of stupid whores on reddit.

>And wanting to have sex with certain kinds of bodies is not mutually exclusive with hating women.
You're missing my point. I'm saying each of these threads are maintained by a small group of people which is also why r9k probably seems so schizophrenic. That rather than the entire community of r9k contributing to said women hate threads, its basically a group of people just responding to each other. Much like how some boards on 8ch have extremely high posts per hour but still have low user counts e.g. /leftypol/.

I like a Girl. the thing is, she lives in rostock-germany, and i live in Den bosch-netherlands. Is the distance to far away to tell her how i feel for her?

Ok so I'm a relatively new host at this restaurant and theres a server/bartender that seems to have taken an interest in me. In the past week we exchange lingering glances with smiles, she says "hey [name] how are you doing today".

Now typing it out makes it seem like this is just general friendly stuff, but theres something that makes me feel something a bit more. Any input? I may be able to ask my friend who is also friends with her if she is seeing anyone right now/has anything going on

>>18292793
Your friend could ask it

What do women think about a man who is insecure about his penis?

>>18292797
Women only want something that is atleast 7 inches so....

>>18292796
what should she ask specifically? I don't want to give away my hand too soon in case this girl was just being nice to me

>>18292797
Don't listen to >>18292798.
Depends on how it affects you, I guess. An insecurity is an internal problem that only you can realistically fix.

>>18292801
Just Let them chitchat for a bit and then BOOM! "Hey are you seeing someone laten? "

>>18292786
Can someone please anwser this for me?

>>18292810
Whoops my autocorrection was still on... laten=lately

>>18292810
well I just found out it goes a bit deeper than that, it looks like the two girls are roommates and I'm pretty good friends with the one girl so I don't know if I've been talked about to the other one

>>18292818
Why dont you ask her out on a date so you can see if she is something for you?

>>18292823
I generally end up taking things a lot slower than that because the way I look at it, the less I risk and put on the line the less I have to lose

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Girls that're simply nice to everyone really fuck me over

>Likes all my posts
>Replies to all my comments
>Always up to chat
>Yet ignores me when I ask her to hang out

Tried 3 times and failed each time. It's annoying, we have tons in common.

Honestly though, anytime I think a girl might be into me, that's just how she treats everyone. How can I tell when someone ACTUALLY likes me for once?

>>18292742
because I don't know if should have danced with that girl or not, my gut instinct says its almost cheating

>>18292832
As a girl who's like that, observe how I treat you in comparison to other people. If I treat you slightly differently then it's a good sign. Also, I'm sorry for the confusion.

men who are short/have a small dick, would you feel weird if your partner really liked these things about you? like would you feel fetishised or something?

>>18292766
See, that's exactly the kind of attitude that's going to set off alarm bells. This whole "girls only want Chad but I'm a nice guy, bawwww!" thing makes you come off as too prideful at best and like a bitter, condescending prick at worst, because most women aren't going to like being told what they should want out of a partner.

>>18292704
Visiting /lit/, /his/, /sci/, /x/, /g/, /tv/, /news/ and /biz/ are all pluses in my book.

>>18292766
That's fair, in terms of standards. I just don't understand how an MRA would be able to be in a happy and fulfilling relationship because they don't seem happy with themselves.

>I would be more than happy with a nice smart girl who does not lust after Chad all the time, like most women do.
Chads aren't bad people. I know many who enhance the lives of others. As for lusting, it is ridiculous in excess when they don't even know the guy.

>>18292846
It depends on the person, really. Like, if they're insecure about their height or size, then they'd probably feel a bit emasculated. But, it shouldn't really be a problem.

>>18292873
Personally I would be fine with dating an MRA, just not if he's an asshole. Same goes for any kind of man.

>>18292873
>/x/
>a plus

I swear to god what is it with all these women saying this.

>>18292882
>Personally I would be fine with dating an MRA, just not if he's an asshole.
That's always the kicker. On the face of it, I actually agree with many of the bulletin points of both MRAs and feminists. The problem is when I actually meet the activists.

>>18292887
I guess that's where we differ. I used to be a feminist until I really started reading up on their platform and activities, and I'm pretty reflexively pro-men's rights now so I'd be willing to give an MRA a fair shake. I think a male feminist would be the only guy I would just drop outright, because some of the shit they say to non-feminist women is worse than anything /r9k/ or /pol/ could ever come up with.

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>>18292882
It would be different if hypothetical partner did some actual good instead of preaching rhetoric.

>>18292883
>not wanting to date reality warpers

>>18292901
>their platform and activities
That's the activists part for me.

For instance, they say that we should recognize male abuse etc. Great, right? But then in practice you find out feminists groups actively sabotaged efforts to construct shelters for men because they considered the funding to be a 0 sum game. That more for men meant less for them so it had to be stopped.

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>>18292911
>not wanting to date reality warpers
No fuck you. Half of my family from my mothers side are pagans that dance naked in the fucking moonlight and make sacrifices to some retarded pantheon that combines the Greeks and the Egyptians and probably some other shit.

All these dweebs going on about how they're talking to ghosts and are magically unique and hang out with the devil and angels can blow me.

>>18292911
Oh, definitely. It's important just on an intellectual level too, though, at least for me. My views lean pretty far right compared to most of my generation, so I find it hard to discuss politics or social issues with anyone on a serious level, since they usually end up berating me for my opinions or flat-out not listening at all. I don't have that problem so much with MRAs - even if they disagree, they're respectful and sincere about it, though it could just be that the ones I've met are especially nice.

>>18292921
Exactly this. I don't think wanting equality is inherently a bad thing. But feminism doesn't seem to want equality so much as female supremacy, and some of the things done in the name of the movement are absolutely fucking vile.

>>18292704
Oh I like this.

From best to worst:
/int/, /lit/, /his/, /trv/, /sp/, /ck/, /adv/
/fit/, /fa/, /an/, /tv/, /biz/, /mu/
/o/, /k/, /v/ & co,
all the 3D porn boards, /soc/
/a/, all the anime boards
/b/, /pol/, /r9k/, /mlp/

Does your ego let you double message someone?

>be man
>make dating profile
>set preferences to men
>get the most qt mtf ts
>she actually messages me first
WEJNWKJFKJABLEKJGB
pls god dont let me fuck this up

guys and girls i have a question
a friend of mine moved to another country and we stopped talking, we talked a lot but as the time went on we just stopped due to our schedules not being the same.
yesterday was her birthday and i said happy birthday and i hope you are doing ok there. she answered a day later saying THANK YOU I MISS YOU SO MUCH FRIEND.
while we have a history and maybe even a romantic one (i think) i dont know if i should respond or continue with the conversation
what do?

>>18292968
The only selling point /int/ has is goading nips about their war crimes.

>>18292978
It can't hurt to reconnect with her. Even if it doesn't pan out into anything more, you've still got a friend.

Girl and I don't talk anymore.
She 'has a fear of commitment, has a lot of emotional walls, will ruin a good thing'.
She's 24 and never been in a serious relationship.
Emotional problems stemming from a concussion.
She somehow manages to miss the point of literally every major thing I've said.


I fell in love with her anyway. What do I do?

>>18292929
>Half of my family from my mothers side are pagans that dance naked in the fucking moonlight
My mother does that, regardless, in the living room. That histrionic flopped her tits around in my face the other day. Bitches be crazy. Luckily I'm not.
*nervous laughter*

>>18292943
>My views lean pretty far right compared to most of my generation, so I find it hard to discuss politics or social issues with anyone on a serious level, since they usually end up berating me for my opinions or flat-out not listening at all.
Welcome to the club. By this point, I'm pretending to be a liberal whenever political conversation arises.

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I was diagnosed with HIV 2 years ago and have been slowly recovering from everything that happened and followed. I am a straight male and received it from a cheating ex. I've gotten my viral load to zero and for all intents and purposes I can't really spread the virus on the expensive medication I take. I will basically live a healthy life.

The thing is I miss the feeling of a girl laying on my heart at night. I vowed never to let a person settle for me and my problems though, since there are better choices out there for them. My doctor says its not fair to myself or healthy to isolate.

I notice girls checking me out sometimes and typically don't reciprocate to save us both trouble. I'm almost borderline/PTSD from everything that happened too so I try to spare them that. But I'm not a bad person and feel like maybe I could possibly make someone else happy.

Femanons, do you think it would be easier for me to accept I'm on my own, or to find a girl that will accept me?

I sorta know the answer though.

>>18292997
the problem is i dont care if i reconnect with her because i have SPD so i move on pretty fast when it comes to feelings and im kinda pissed that she responded a day later while she uploaded snaps the day of her birthday i might be overthinking it but i took it as her not giving a shit and just answering out of courtesy

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>>18292943
>My views lean pretty far right compared to most of my generation
I've been slowly leaking my power level with a friend of 3 years just so I know what I can easily talk about with them. It's painful.

>>18293000
>That histrionic flopped her tits around in my face the other day.
Yeah nothing that bad. My father and I would always sort of just sort of try to grit our teeth when we'd visit and my aunt made us hold hands and do some pagan prayer thing.

>>18293006
Hey anon, I'm really sorry for your condition. You sound like a really nice person.

Are you seeing a psychologist? I think you could really use some help to get over your condition.
By all means, try to find a girl. I don't think it'd be easy, but surely there are some girls who will accept you. Don't feel entitled to love (not that you sound so, but it will save you a lot of disappointment), but by all means try to find someone who can make you happy.
Don't be scared about the idea that there are "better choices", or to never let a person settle for you - I have a genetic illness and I felt exactly the same for many years, but for someone out there you are the best choice imaginable and there will be no settling.

I hope you will be fine and find the love you deserve.
Hugs.

>>18293006
Aren't there dating websites for people who are HIV+?

>>18291968
>>18291929
>>18291894
Do you have any original thoughts, or have you just completely internalized /r9k/?

>>18292814
>>18292786
burger here, put that in terms I can understand

>>18293000
>>18293018
I usually just keep my mouth shut whenever I'm out with friends and the conversation goes political, but there are moments. Very, very rarely I get tipsy or someone says something exceptionally stupid and it slips out. Luckily they've been understanding up to this point - the only really serious discussion we've had was about feminism, and I basically had to couch my responses in "but maybe they have a point/they're not all bad" doormat bullshit to keep them from jumping down my throat.

>>18293006
I'm really sorry, anon, though it's good to hear that you're mostly all right. I think it might be tricky to find someone, but there are girls out there who don't necessarily go into relationships for sex, if that's what you're worried about. As long as you're honest and you put yourself out there, I think you'll be okay.

>>18293027
Yes
http://www.healthline.com/health-slideshow/hiv-dating-sites

Although some of the names for these sites are pretty horrible.

Girls:

How do I befriend a girl I met in a bar? My gf got her number, but honestly we don't know how to make friends anymore... is it odd if we "ask her out"?

>>18293023
Thank you for the kind words. In the first few months I was highly suicidal so I did, the meds had other undesired edfects though so I had to quit taking them. I've considered therapy but it's something of a luxury and hasnt really been effective previously.

I'm sorry about your genetic condition anon. I hope the conditions improve for you.

>>18293040
>>18293027
The dating sites are all behind paywalls. There arent many women with HIV in comparison and its rare to be positive while straight. It usually means I'd have to mix diseases and its not a good sounding idea, I would be down for that emotionally but due to shitty sites the communities are stale, mostly hot chicks with herpes though.

Ironically I'm an backend web developer so I'll keep this in mind for the future.

Women
can you explain to me this kind of behavior?
>woman got flirty with me a few months back
>then she degrades to casual conversation
>she gets pissy now
>she seems to hate my guts from that point onward
>casually greets sometimes
>still doesn't even look my way unless it's a quick glance

I don't get it. All I just do is talk to her casually, not like I'm in the mood. Did I blueball her or is she just pissy for no reason?

Keep in mind, I just keep not talking to her unless it's for formality, because in all honesty, it would seem like I thirst for her if I talk to her any more than I have to.

>>18293104
She probably found someone else and is awkward around you now for that

>meet girl a few months ago
>spend like 3 solid months trying to win her over, this is made clear constantly along the way, we become besties
>one night we finally kiss and she confesses that she likes me
>we do some more sexual stuff the next night
>i jump the gun and proclaim that we're in a relationship, she doesn't say anything about that not being the case so i assume from then on that we are
>relationship is kind of awkward, my affection towards her is very one-sided and i can never tell what she's thinking
>about a month passes, she has a breakdown about hating herself
>find out that the reason is because we're not actually in a relationship and she feels terrible about it and didn't want to hurt me :(
>says she doesn't regret anything we did and that the only issue was that things moved too fast and the relationship was announced prematurely
>but also makes it clear that she doesn't want me getting hurt if she meets someone else, which she says she hasn't, but it's possible
>i say my stance which is basically that i like her that much already, i will probably like her more in the future if we keep doing things at the same pace, i don't want to stop doing things, but we should probably stop entirely if this isn't heading towards a relationship
>give her as many outs as i can
>she's still here
>we still sleep together every night
>she starts being more affectionate towards me in a lot of really wonderful ways, everything feels like it's ramping up
>i still can't help but get super paranoid because she hasn't really committed herself to me in any way and i know that a pretty large percentage of the people she regularly talks to are people who have crushes on her

ladies, what should i do? does this look like a terrible situation or should i just keep it together and hope things keep working out at the same pace? i feel like i have no right asking her to alleviate my jealousy, but my friends are all adamant that she's playing me for a fool.

>>18293131
The funny thing is he was always all huggy and shit with another dude here.

This is why I acted casual all the time against her.

If anything, she probably found people before she even met me due to how she looks and what her body was. I can assure you she would've easily gotten everyone else here, so why should I bother trying?

I won't lie, she's still a rude person towards me, and that should be inexcusable because why must I pay for not thirsting after you?

It's an insecurity of mine, but I feel if I paid any women attention, it would be considered orbiting. Especially the one I'm talking about, even though almost everyone here orbits her.

>>18292832
>have the same thing
>when in person she ecstatically says she wants to hang out more
>even drunkingly said she loves me once
>then never hangs out with me unless its a party or something
>rinse and repeat

I don't fucking get it.

There's a /tv/ meme that women cannot understand this scene
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9skYkQfAwus

Is it true?

>>18293227
What do they say women can't understand about it, exactly?

>>18293231
Why Aragorn kisses Boromir.
Why Boromir is in awe as he dies
Why Boromir even chose to die

>>18293227
Never gave a shit about Lord of the Rings, but best guess would be his eventual infatuation with the ring and some "human weakness" plot.
>t. all I remember is the mountain scene.

>>18293237
I'd say it's hard for me to effectively put into words, but I think I get it. Boromir chooses to die because he realizes he's weak and fears the consequences if he gets his hands on the One Ring, but at the same time he sees those early hints of... leadership? Kingliness? In Aragorn. It's that last glimmer of hope for his people. The kiss is symbolic of that brotherhood and shared struggle, not only for the fate of the world but for the fate of Gondor, and of Men.

That's just my read on it, though. It's not a gay thing if that's what you mean.

>>18293211
I don't know your ages, but some girls, specially younger ones, act all friendly and sassy around mostly everyone close to them. There's probably a better term for it, but you can call it attention whoring if you want.

It seems to be the case, BUT, you also admittedly have a problem giving attention to women. So unless it is very clear that she is flirty and dandy with most guys around her, maybe you did blueball her

>>18293249
Yeah you nailed it. That's it exactly

The one that really gets my goose is the Frodo/Sam relationship. When people say they're gay or have any other motivation than brotherly love.

>>18293246
That's the mechanical how without understand the emotions or context of the situation.
>Never gave a shit about Lord of the Rings
How's it like having no soul?

>>18293258
>How's it like having no soul?
Hell of a lot more fun than watching 3-hour-long movies that get overhyped by screeching adult children that didn't even know a book existed before it.

>>18293267
What can men do against such reckless faggotry?

>>18293006
Hey, bud. I'm not a girl, but let me say I'm very sorry for what happened to you. You're a very noble person and you'll be in my prayers.

>>18293249
That's a tremendous summary. What's your academic background?

>>18293267
>Hell of a lot more fun than watching 3-hour-long movies that get overhyped by screeching adult children that didn't even know a book existed before it.
Not him. The movies are only alright, yeah. Tolkien's story itself is incredible, though.

>>18293006
Did you at least beat her ass? Or did you just accept what that whore did? Lol, this is why women get away with everything.

>>18293256
Let's say I'm 20 and she's in her early-mid 20's.

Funny, as 2/3rds of the people here are women. In fact, I actually get along with those women better, especially the ones that are in relationships already.

Before you get the wrong idea, no, I'm not screwing with them. I just feel an easier time getting along with them rather than this bucking broncette.

>>18293258
I really don't get why some people boil so much of LOTR down to that. Scenes like Boromir's death and some of the more reflective conversations between Frodo and Sam are so genuinely moving, it's borderline insulting to just go "LOL THEY MUST BE GAY FOR EACH OTHER RIGHT????" and ignore the actual bonds between these characters.

>>18293277
>What's your academic background?
Honestly, visual arts. I've always loved reading, though, and I enjoy analyzing books and movies as a hobby.

Unhealthy anons

Colonoscopy how much desu?

>>18293310
a fuckton

>>18293307
>Honestly, visual arts.
Don't be contrite. If you're good at it, nobody can judge.

I'm not in English literature either; I'm a lawyer.

>>18293307
>it's borderline insulting to just go "LOL THEY MUST BE GAY FOR EACH OTHER RIGHT????
100% agree

It's ironic now that gays have become more accepted that love between men has become the least accepted
Men can't love men without wanting to fuck each other

I bet you reading "men loving men" makes you uncomfortable
That's what's wrong with today

>>18293256
Sorry to add on when it's too late, but she was also handsy with me too, touching me from arm to back like I'm a dog and shit, on top of what I think was flirting,

She's a weirdo, and sorry for blueballing her, but the fact is I look thirsty as death when I even say a word to her.

>>18293312
Sorry, I guess I just tend to self-deprecate since I haven't been able to do much with it. But law sounds like such an interesting field to go into. Do you enjoy it?

>>18293315
Not really, but I kind of grew up learning that love doesn't have to be romantic. You can love your friends without being IN love with them.

This girl I used to be friends with and I was really infatuated with has been texting me. We had hooked up before but never had sex with her. She been telling me how much she misses me and is sorry for leading me on and shit. Don't really know her true intentions and don't know how I should respond to her. I told her "I don't know if I miss her or just miss the good time we shared." I miss her but still hate her, don't know what I should do

>>18293301
That's because you have nothing to lose or to prove to them. There's no risk involved, so you feel comfortable with them.

I know that feel because I never was one to talk to women easily, but since I've started dating years ago I have a much easier time around women, since I know I have a safe harbor already

And the age matches the behaviour. Maybe you giving her the cold shoulder made her moody towards you. Friendly reminder that you can always go to her and say "bitch wtf?"

Is there a way to ask a girl behind the counter out?
She's not a cashier, but she's always behind the counter and I can never talk to her

>>18293338
to be honest, I tried that a few times already, and she always goes "I'm busy". Mothafucka, I know you ain't busy, I work literally next to you for these 8 hours.

...Then she put on a stupid amount of makeup on and I just asked her why, only to get this response "hahaha, I don't know xD". I even asked if she was going on a date because I was curious. I cannot tell whether or not she was sarcastic and that concerns me and how I deal with them.

>>18293323
>Sorry, I guess I just tend to self-deprecate since I haven't been able to do much with it
The world has too many accountants. You'll do something with it eventually. Even if you don't, someone who did visual arts and likes it is more interesting than someone doing some boring corporate stuff. Worst comes to worst, you could be a secondary school art teacher.

I like the problem-solving aspect of it. Practicing law varies. I spent 3 years ambulance-chasing, which sucked, and which I find a bit embarrassing to tell people. Now I work in the legal department of a charity, which I like a lot more.

>>18293354
That's not a bad way of looking at it. Hell, even if no one will hire me, at least I can self-employ. Not everyone can say that, so in a way I'm glad I chose that major.

women
what do women feel like?

>>18293440
What, physically, emotionally??

>>18293440
Bags of sand

>>18291706
You're probably overthinking it. She probably assume telling her to enjoy was the end of that thread of conversation, and so started up a new one at another time.

>>18291741
You're not exactly marked as hers, but depending on how your relationship with her was and how you enter into the new one, it may cause drama in her friendship group. Therefore, her friends may avoid dating you in order to avoid the complications.

>>18291781
No. She's just a shitty person. If she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you.

>>18291842
If that ever becomes a problem, you may have to go nofap, or at least abstain from porn for a while.

>>18291994
If the breakup was most amicable, then yes. If she doesn't reply, though, don't press the issue.

>>18292016
Are you willing to attempt a long distance relationship? If it works out, are you willing to switch your life plans around so you can move together? If the answer to these questions are no, then don't pursue her romantically. No reason you can't stay friends, though.

>>18292206
It's a red flag that she won't reassure you. To me, at least, that implies she doesn't care about your feelings. It's not unreasonable to me, at all, to want to know what's up with her guy friends. If she seems excessively secretive, that would be a deal breaker for me, personally.

>>18292220
That seems very odd. Can you think of anything you might be doing that might be off-putting? This is not a normal experience. Either you're not telling us the whole story, or you've had a string of extremely bad luck.

>>18292604
I don't go on dates with guys I know I'm not going to forge a long-term relationship with, because even a few hours is still wasting our times. That's one day I'm not spending looking for someone I can have a long-term relationship with, and that one day delay could very well mean I never meet them at all.

>>18292704
/tg/ is my top, obviously. I married someone from there. Next would probably be /cgl/.

i really want to contact someone i used to talk,we had a crush on each other,but she dissapeared online and i dont know her phone or addres

not really asking anything but it makes me sad,i thought we would finally beat the tfw no love

Women, how long should I wait before calling you affectionate names like "baby, honey" etc? Just met a girl on a dating website and she's already calling me love and sweetie

General tips for first tinder messages?

>>18293488
>Can you think of anything you might be doing that might be off-putting?
I'm short(5'6") and pretty ugly I think.

>>18293581
"a yo ma! a yo MA! wut dat mouf do hoe"
works almost every time

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>>18291781
She is a degenerate whore mate. Everyone with a brain can see that from your post.

How do I see women more than walking pussies

I literally have sex on my mind whenever I talk to a female I know it's horrible but I have no idea how to stop it

>>18293596
Have you stopped watching porn?

>>18293570

At least 6 months and definitely not before you think you love her. But then again, I'm frigid af, so take this with a grain of salt. Some women need the assurance given by pet names sooner.

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Do vanilla girls even exist? It seems from what I hear that most young women are either:

1. sexless, frigid, "lie back and think of England"; or
2. want to be choked, humiliated, called a slut etc.

I don't think there's anything wrong with 2, or even necessarily 1, but I think I'd prefer a girl who really enjoys sex, but of the passionate yet gentle and not psychologically "dark" kind.
Now I know all about selection bias, bizarreness effect etc. so I realize that these stories reaching my ears might not be representative of real trends. Still, it seems most girls I hear about are either 1 or 2. Do others exist?

>>18293609
No, I'm not really into experimenting and stuff, but I do like sex.

>>18293609

Of course they exist. In fact they're so common that it's normal and therefore they don't feel the need to make a scene of themselves and you only hear from the two extremes you described.

>>18293570
My bf started slightly before we started dating and I adore it.

>>18293222
friend zoned

>>18293654
Oh I don't care dude, I'm dating someone these days. I just want to know where her game is since she's been doing this shit even when I was single.

I want my gf to poop on my chest
I believe i need to do this at gun point
she just doesnt love me enough

How to eat pussy?

>>18293671
Make her wait for it. Kiss and nibble on her inner thighs, lick the crooks between her legs and back of her knees give her lustful stares as you lick and kiss her pubic area you want her squriming with anticipation before you actually eat her out. Spread her open and give her a long slow lick from bottom to top pay extra attention to her clit. You pretty much want to make out with her pussy and do consistant rhythmic patterns. Never stop until your face is coated in her juices. Eat the pussy like its your day job

Ladies do you prefer your men beardy or clean shaven? I cant grow a decent beard but my jawline is impeccable

>>18293687
Clean. Beards are a gross meme that I wish would end.

>>18293687

Both are good as long as it suits the guy's face and looks neat. Short stubble is the only no, because I have ticklish thighs.

>>18293687
If you're buff or thicc, then beard. If not, clean shaven.

>>18293679
>From this point forward,since initial attraction was not on your side start acting like a distant acquaintance. Smile and say hello to her if you bump into each other but refrain from conversations, make excuses to leave(I need to clean or I got some documents to sort) and display more interest in other people. Helps a lot if those other people return that interest occasionally too. Chances are high that after awhile she's going to initiate first with something you should be bale to make a date out of like her weekend plans or the time she gets off work.
I knew this, but I always wonder, what makes the attraction appear, when you behave in a distant and cold way, if there was no attraction before? Its interesting.

>>18293687
I like beards a lot, as long as it looks neat.
Half a inch length is perfect.

When you eat pussy do you like having your clitoris played with? I have heard two completely opposite opinions on this. Is it just different form person to person?

>>18293717
The entire sex act is different from person to person its best to ask her what she likes

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How important is it really to have a job, to own and drive a car and the like? what im really asking is are NEETS really that unattractive?

>>18293782
I assume NEETs have no ambitions to do anything so yes, that is absolutely unattractive.

>>18293786
Not him but a kind of NEET. I have a car, get out, apply to jobs etc but don't have a job. Am I unattractive/undateable?

I have seen in porno that some of them have junk shaped weird, like pointing upwards, do girls really mind this? What kind of shape variations do they put up with and what's a buzzkill?

I am asking because I have unfortunately been left with it slightly pointing left when not down, and it's more wider in thickness than taller, I can probably fix the left leaning part by simply assuming my left hand over time, but I want to know if a woman would mind this.

>>18292743
>Hating on based /aco/
>/pol/ top of the list

>>18293793
As long as you're trying to not be a NEET, that's fine.

>>18293786
>NEETs have no ambitions
What about a person so drawn into their hobbies he just has no time for something like a job?
What if he inherited a huge amount of money?

>>18293796
Please answer, like a yes or no would do

>>18293886
>What about a person so drawn into their hobbies he just has no time for something like a job?
Sounds pretty stupid. I mean I can understand a guy that prioritizes a job that lets him pursue his interests more readily, but just not going to work to read or play video games is a pretty short sighted idea. Even if he inherited millions, it will eventually run out. Then what happens when he's a dude in his 40's with no fucking job experience or training?

so I've been talking to this girl for a long time, the thing is she is ghosting me sometimes for no reason
should i confront her with her ghosting me?

>>18294125
>sometimes
if she talks to you after a while that's not ghosting

>>18293796
many penises point left right up or down, and no two penises have the same shape.

>>18294137
she isnt talking today at all, normally she already reacted but the only thing she does is look at the message and then leave

Girls
Super hot friend from work split with her boyfriend a few weeks ago. I ended up making out with her a ton on a night out a week later. That's the first and only time anything non-platonic has happened between us.
We haven't spoken about that night since. Is it worth asking if it meant anything or have I left it too late and fucked it up?

what is it like to feel the touch of another person? I've never had a hug from anyone who wasn't my mother.

>>18294198
Just like your mother's, but by someone else.

>>18293609
I am neither 1 nor 2. I am the more submissive one with bf, but I hate how people think submission is always associated with being choked, spanked, and humiliated.

However, my sexuality took a long time to develop. I've only had two other partners, and those were lie on my back situations. I guess it may have been nervousness and I was unsure about it. My ex's and I were, I realize now, not sexually compatible. They were kinda too rough and liked really weird things, said really weird things that made me uncomfortable. One was too dominant and it scared me. The other was really submissive and kinda pussy worshipy, which made me really insecure for some reason.


My bf and I have a ton of sexual chemistry and we have sex multiple times a week. We've been together for going on 7 years tho. It took a lot of time to perfect our sex life and it is still changing.

>>18294147
should i just confront her? or will that ruin our friendship?

>>18293609
I'd probably prefer vanilla for a long time until things got boring, then number 2.

>>18293687
I don't like beards. Clean shaven.

>>18293886
If he's inherited money, is smart with investments and spends more time centered around hobbies, I don't see an issue at all with this. It sounds like my father, actually.

>>18293310
How much what? How often?

>>18294198
It's pretty warm and comfy.

Do girls IRL have much less guys trying to date them than girls on dating sites?
If dating sites are good for introverts, how will introverts compete with extroverts?

>kind, attractive and talented girl near me
>talk to frequently, very interested in, have made some summer plans together
>shes salty as fuck after getting dumped by her first serious bf

I'm pretty sure I know the answer to this already but I should probably make myself scarce for a bit while she gets over this shit right? I don't wanna complicate things

Girls how long did it take for you to get over your oneitis? No pressure but I hope this gets resolved within the next 6-8 weeks so my summer plans aren't all screwed up lol.

>>18291720
This literally means nothing.

I've created a new thread already.

>>18294322
Took me 6 months to move on and it was a relationship with a oneitis for 5 months. I cried every night for the first 2 months.

>>18292627
depends on context like if hes not sexist thats a good thing but if you mean like bringing up sexism and using the word misoginy then like hell yes gtfo

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>>18293006
get out there and just be direct, honestly if you have the heart to explain it or even prove that it wouldnt be contagious er whatever I'm almost certain you'd find happiness with someone out there anon

>>18293687
i personally love vaguely unkept stubble, but as long as it fits and doesn't look stupid beards can look rad