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People not taking virgin males seriously?

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I worry that people don't take virgin males seriously. I am in my mate 20s and I often worry that people just don't take me seriously because I am a virgin.

Like how could I ever be a leader of any sort if I can be discredited because lack of sex. The problem is more prominent when it's a older male virgin trying to leader slightly younger males. I have friends who are like 4 years younger and have had sex. The group listens to their stories and ideas but not mine.

I got ousted as a virgin without saying anything about it too. Apparently people just know when you are virgin based on what you DONT say or do.

For example I never remark about how hot a woman is. I never say "wow! I would fuck her" out loud.

How do I get people to take me more seriously?
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You sound very pretentious. I wouldn't take you seriously. Not because of your virginity, but because of your obnoxiousness.
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>>18290948
If someone doesn't take you seriously based solely on the fact that you hadn't had sex, this person is borderline retarded. The fact that you never say ''wow I would fuck her'' and you are not vocal about you sexuality shouldn't be a problem unless you are trying to impress complete imbeciles.
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Yeah, whine about it on chinese figurines image boards, that will make people respect your desert dick.
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I'm not a virgin and I don't act any differently than before I lost it. I also don't talk about what I would do sexually to random women I see out or act out any kind of stereotypical masculinity. I'd say you're just around people who are different and not to make too much of it or it let it make you feel insecure.
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>>18290953
How am I pretentious though?
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Chances are they take you less seriously because you are notably insecure and second guess yourself. Not saying that you find women hot doesn't mean you're a virgin, it either means that you find that in bad taste or that you would want to but are not comfortable enough with your sexuality to express it in a social context. You hang out with people four years younger than you. That combined with your question/anxiety about this gives me the impression that you're the older guy without self respect tagging along to younger folks so hopefully your age still gives you some standing in their eyes. Even if this is royally wrong, the thought will probably have crossed their heads as well. And you conclude that it's because you're a virgin because that is what you are personally most insecure about.

It isn't because you're a virgin.
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Maybe it's you who needs to stop taking virginity itself so seriously. Just don't be so spergy about the subject of sex and nobody would ever even know.
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>>18291167
People know. Apparently I give off super virgin vibes. I don't say or do anything to trigger it too.
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People learn to hate you for what you say.

People learn to love you for what you do.

So shut the fuck up and go do something of value.
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>>18291188
No, you give off super insecure vibes.
A person who's secure in their shit could stomp such talk trivially.
You're just weak. And that's not down to your possession or lack thereof of a v-card.
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If you'd stop whining about it nobody would goddamn know you colossal retard.
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How can anyone take you seriously when you make being a virgin your whole identity and have this paranoia everyone knows you never had sex?
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Fuck the meme that people really don't give a shit about male virgins. They obviously do. Being a virgin past 18 = you have no game, you're ugly/unattractive, you're a pushover/dork, etc.

With that being said, your insecurity about the issue just exacerbates the stigma. You seem like a huge faggot, all things considered. And that can't be fixed just by getting your dick wet.
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>>18291241
because being a virgin in your adult years means that you're either a sore loser or incompatible with women in general
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>>18291267
Yeah, there is definitely a stigma against male virgins and it's seen as a red flag. Probably because of pre-selection.

But the good news? It's not the end of the world because nobody has to know you're a virgin. Work on social skills, read up on women's forums where they talk about what they like in sex (so many dudes are only worried about their own orgasms, which is why so few woman regularly have orgasms with a male partner; being different in this area will make them wanna hold onto you), have sex, and she doesn't have to know that you took her virginity until you've already formed a solid relationship, at which point, it will no longer be a de breaker. If anything, confessing to her at that point will be romantic.
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>>18291288
>and she doesn't have to know that you took her virginity

*That she took your virginity

Yeah, I should probably clarify not letting people know when you're taking their virginity is highly illegal.
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>>18290953
Wew lad. your post is the biggest faggot post of the day.
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>>18290948
Literally nobody even considers somebody's virginity in normal situations.
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People concerned about others judging their virginity like it was written on their foreheads...

You fuckless faggots fail to notice that nobody will even know you're a virgin, except if you are so retarded and act like a sperg so much that the reasons for your virginity are so obvious that you can only obviously be a virgin

>tl;dr: nobody gives a fuck that you're virgin, people don't take you seriously because you're a sperglord
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I'm a 22 year old virgin, and people definitely do look down on you for being a virgin, even though they'll never admit to it. What's really annoying though is that they'll shame you for complaining about it, by saying that you're the only one who cares about male virginity, or that you have an atitude problem, etc.
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34 year old virgin here.

I read 24/7 on this shitty chinese cartoon image board about how bad it is being a virgin, que: the spamming memes and low IQ retarded spam people do, cause they have nothing of value to say outside of mockery. ( We all know you are a virgin just by posting frogs, porn and anime photos. )

...

Anyway.

OP you sound like a puke who tries too hard to fit inn and instead comes off as a sperg.

Just by what you typed out, I'd cast you out.

I never had any issues being a leader. No one questions my sexuality/virginity status. Cause I don't live in a shithole inbred town, like you apparently do.

But. I chose to be a virgin, as I have no desire to get laid or have children. I don't find the act of sex appealing, nor does masturbation do anything for me except to clean the pipes, as it's healthy for you.

So maybe that's why inn my case. Virginity doesn't really exist.

Think about that. You are never going to fly into space, or set foot on mars. Someone someday will, few have gone into space. Yet... No one makes a big whoop too that.

Think of virginity like that. Its just nothing, will always be nothing.
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Everyone ITT is full of shit and doesn't know what they're talking about

All of my coworkers are married with children
Do you know what happens when you go to your work for years and they never hear about your significant other, your kids, your marriage? When they never see pictures of your family around, or when you say "not much" about your weekend?

THEY THINK YOU ARE A PEDERAST WEIRDO
EVERYONE KNOWS

if you grew up with a circle of friends and you've gone through high school and college and they've never seen you with girls EVERYONE FUCKING KNOWS

I hate them all, and I hate you all
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