TL;DR: Anything I need to know about taking a girl's virginity?
So there's a showmance between me and an actress. We flirt very heavily, escalating to me spanking her with props and us holding hands. She's very provocative for a 24-year-old virgin who wears a purity ring. We've basically just been overly friendly without me pushing her boundaries.
Tonight, we hung out by her car as we always do and she suggested we go for a walk. We ended up getting on a talk about her previous relationships, purity ring, values, my sex life, and what was brewing between us. Eventually I kissed her and when we got back to her car we made out for a good half hour.
It escalated pretty quickly. She said I was the first guy she'd ever been this handsy with. Butt grabbing and spanking, neck biting, I stroked her thighs firmly which made her quiver and gasp. I didn't go for tits or vagina because that's where her boundaries were
She made a few references to the forbidden nature of what we were doing. I jokingly moved her hands to my crotch but stopped and she said "thanks for stopping. I don't know if I would've stopped myself if you didn't". She said "good thing we aren't horizontal, because both of our shirts would be off by now". We talked about virginity loss, I said "I've never taken someone's virginity, but I think I'd do I good job making it a good experience". She said "I think you will" and kissed me.
So yeah, I really just wanted to talk about it a bit (nobody who wants to know can know, nobody who can wants to), but I think there's a good chance I'll be her first. What do I need to know about taking someone's virginity?
>>18287553
It's best when you have a way with words. It's like lick the slick slit. Those sorts of tongue-twisters. You know?
be gentle and considerate of her feelings. make sure as you're putting it in you ask her if she's okay or if it hurts too much.
Also, don't pressure her into fucking you, women know what they want, if she's tryna bang you, it will happen naturally.
Deflowering a female is something that every man should do at least once in their lives.
>>18287553
She's not a virgin.
"actress" = porn star
Welcome to the social media century
>>18287560
I think I'm picking up what you're putting down
>>18287575
I've been very respectful of her boundaries but she seemed as though she'd moved the boundaries tonight. Still Don't plan on pushing it
>>18287585
Shut up dummy, we're small town community theatre actors
>>18287553
It's a funny situation to be in, OP. Just be respectful of her and never make her feel that she "has" to go forward with anything. What happens will happen.
Similar thing happened to me, after a year of second-base messing around with my girlfriend she brought up "just the tip" one night, kinda took me by surprise to be honest. Make her feel secure and take it seriously and you'll be fine.