Im honestly in love with my best friend. She and I spend almost all of our time together and have gotten to know each other so well throughout the last semester. She just started moving on from a rocky relationship with a total douche and is feeling a lot better. Due to reasons I can't say or I'd lose some anon status we can't really date because it'd be pretty taboo. There's another guy who I know is into her and she says that she'd consider the idea of going out with him. He's a great guy and I have literally nothing against him. Trouble is last night at a party he got wasted and was sorta pretty handsy with her and I couldn't bear to see it. I don't know what to do. This is probably the most beta I've ever felt but I'm like totally powerless in this situation. No I'm not fat fucking reeee who lives in his parents basement. probably 7/10 could be better if I lifted more but oh well. It's just she doesn't see me in a romantic way. I need help
>>18285811
Where's the risk?
>It's just she doesn't see me in a romantic way.
She isn't into you. And even then, you say it's be taboo. What else is there to do? You don't have a shot here. Start looking elsewhere.
>>18285819
I think I sorta know that's what I should do it's just I don't want to admit that. I had sorta moved on but last night just put me back to square one
>>18285811
does she have a sister?
yes: you're in business
no: find her separated at birth twin.
>>18285829
Again, what do you want to hear? Move on. Try to meet other girls. Try to find someone that actually likes you. Spend less time with her if that fucks you up.
>>18285831
She sadly does not. And honestly it's more of the connection that I have with her that makes me more into her
>>18285833
Thanks man. I think it's what I need to hear just not what I want to hear