How to get better at deepthroating?

Apparently I had been doing bjs all wrong for the longest time and you're supposed to use your hand and mouth to create one long continuous up and down stroke. Like you're giving a hand job, and then add mouth. Rather than just trying to fit it all in your mouth. At least thats what my bf said. Also for gag... you can apparently squeeze your fist and it will go away. I don't know why.

Also bring some personality into it. Moan while your dicks in his mouth, vibrating it slightly, and tell him how great it tastes. Smile and make eye contact. Worship his dick. He's a guy so his ego is directly linked to it after all.

>>18284520
For me the attitude is a lot more important than technique. I don't imagine it's easy to shove a cock down your throat, so you don't have to be perfect at it, lol. Just do little things to make it sensual, show that you enjoy making him feel good. Eye contact, smiling, rub his legs & abs while you're doing it, stuff like that.

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As a man I can confirm every man fucking loves this. It lets him know that you are pleasuring HIM. There's honestly nothing better than a girl who just doesn't break eye contact when giving head, good fucking lord, makes me thick just thinking about it.

>>18284557
I do all that stuff already, though eye contact can sometimes be difficult (idk it can feel straining sometimes?). My gag reflex is not a problem, it's fairly non existent. The problem is mostly choking on my own saliva and breathing. Especially when he's actually fucking my throat it gets a bit difficult.

>>18284560
He knows I enjoy sucking him off, I have difficulty leaving his dick alone. I beg him quite often to take his dick out, and he can't take it out without me immediately going for it. So I am very very very enthusiastic. Though I will try rubbing him more during.
With smiling you mean like in between when having a quick breather right?

>>18284599
>He knows I enjoy sucking him off, I have difficulty leaving his dick alone. I beg him quite often to take his dick out, and he can't take it out without me immediately going for it. So I am very very very enthusiastic.

marry me femanon, you are one in a million

>>18284616
Really, is it that uncommon?

>>18284625

Yes, very. Especially nowadays with the extreme feminism going on. Bitches forget the joys of pleasuring your SO and focus more on "muh equality" and who wears the pants in the relationship.

As for the advice I'd reinforce what has been said. Practice but focus more on the "selling" of it: eye-contact, carresing, general foreplay/teasing, etc.

You have my compliments for actually trying to be a good gf (as wierd as it sounds)

>>18284520
Learn and believe this - it is coming from a man.

Deep throat is not an act of love. It is an act of aggression. As a matter of fact, most of the bj pleasure for a guy comes from tongue action around and near the head. Deep penetration adds very little

What it DOES add is the thrill of conquest - "Look what I got the dumb bitch to do"

>>18284838
We have very aggressive sex usually, so I don't mind that it's not a passionate act. He really likes it when I deepthroat him, and I just want to get better at it for him, plus it's fun to do. Obviously it's not the only thing I do while sucking him off, I usually use my hand (which I twist while moving up and down), and flick my tongue around the head while sucking.

>tfw dick to big to get deepthroated

>>18284838
bullshit

>>18285617
I certainly don't have lovey dovey sex if im fucking her throat.

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>>18284838
>notuthisshittuagain
Oh god you are fucking pussywhipped and brainwashed...

Yeah, it can be about dominance which is a completely natural and healthy part of sexuality. Don't educate people on what they have to do in their bedrooms you authoritarian millenial.

That being said DP also feels fucking great, no man ever comes from tickling the tip of his cock. That's bs and makes me believe you are a feminist roastie in disguise....

>>18285750
We usually have aggressive sex, rather than lovey dovey, so I don't see what's the problem. My bf just likes to show me I'm completely his, and I like it too.

>>18284832
Literally 3/4 of my friends love giving blowjobs.

>>18284838
>"Look what I got the dumb bitch to do"

More like...

>my manliness score is higher than all the men she wouldn't do deepthroat/anal/FFM/etc for

It really is, but we try to act like it isn't that way because we don't want men to compete over their manliness score. Male competition is the cause of and solution to all of life's problems.

All I do is deepthroat really. It's an angle thing. I like pushing my tongue against his dick when I go down on him and squeezing it really tightly. Really I've learned coz I ask my boyfriend for feedback. You will get better :)

>>18285817
/adv/ - women with high scores and men with low scores

>>18285814

B-bu-but y-yo-you are a st-strong woman, why do you go with this mean j-jock, i-instead of m-m-me who respects women!

I-I-I-I am such a n-n-nice guy!! ;^)

If you choke on your salvia spit it on his cock/balls and rub your face over it. Time to catch breath and hot. That's what my ex did.

Oh my, I feel pretty fucking gay giving advice about DP techniques...

>>18285818
He's my first, so everything is something I wouldn't do for another man desu

>>18285825
Hahahaha! Yeah ''nice guys'' are annoying. My bf might be very dominant in the bedroom and aggressive, outside he treats me like a Queen. Something a beta can never truly provide.

>>18285836
I'll try that, thanks!

I think you should start giving him a rimjob to spice things up.

>>18285880
Yeah no. -.- we're both not interested in that

>>18284520
You can start by killing yourself you useless waste of space

>>18284520
>only lost my virginity recently so I'm inexperienced.
I have to say, honestly - this intense, hardcore porn-style sex is a rookie mistake. That kind of thing can be really hot sometimes, but you gotta build up to it. Porn is about making sex visual, pushing to extremes in performance, etc. Real sex is best when it's all about affection.

Best advice I can give you is to take your time when you're making each other feel good. Don't just try to finish him off as quickly as you can, that's not a sign of a job well done. Spend some time on foreplay, tease him, edge him, etc. Think slow, smooth and affectionate.

That comes with experience too, though. Hopefully you guys get to a point where you're not trying so hard to "perform" for each other, and you can just focus on doing what feels good

>>18285965
>"perform" for each other, and you can just focus on doing what feels good

It feels good for them, -bc as she repeatedly stated- they both like rough sex. No reason to give us this top down wannabe wise lecture old geezer.

People might have other preferences than you, even some that might seem unappealing , because of your upbringing, personality or bias. None of your business, grow up.

>>18285965

I am 27 and definetely not a rookie when it comes to sex and I gotta say you are pretty detached from reality. Most girls I meet are in my age range and most of them (all of them from various backgrounds) enjoy rough fucking, actually asking me to choke them and so on. Not because they want to perform, but they are honestly wired to enjoy it and so am I.
I think the real problem here is that these preferences don't fit into the idealized view you have on sexuality and women, so you are looking for an alternative explanation.

>>18285965
We're both /fit. people with a lot of aggression, and sex helps us relax and release. Obviously we don't only do it rough, but it's just our favourite way to do it. Different flavours for different people.
I don't try to finish him off as quickly as I can, I thought my OP was clear enough that I strive to please him as much as possible? Who says I don't do teasing etc.?
I'm not exactly trying to perform, I just love sucking his dick, I like the feeling of having his dick in my throat, I like the reaction that I get from him, I want to do it more and get better at it. We do the opposite of 'performing', we let go of our inhibitions, going completely wild is strangely relaxing.

>>18286032
>We're both /fit
pics of ass in yoga pants or it didn't happen

>>18286039
1. I'm not going to post any pics of myself on 4chan.
2. Only my boyfriend is allowed to gawk at my ass, because it's his.

What age are you OP?

>>18285895
Assholes are pretty damn sensitive. I wouldn't mind giving it a lick once in a while.

>>18286421
If Bill Nye has successfully converted you to the temple of butt stuff then use rotors instead.

>>18286428
Good idea actually. Will bring it up next time. Just having it slightly touched by my girl is enough to drive me wild sometimes.

>>18284520

omg!, OP. You are the GF that every one needs.

are you really do have this intimacy to your BF?

>>18286301
>>What age are you OP?

Who let Anthony Weiner on this site?

>>18286635
Yeah I do have this intimacy with my boyfriend, I want to do my best to pleasure him :)

>>18286301
19

Can u stop attention whoring it's r ally triggering
Kill urs f pls