Someone help me fix my life...

>>18284303
I got a bit emotional so theres a few typos but use your best judgement.

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This will pass anon, no matter how bad it seems you are only able to think about the worst case senario, but your not taking into account the random blessings the universe gives us, for one you are becoming more self aware, that in itself is a gift that will help bring you to where you want to be, you are rid of fake friends, now you can make room for real ones! Keep on being introspective and be patient, that is the hardest part, be patient, keep learning about yourself and bettering yourself and things will fall into place, you'll see. A great YouTube life coach that helped me a lot is named Leo from actualized.org, he goes into great depth about many topics and I'm sure you could benefit from it. Good luck buddy! I'm sending good vibes and well wishes your way!

read gorilla mindset by mike cernovich

it may help

>>18284303
You're wrong.
Most people are not in the social work business.

It takes a hell of a lot of effort to be friendly with someone just because you pity them, and very, very few people care enough to bother

So, whatever you think, if people hung out with you it is because they liked it. There really is no other reason for them to bother.

And if you could inspire friendship before you can do it again. Just accept it when it's offered.

>>18284851
> if people hung out with you it is because they liked it. There really is no other reason for them to bother.
So are you implying that no one chooses to be friends for the company they keep but rather that there's something to gain from being friends with that person? Then isn't that just business? The act of doing something with hopes of something in return. I'm sick of the phony friends who only see you for the money in your wallet. You think I care for all the fake people out there? This worlds degrading by the minute and you people still cling to false hopes like it's going to change the world.

>>18284933
Read the sentence you greentexted, one word at a time. "because they liked it" - that covers everything from enjoying your company, through it being better than nothing, to hoping to gain something.

Why do we do ANYthing? Either because it's fun (defined however the individual wishes) or because it is imposed on us from outside.

The point is that VERY few people get "fun" from hanging out with someone out of pity. And after the age of 6 or so you don't play with someone because your parents make you. So there must be some pleasure element in OP's company for those who choose it.