Some adorable conservative meme girl qtp2t messaged me first

>>18283675

Relax. She is not your dfuture wife, she is not your last shot. She is a person. Just say "hi" and let a conversation develop.

>>18283691
We've already been talking though, I just feel like I'm at a dead end. I don't think she'll be my wife, but I'd like to attempt atleast one successful relationship.

>>18283703
>I'd like to attempt atleast one successful relationship.

That's your first mistake. She is not a goal to achive. If you date her to be able to say "I had a successful relationship", then she'll probably be turned off really quick. No one wants to be a trophy.

Also, what's even a "successful relationship"? When does it become "successful"? When you get laid?

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>>18283719
You're miss understanding me, I would like a legitimate GF to do things with, hang out with, etc. I don't care about getting laid. I care about finding someone to like and enjoy who also returns the feelings.

That's a successful relationship.

>>18283746

> I would like a legitimate GF

So "a" girl. Does any girl work? You don't like a person, youl ike an idea. Again, you want a trophy. That's not a healthy relationship.

Ok, so your goal is not sex. Fine. You still want to check "had a GF" off your list.

>>18283761
Holy shit, you're retarded. Get off of this board as you shouldn't be giving people advice.

>>18283761
>wanting 'a girl for companionship' is bad

>>18283771
>>18283775

Wanting "A" girl, as in "ANY girl will do as long as I get a GF", yeah, that's dumb. That's wanting the idea of a relationship. Try meeting someone actually worth the time.

>>18283785
Move more goalposts.

>>18283785
Did you even read the OP post, he was talking about a specific female who had been messaging him.

>>18283791

Sorry? So the goal is not, and I quote, "attempt atleast one successful relationship."?

Maybe I just read your post wrong.

>>18283794

Yeah, but read the following post. He wants "a successful relationship". Then he wants a "legitimate GF".

He likes this one because she messaged him, so he sees he has a shot. But now he can't even talk to her, because they don't have enough in common. It happens, he should try again with another one, maybe having it click some more. Or just say fucking "hi" and go from there.

What's to ruin here? She is a stranger. He doesn't want to fuck up the potential of a relationship. And that's his problem. He is not talking to a person. He is trying to cross of "GF" from his goal list.

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>>18283803
No, we have a 92% match on OKCUPID. So we've got plenty in common, my issue is that I prefer to talk in person and I don't like texting. I always hit a wall through text.

Should I just straight up ask her to meet up, desu that might solve this whole issue.

>>18283826
>we have a 92% match on OKCUPID

Yeah, that's not hard science. Also, why use a text-based service if you are bad at texting? There's such a thing as speed dating, in real life.

But beyond that, do you think she'd say "yes" to a date? Why haven't you done that already?

>>18283675
>I prefer to talk in perso
Apps are fine for meeting but shit for getting to know someone. Meet up sooner rather than later.

>>18283826
>>18283834
How should I phrase it without sounding like a creep?

>>18283856

"Wanna go for a drink this Friday? I know this cafe/bar to hang out and talk."

I mean, maybe she is a Mormon or something and won't frink cofee or alcohol, but that0s up to you to know. I've never texted her.

>>18283860
I'm 21, she's 19. Anything else please?

>>18283861

My post was sarcastic. It was to show how stupidly easy it was. If you can't even ask her out, how do you expect to keep a conversation going on the date?

>>18283866
You're not very good at sarcasm, as that seemed like a fairly average response. I also wouldn't message that since it's so cliche. That's the main issue, being cliche.