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Forever alone

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Hi, f25 here.
I have succeeded: good job, great income, owns home, takes care of family, great friends and social life. But it seems I can't get a relationship that works. I had three bf since 19 but all those were abusive or toxic. I'm tired of this but I feel bad for not being able to grow a healthy established relationship. Is it that hard? Is anyone else feeling this way?
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>>18283521
Replace F with M. Same story.

Take ownership of it, of your journey to find a relationship. Start relationships, drop them when YOU feel them becoming toxic.

Take time to understand what you want. Why what you've had hasnt been that.

Outside of vague advice, i cant help you. The internet probably cant help you either. But dont let it hollow you out.

As one internet stranger to another, i sincerely hope things work out for you.
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>>18283521
It depends on some aspects such as places you live and people you know, so the difficulty may vary.

Where do you usually meet bfs?
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Feminism sacrificed the women for the sake of society. Freedom =/= happiness
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>>18283521
Welcome to the club, I just don't bother perusing relationships anymore.
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>not being able to grow a healthy established relationship

If you alreafy stated that your exes were abusive/toxic, it's not your fault. You can't grow anything on bad soil.

Gotta keep trying, that's the game for everyone
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>>18283730
Pursuing
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Relationships today are complicated, porn and obsession over looks has made everyone vain and picky.

And I'm not saying you're part of the problem, it's just that the dating pool right now has become poisoned because of it, ruining the experience for everybody.
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>>18283521
You're not forever alone if you had 3 relationships
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>>18283755
Thanks yea
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>>18283521
All 3 of your past bfs are abusive or toxic? You sure it's not something in you that attract that kind of people? Three times happening was no coincidence, girl.

Also, nurturing a healthy relationship is really hard to begin without adding the problems in today's world where distractions and entertainment are becoming easier to the point men and women would just rather go eat, pray, and love than going with up and downs living their lives with another people.
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>>18283521
sure do.

:<
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>>18283521
Were u at senpfam? Lets fuggg
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>>18283521
Assuming you are not obese will you be my gf?
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Another dude here, similar situation as >>18283632.

Best that can be done for the moment is quit looking outward. Focus inward. Continue improving yourself for yourself. Find out what makes you happy and work from there. With any luck a relationship will follow suit.
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