Posted about this a little while ago but I still need advice

>>18283428
Stop thinking. Seriously STOP thinking.

Now, ask yourself: do i want this girl as girlfriend? Yes?

Then ask her on date. When she tells you something you dont understand, fucking ask her. And no, you generally dont obtain gfs by ignoring them. Ask her on date. Asap.

DATE THE BITCH! And buy condoms.

>>18283538
That's something I forgot to say, we've been on about 5 dates.

why communism kills?

you told her that you "forgave her"...
big mistake op!
basically its over, get in first and dump her before she dumps you
move on and find the next one, bonus points if its one of her friends

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>>18283428

Maybe its just me coming from a generation where we didn't have cell phones or internet to be constantly in contact with each other but isn't it a good thing that the girl you're interested in is capable of entertaining herself and just unplugging for a few days?

Would you rather be six months down the line and have the opposite? A girl that can't go half a day without talking to you or needing something from you?

I don't really understand this mindset, nor exactly what she did that requires your forgiveness. Its not like she's your girlfriend. I think its super healthy for people to be able to just exist without each other for brief periods of time and not be so enveloped in each other that not constantly interacting with the other person is viewed as some kind of betrayal.

I don't understand how its a negative trait for the girl you're seeing to actually have the state of mind to know when to put down her phone and focus on herself and her own well being for a few days. Maybe if you guys actually start dating making sure to preface these little breaks with conversations first will be more of an emphasis but I don't see how taking some personal time away from a relationship is considered unhealthy, nor do I see how you punishing her no contact by not contacting her back is productive. Shouldn't you be having this conversation with her?

Is it not good that she can go a few days and not need you? Isn't that the kind of independence you 4chan fuckers are always whining about women not having?

>>18283428
dude man up. never I repeat never wait on a women, she probably has already lost all respect for you in that you said it was OK she ignored you for days. This girl is testing you and you've already failed badly, you should ignore her texts, calls until she's asking what she did wrong. Then you don't say anything and just casually ask her if she wants to hang out. If she says yes you pick something that you're doing, do not ask her opinion it's your way or the highway.

>>18284092
I already talk to other women, sleep with other women. This isn't a serious thing right now. You're making a lot of assumptions.
>>18284111
You answered none of the questions and you're also making a lot of assumptions. What are you so upset about?
>>18284161
We do what I want 80 percent of the time and again, still seeing other girls.

I'm not asking about her behavior, I'm asking about my own. If my behavior is symptomatic of any issue in myself.

Answer the questions, guys. Stay focused. I'm not asking for dating advice, here, I can handle that myself and if I'm juggling 4 girls then I can't be doing that bad.