I met a girl in a city while visiting another country, she lives in another city. Now I'm planning to travel and go meet her where she lives. I don't know if she even wants me there. I'm spending hundreds to go to place I never really wanted to visit just just to maybe see her... am I wasting my time? I told her I was thinking about going and she's not saying "i don't want to hang out with you" but deep down I don't think this is worth it...
Unless you already talked to her about being there, this has failure written all over it
That's called stalking
>>18283000
>>18283018
I did tell her im going and she said we'd meet up for dinner or beer. Im just unsure thats all.
Trust your gut.
>>18283045
Trust your nut.
>>18283038
Did you make your intentions clear enough? Like, obviously not saying that you want to kiss her or anything, but that you're going to spend time with her?
Otherwise she might just go out with you once and call it a day. That's the kind of thing you want to plan very carefully before doing...
>>18283045
>>18283051
Got it.
>>18283059
I think so. Since i met her and her (female) friend 2 weeks ago ive been chatting with her and whatsapp and she always responds so its a good sign. I'll trust my nuts and guts like anon said and just enjoy myself. Thanks for the response