Long story short
I'm 19 and my wife is 27 and we used to have regular sex, often multiple times a day
In the month of April we had sex 3 times
It feels like shes never in the mood, i always have to initiate, long foreplay and when it finally gets to it its always in the bed, missionary and honestly its getting boring
We used to do stuff all over the house and now she wont even give me a handjob
How do i get a decent sex life again?
>>18282064
3 times in one month is better than it is for some people, but I get what you're saying. How do you feel about seeing someone on the side, not for a relationship, but just for sex?
>>18282067
I wouldn't really consider that to be honest
>>18282068
Then you've got to talk with her about it. It's not reasonable to expect for things to change if you're not upfront with her about what you would like to be different.
>>18282072
She knows I want to have more sex
I havent said it outright but she knows through me trying to have sex with her that i would like to
And i honestly wouldnt know what to say...
"Have more sex with me"?
>>18282076
"She Knows"
"I haven't said it". People aren't mindreaders, common misconception.
Fucking hell, just tell her straight out what you want. Don't think about it, just start complaining that you aren't getting enough sex, so what can both of you do to get more.
>>18282076
Tell her how you feel and ask how she feels about it. Understanding how each other thinks and feels about it is a good start.
>>18282095
>>18282092
All right ill try this
Thanks man