I'm 25, /fit/ single guy. Never had a girlfriend before. I am going to be moving across the country in a few month for a fresh start. I have a close friend who lives out there, so this week I'm visiting. He was showing me around the area today, and god damn there is a lot of cute girls here. Which is something I'm not used to. Him and his girlfriend both said they want to help me get one. But you know what? I don't know if I want one anymore. Him, his girlfriend, and I were hanging out all day today. And just obversing them.. I can't imagine myself like that. Just how they interact with each other. From small annoyances to dumb love. I thought it was really weird, and I can imagine myself acting like that. Sometimes I think a girlfriend could be cool. But I can't act like they did.
Anyone else feel this way? Is dating and all that shit not meant for everyone?
Get rich and use gold diggers as cum containers. Thats your best bet OP
>>18280994
Why?
>>18280979
there's most likely someone of the opposite sex just like you. or compatible with your outlook on relationships. just talk to those who interest you and stop talking to those who don't.
>>18280979
Your friend and his girlfriend's relationship doesn't represent every relationship out there. Everybody acts differently when they're in love, some act lovey-dovey, while others keep it hidden. Not every relationship is the same.
>>18280979
Your not alone that's for sure I'm a 20 year old male have an athletic body and look average, the thing is i don't wait for girls to make moves I'm just not really interested in relationships because i feel like i can't really stay with a person forever and i just don't really care about having one i like being by myself of course i have close friends but those friends are really the only people i talk to, but i can relate with ya brother I've had multiple people and family tell me when am i getting a girlfriend and i just say eventually.
27 here and in a similar situation, just keep working on yourself and your life, you just haven't met the right one yet. Enjoy the single life in the meantime and try one night stands instead. If youre not up for that aswell, at least make sure that you get out enough. Girls can't find you if you stay inside too often.
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>>18281558
I don't believe the whole "there is someone for everyone" thing
>>18280979
It's OK, OP. Not all relationships are the same. Give it a chance. Yours doesn't have to be the same as your friend's
>>18282400
The thing is, most of my friends have similar relationships with their girlfriends/wives. There is nothing wrong with their girlfriends. I get along with all of them, they are cool. But god damn, the lovey dovey shit is something I could never do. Last night my friend, his girlfriend, and I went out to get dinner. we had a good time. But there would be periods where him and his girlfriend would just stare at each other and I'd just be twiddling my thumbs.. every once In a while she'd grab a bite of his food or give him a kiss. I could never do that shit