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How do I accept the fact that I will have a child?

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My wife is pregnant. We have been together for about 8 years, we are both mid 20. I am going to be a father in November.

This is all my wife talks about, but I struggle even saying it, and we have just started telling other people. Part of me feel like my life is over. I want to escape. I don't feel like I'm at that stage of life yet.

I feel like I have missed some of by best years of being young because I have been in a relationship since I was 17. And now my wife is pregnant and I feel like my life is ruined, wasted. I just want to escape, go back to being 17 and do things differently.

I can't be the only one that felt this way. How do I turn my thoughts around, all I see is negativity? I want to be young and stupid.

How is this a good thing? I know I am selfish, and that is why I don't think I'm ready for this.

Help me, I feel like my life is over.
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Your life with your kid are going to be tge best years of your life. Grow up. Also get a DNA test.1 out of 3...
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>>18280328

>Help me, I feel like my life is over.

It isn't. You're being a mood cunt going through growing pains. Its perfectly natural, just don't get so caught up with it that you forget to be a good father and a good husband.

You did this. Your decisions led up to this. Take responsibility for your actions and your life. Be a man. Your wife and child are going to need you to stand tall.

Its ok to be scared, just know when its time to let go of the self pity and focus. Kids or not, you can't be a kid forever. Those days are over now and you have to let them go. You have lives depending on you now. Time to step up.

As soon as that kid pops out your life and happiness are no longer the priority.
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>Be sure it's yours.
>see it for first time


All those things you said op are true. You are selfish. You don't sound like you are at that stage of life. you have thrown away freedom during prime years by being locked with 1 woman. It was much easier being a boy


Tuff rocks dad... you need to be a man now. It will be a little easier once you hold your child. But properly raising human beings is hard stuff desu
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>>18280328


Also, OP, try to avoid completely destroying your marriage and family before it even starts by accusing your pregnant wife of cheating on you with absolutely no proof because a bunch of virgins on the internet told you to.
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>>18280328
>my life is over
Wrong. Now you finally left the tutorial area. This is the start.
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I want to have a kid so bad I wish I was in your place. I'd be a pressure cooker of joy.
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>>18280328
You get to relive your childhood through your kids anyway. If you think about it like that it's exactly what you want. Especially if you have a son you'll be able to be as young and stupid as you want.
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