How do I stop being a needy man? Everytime I date a girl and

Get a life?

>>18279804
Maybe start doing something in your free time which allows you to not think about your gf?

Books, videogames, sport, friends, drugs, shitposting?

You have to balance your life between:
work
relationships
yourself

>>18279804
I get needy myself sometimes.
First, give her some space.
Next, realize that you're fine without her. You'll see her again sometime. You don't need validation.
Think about why you feel so needy. Is it sexual frustration? Longing for intimacy? In any case, realize that it takes patience. Don't get hung up on it. Go about your business.

If it really bothers you that much, talk to a close friend or even a therapist about it.

>>18279804
Enter each relationship with the notion and acceptance that it will fail and that you can walk away from it at any time.

>>18279984
That's a terrible attitude to have going into a new relationship

>>18279988
Nah, works great. After six or so months the chick earns tour trust and affection. It's good to have none on the front end becore you actually know how she will treat you.

>>18279977
My therapist isn't there for the next weeks. It's more intimacy i think. I don't even hate myself but I wanna lose myself in her and make her lose herself in me. Life can be so dreadfully lonely

>>18280026
Man up you big girl

>>18280026
Unless you're doing hookups, take it slow. Appreciate the time you spend with a girl, and with time you'll get closer.
It sucks being lonely, but you have to deal with it. There are some perks to being by yourself.

>>18280071
i've only done hookups really and i used to be too slow/ didn't make moves at all. I wanna continue dating this girl but I'm not sure if she just wants to take it slow or if she's not interested. I don't even know how to take it slow?!

>>18280065
fuck you, pleb

>>18280026
Gayest thing I've read this month.