I'm a 27 year old female who has been in a relationship for 7 years. My boyfriend has an older brother and a younger sister. I am an only child and have started seeing the effects that this has had on me. I have social anxiety, I don't know how to let go of grudges and I don't understand sibling relationships. I feel irrationally threatened by his sister. I need help, I'm afraid this will tear us apart :(
What's the issue with his sisters? Are they aggressive towards you? Or are you unfamiliar with their closeness?
I am incredibly jealous of her. She's very beautiful, very fit, earns a lot of money and everyone likes her. I think it comes back down to my low self esteem and worrying that my boyfriend will fall out of love with me. I feel like if he is used to these exceptional women in his life, then I can't meet those standards. She has always been lovely to me.
>>18278269
Yeah I dont think its you being a lonely child. I think the reason you dislike her might be that she's better than you. Shit happenes famalam
>>18278269
learn from her and let it rub off on you rather than rub you up the wrong way. she's his sister for chrissake, not the competition.
>>18278269
Calm your tits ma'am.if she's okay with you it all good. Make a good relationship with her and she might improve you guys relationship. You could learn from her like
>>18278357 say..
you are just insecure about yourself. Very insecure.
My GF is the same, she has a brother though and I am looking for ways I can help her with.