Why am I so afraid of meeting girls?
I am twenty year old male virgin, but I am very good looking and charismatic in person, I dress nicely and am often center of attention at parties, or any other social meetings, I can woo girls pretty easily, but for the last two years I've been living an excluded life, now I finally got out and I want to meet girls, but I am too afraid to make the first move, or to have sex.
What should I do?
>>18277883
Post full body pic
>>18277897
No, I'm afraid of this, too.
That's my biggest problem, self-consciousness, everything I wrote is true, but only when I get drunk, if I'm sober I will have to deal with fear
>>18277883
Wait for your penis to make the first move. He makes a great wingman.
>>18277903
Yeah. This is probably the most sage advice, but I'm still afraid because I have never had sex.
Funny thing is that for the past four years I've been very sexually repressed, and when I flirted with girls I just went home, alone at the point where they were practically drooling all over me.
I realized that I depersonalize myself when I'm in erotic situations.
>>18277883
No.1 thing is fhe fear of rejection.
If you can get over that you should be fine
>>18278314
I've been rejected only once, but yes, I have this problem, that is why I leave before any chance of rejection.
And this is my egoism's fault.
I like to be loved, doesn't matter if I'm not interested in that person, I just like when someone likes me.
I hope if I ever have children that I will not spoil them and make them brats, like I am.