Girls and Sexuality

>>18275373
Men and women are not friends. It's always sexual energy that brings the 2 genders together. And after that you both can make a active decision if you wanna fuck or not. So in that sence you are pretty normal.

But the way you paint the picture is that you only make friends cause you want something in return, which is sex. Sounds kinda selfish.

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stop watching porn

stop masturbating

>i want to have sex with girls i interact with

you are a healthy male. just because you have a desire to bang a girl doesn't mean you have to try, like if it would be awkward or if she's out of your league or she has a boyfriend etc etc. wanting to bang girls is fine. you're fine.

>>18275393
lmao that'll make it worse

>>18275393
Dude, if I didn't bust a nut before going out I would would sexualize women ten times more

>>18275420
Dude, there are clinical studies linking pornography and excessive masturbation to the inability to develop and maintain close interpersonal relationships with the opposite sex.

>>18275433
So you just don't masturbate or look at porn anymore??

>>18275437
I'm down to like once a week but no one is perfect lol.

I can feel my libido changing and I care more about meeting up with people for genuine social reasons.

It's not that I still don't want sex, but since I left my ex I've wanted to expand my social circle and it seems to be helping.

>>18275440
I'm curious how if you don't mind answering.
I'll JO three times a day if I feel like it and I still hang out with my mates all the time, my issue isn't socially, it's recognizing girls as more than sex objects.
And maybe that's a moral thing. Maybe I believe that men and women are meant to fuck and my nonsexual friends are just suppose to be men.

>>18275448
I used to be the exact same. I am pretty sure that if you cut back to like once every other day you'll likely view women differently.

Porn literally trains you to view women as objects you can fuck rather than as people you can fuck.

It's a subtle change but I believe it to be real.

>>18275460
Interesting.

But I like porn. is it really giving up? I'm young and in university. I feel like If I give up this shot to fuck as much as I can and jerk off as much as I can that I may not get another and it will be MUCH harder when I'm older.

>>18275469
Lol man you'll probably get laid more if you lay off the porn.

I just finished my 3rd year at Uni and I'm still not at my peak. I look better every year and the girls I date are getting prettier too.

Porn is like a drug. It's dope but lowkey is causing the issues that you use porn to deal with.

>>18275481
Also you don't have to quit all together, but thrice a day is a bit much. I would never feel motivated to meet and befriend that ladies if I came that often.

>>18275481
>>18275485
So what do you suggest as an alternative?
I'm motivated to meet people, it's just caring about them that I find to be the problem. I guess this COULD be because of porn, I honestly always just wrote it off to not giving a shit.

>>18275507
I am pretty sure it is the porn my fellow anon.

Get a bike, join a club. I would suggest vidya and reading but those are solitary activities that my encourage fapping.

The real problem is that you use fapping as a hobby. Get some real hobbies. Leave the house.

Drugs maybe? Source some LSD and become a wook.