What are some tips for being a good kisser? I've started dating again after being in a long term relationship. However, I got so used to the way me and the bf kissed that I'm not sure how to do it with other people. Advice from both men and women is welcome
>>18273989
bumping because I suck at kissing.
>>18273989
kissing is mad wack, just bite the neck
>>18274005
Move your lips. Kiss theirs. Sometimes, lick their lower lip a little with your tongue.
People kiss differently, there's no step-by-step instruction to give you on how to kiss. Why don't you just kiss your new person like you kissed your old boyfriend? I don't see how that would be a problem.
>>18273989
Dont kiss too hard, that doesnt feel good
Dont use too much tongue, match the amount of their tongue with your tongue
Dont have your lips be loose and do nothing, makes it feel like you're not into it
Be soft with your lips, it should come naturally
Kissing is more of a question of what not to do than what to do. As long as you stay relaxed and keep your kisses gentle then your body should find the rhythm. That being said, changing up your kisses while making out is fine too. Going from soft and passionate to fast and lustful is fine as long as it isnt just one the whole time.
>>18274025
It's been a few years since me and the ex broke up and this guy I've started seeing is the first person I've had feelings for since then. I think I just want our first kiss to be really good and not awkward or anything.
>>18274076
In that case, I think you should just accept that it probably won't be good, and that's okay.